i wasnt really interested in dating until i was 17.5ish. different games for different people.

just become friends with her. Maybe when you get a wee bit older, when she starts getting irritable every 28 days. Then maybe try asking her out.

intense thread.

 

 

 

Not as intense as camping!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

.... get it? In-tense, in-tents. LOL.

Well, let me tell you something. If you're 10 then at the most just be friends. I remember that there was ONE kid who "dated" in my class when I was 10 and everyone thought he was icky. Granted two years later everyone knew what was up, but still.

 

 

 

At this point I would just be friends, but not like uber tell everything friends. If it gets to that point then you pretty much sink a chance of a relationship, because when one of you rubs the other the wrong way or says something or does something the other doesn't like then you're pretty much sunk on both fronts, unless both of you are mature, forgiving people. Unfortuantely lots of people you'd think would be aren't, so be careful.

 

 

 

Good luck with everything mang. And a word of advice - follow your parents advice and do whatever your parents tell you since they probably got so far as to marry, so they MUST have done something right. Unless they're like George McFly from Back to the Future who married someone on a fluke (in the unaltered pre-time-travel timeline) and through no effort of their own.

 

 

 

Lots of weird crap like this happening to me at the moment as well. Just stay level-headed and reasonable, and if you don't want to talk to your parents then find somebody at least 15 or 16 whom you know reasonably well and trust and get advice from them.

And they start throwing punches....

 

 

 

 

 

last I checked a 10 year old does not have the maturity to understand what love is, in any sense. Its pretty simple and I've only repeated it 4 times throughout this short but intense thread.

 

 

 

1) I'm not a they but you can do your best to sound smart and detached by saying it.

 

 

 

2) Understanding love has nothing to do with it. There are tons of high schoolers who don't understand love and still "date." Where is your moral conviction there?

 

 

 

How do you know what age people can understand love? I'm not talking about love anyway, we're talking about a simple crush. You made a claim about egos, didn't back it up, and quickly changed the subject to "throwing punches" and love. That's lame, man. But as always, even after your long break, what can I expect?

Nothing wrong with having a little girlfriend. I had my first one at the age of 10 and it was just fun. She moved away, so that ended that...:P

 

 

 

Just hang out with her a lot? I don't think I've ever, ever asked a girl out. I just hung out with them a lot and after a while it was pretty much assumed.

 

 

 

Sort of the same. Never realy did anything, just kind of hung out. >_> .

As I said in my previous post there is nothing you can do at the age of 10. You are incapable of love aswell as the fact there is nothing you can do with a girl that age. I don't see how it can be healthy Ghostranger

 

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As I said in my previous post there is nothing you can do at the age of 10. You are incapable of love aswell as the fact there is nothing you can do with a girl that age. I don't see how it can be healthy Ghostranger

 

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Anyone can love someone at any age. You can't say that they're always wrong about who they love.

As I said in my previous post there is nothing you can do at the age of 10. You are incapable of love aswell as the fact there is nothing you can do with a girl that age. I don't see how it can be healthy Ghostranger

 

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I'm going to give you a couple of examples and ignore the silly "rolling eyes" emote at the end of your comment.

 

 

 

My girlfriends parents have been married for 30 years. They are more in love with each other every single day of their lives. I went down to Panama City with her and her family for 8 days and was witness to how much they love each other myself. The funny thing is, they were about eleven years old when they started "dating." He walked over to her house (they lived next door to each other) and brought her flowers and asker her to be his girlfriend. They dated through junior high, through high school, got married, and have been married ever since.

 

 

 

I have some friends who lived in Texas when my family lived there, and a few years after we moved to Kentucky, they happen to move to Kentucky as well (another city). They are quite a good deal younger than my parents, but my parents have been good friends with them for years because they are mature beyond their years. The reason they are mature beyond their years is because they have kids the same age as my parents. You see, this couple also started dating before you claim you can know what love is, or before you can do "anything with a girl." They, just the same as my girlfriend's parents, dated through junior high, through high school, and were married right after high school, and then had their first son. They have been happily married ever since.

 

 

 

There is a girl who lives down the street from me who I "dated" when I was in 7th grade. Of course I put it in quotes that we dated because in retrospect it was a rather silly affair, but I did have fun. When we were "dating" in middle school, we went through what everyone does - people telling us it won't work out. That no one marries people they dated in middle or high school. Obviously it didn't work out for us, but while we were "dating" she always ignored those people because she grew up in a house where she knew that her parents had started dating in middle school, dated all through high school, and married soon after. Her parents, just like my girlfriend's parents and my parents friends, have been happily married since.

 

 

 

I'm sure you now understand that you don't know at what age kids can find love and that you shouldn't judge just because you didn't find who you were going to marry when you were 10.

 

 

 

The next point I want to address is that you claim it doesn't do anything good. I had several "relationships" from 4th gade and up and I can tell you what all of them had in common: it didn't last but I sure as heck had fun! There's a bag of potato chips in front of me right now. I love eating potato chips even though I know it doesn't do anything good for me. I don't benefit from these potato chips, and in fact, eating too many can cause serious health problems. But I enjoy eating them so I'm going to eat them because sometimes it's perfectly okay to do things just because you enjoy them. There doesn't always have to be any reason besides that, and there certainly doesn't have to be some benefit from doing it except that you're enjoying yourself.

 

 

 

I hope now that you'll put away that silly rolling eyes emote.

 

 

 

EDIT: @Poopingman:

 

 

 

Feel free to apply the above to your own responses as well.

As I said in my previous post there is nothing you can do at the age of 10. You are incapable of love aswell as the fact there is nothing you can do with a girl that age. I don't see how it can be healthy Ghostranger

 

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ya what ur saying is that if i was age 10. (im 11) that i wouldnt be able to love anything or anyone. what about if i was 9 or 8......ya....might wanna work on you logic a lil....no wait....alot

I'm going to give you a couple of examples and ignore the silly "rolling eyes" emote at the end of your comment.

 

 

 

My girlfriends parents have been married for 30 years. They are more in love with each other every single day of their lives. I went down to Panama City with her and her family for 8 days and was witness to how much they love each other myself. The funny thing is, they were about eleven years old when they started "dating." He walked over to her house (they lived next door to each other) and brought her flowers and asker her to be his girlfriend. They dated through junior high, through high school, got married, and have been married ever since.

 

 

 

I have some friends who lived in Texas when my family lived there, and a few years after we moved to Kentucky, they happen to move to Kentucky as well (another city). They are quite a good deal younger than my parents, but my parents have been good friends with them for years because they are mature beyond their years. The reason they are mature beyond their years is because they have kids the same age as my parents. You see, this couple also started dating before you claim you can know what love is, or before you can do "anything with a girl." They, just the same as my girlfriend's parents, dated through junior high, through high school, and were married right after high school, and then had their first son. They have been happily married ever since.

 

 

 

There is a girl who lives down the street from me who I "dated" when I was in 7th grade. Of course I put it in quotes that we dated because in retrospect it was a rather silly affair, but I did have fun. When we were "dating" in middle school, we went through what everyone does - people telling us it won't work out. That no one marries people they dated in middle or high school. Obviously it didn't work out for us, but while we were "dating" she always ignored those people because she grew up in a house where she knew that her parents had started dating in middle school, dated all through high school, and married soon after. Her parents, just like my girlfriend's parents and my parents friends, have been happily married since.

 

 

 

I'm sure you now understand that you don't know at what age kids can find love and that you shouldn't judge just because you didn't find who you were going to marry when you were 10.

 

 

 

The next point I want to address is that you claim it doesn't do anything good. I had several "relationships" from 4th gade and up and I can tell you what all of them had in common: it didn't last but I sure as heck had fun! There's a bag of potato chips in front of me right now. I love eating potato chips even though I know it doesn't do anything good for me. I don't benefit from these potato chips, and in fact, eating too many can cause serious health problems. But I enjoy eating them so I'm going to eat them because sometimes it's perfectly okay to do things just because you enjoy them. There doesn't always have to be any reason besides that, and there certainly doesn't have to be some benefit from doing it except that you're enjoying yourself.

 

 

 

I hope now that you'll put away that silly rolling eyes emote.

 

 

 

 

 

i agree! 100%

10 is too young for love.

 

 

 

13 is just right.

 

 

 

grace is soo hot. :3>

At ten you shouldn't get involved with "going-out". I'm 13 and I have a girlfriend, I started going out with her when I had no intentions to go out with anyone at all, then one day on our way back from the trip to Chicago she asked me. Now I say i had no intentions to go out with anyone because, until your in highschool, there's nothing you can really do, you can't go to the movies, your confidence is too low to ask your parents to do anything, you can't kiss (well, atleast in my mind you shouldn't until your older), and do such things that an actual couple would. So I'd say, wait, : It's worth it, and you don't look like a fool.

 

 

 

Also, until your in highschool, even I notice this at my age, saying your ''going out'' with someone means nothing, it simply means that you both accepted that you both "like" each other and that you both shouldn't "like" anyone else until you have broke up, which is quite an inevitable situation (another great reason to wait until highschool, better chance of getting married, which is the whole point of going out ain't it :wink: thats how I've always played it).

 

 

 

~T4A7D

They are quite a good deal younger than my parents, but my parents have been good friends with them for years because they are mature beyond their years. The reason they are mature beyond their years is because they have kids the same age as my parents.

 

I've read this over a few times, and however I look at it, I swear your saying that the younger couple has kids as old as your parents, HOW DOES THAT WORK OUT! your kids can't be older than yourself :wall:

I've read this over a few times, and however I look at it, I swear your saying that the younger couple has kids as old as your parents, HOW DOES THAT WORK OUT! your kids can't be older than yourself :wall:

 

 

 

Haha, sorry for making that confusing. They have kids the same age as my parents' kids. :P

Just Advice Stop flaming! :notalk:

I'm going to give you a couple of examples and ignore the silly "rolling eyes" emote at the end of your comment.

 

 

 

My girlfriends parents have been married for 30 years. They are more in love with each other every single day of their lives. I went down to Panama City with her and her family for 8 days and was witness to how much they love each other myself. The funny thing is, they were about eleven years old when they started "dating." He walked over to her house (they lived next door to each other) and brought her flowers and asker her to be his girlfriend. They dated through junior high, through high school, got married, and have been married ever since.

 

 

 

I have some friends who lived in Texas when my family lived there, and a few years after we moved to Kentucky, they happen to move to Kentucky as well (another city). They are quite a good deal younger than my parents, but my parents have been good friends with them for years because they are mature beyond their years. The reason they are mature beyond their years is because they have kids the same age as my parents. You see, this couple also started dating before you claim you can know what love is, or before you can do "anything with a girl." They, just the same as my girlfriend's parents, dated through junior high, through high school, and were married right after high school, and then had their first son. They have been happily married ever since.

 

 

 

There is a girl who lives down the street from me who I "dated" when I was in 7th grade. Of course I put it in quotes that we dated because in retrospect it was a rather silly affair, but I did have fun. When we were "dating" in middle school, we went through what everyone does - people telling us it won't work out. That no one marries people they dated in middle or high school. Obviously it didn't work out for us, but while we were "dating" she always ignored those people because she grew up in a house where she knew that her parents had started dating in middle school, dated all through high school, and married soon after. Her parents, just like my girlfriend's parents and my parents friends, have been happily married since.

 

 

 

I'm sure you now understand that you don't know at what age kids can find love and that you shouldn't judge just because you didn't find who you were going to marry when you were 10.

 

 

 

The next point I want to address is that you claim it doesn't do anything good. I had several "relationships" from 4th gade and up and I can tell you what all of them had in common: it didn't last but I sure as heck had fun! There's a bag of potato chips in front of me right now. I love eating potato chips even though I know it doesn't do anything good for me. I don't benefit from these potato chips, and in fact, eating too many can cause serious health problems. But I enjoy eating them so I'm going to eat them because sometimes it's perfectly okay to do things just because you enjoy them. There doesn't always have to be any reason besides that, and there certainly doesn't have to be some benefit from doing it except that you're enjoying yourself.

 

 

 

I hope now that you'll put away that silly rolling eyes emote.

 

 

 

EDIT: @Poopingman:

 

 

 

Feel free to apply the above to your own responses as well.

 

 

 

I'm just going to repeat what I've been saying all along. No 10 year old knows what love is.

 

 

 

I observe this as a silly infantile infatuation....which all of these are at this age. He "likes" her or whatever they say in this day and age. Its not love! :wall:

You know that for a fact, do you?

 

 

 

Your laws don't apply to everyone. Simple as. Especially on something as subjective as love/relationships.

You know that for a fact, do you?

 

 

 

Your laws don't apply to everyone. Simple as. Especially on something as subjective as love/relationships.

 

 

 

Sir, it may not be a fact, but noone can prove otherwise. Unless 10 year olds start getting married on a regular basis..and thats obviously just wrong.

Okay I'm 14. Bit old to give u advice on girls as u r 10. (they act diff at those ages)

 

 

 

Anyway best thing to do is ask her or get a m8 to do it for ya.

....its starting younger and younger these days...

 

 

 

 

 

:lol: :notalk:

 

 

 

 

 

my suggestion is to wate untill your around 14...then give it a go :wink: :wall:

Sir, it may not be a fact, but noone can prove otherwise. Unless 10 year olds start getting married on a regular basis..and thats obviously just wrong.

 

 

 

What about the three people who I gave as examples who started dating around that age and got married? What do you say about that?

Saying a 10 year old is incapable of love is like saying a 10 year old is incapable of watching SpongeBob and eating candy. They all do it. If you asked a billion 10 year olds if they loved their mom, every single one would say yes. 10 year olds know what love is...They've been told by their parents that they are loved every single day.

 

 

 

This isn't even about love, you dolts. It's about a 10 year old liking a 10 year old. Who the hell said they had marriage plans? At their age, "going out" just means you are really good friends and that kissing is an option.

 

 

 

God, some people are so...incapable.

 

 

 

Of thinking. At all.

What about the three people who I gave as examples who started dating around that age and got married? What do you say about that?

 

 

 

Good for them, then. They matured and found out what love is. That doesn't mean they knew it at age 10, which is what we are arguing about here.

Who even cares if it is love Poopingman?

 

Why can he not just date around and have fun while he's 10? That makes no sense at all.