malo2 Posted August 30, 2006 Share Posted August 30, 2006 Just dont waste time on relationships untill after highschool. Lastfm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
destroyon2 Posted August 30, 2006 Author Share Posted August 30, 2006 well im sorry i cant spell me + gramar is like a canibal that hates eatin people... and I KNO ive only cheated once and im gonna break up wit her tommrw i think cuz u guys have lots of good points..... but one question how do i get over her cuz all the other times ive wanted to end it i alwasy take her back cuz i miss her so much Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hasnol143 Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 LOL i geuss you should have thought before posting this thread. I dont get your girl friend cheating is a bad thing just like drinking... and i geuss her parents did the right thing. but if u realy like her do something very special and proove to her that you will stop drinking. It's hard to get over girls...trust me and the only way is to try finding another girl or change school lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deloriagod Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 well im sorry i cant spell me + gramar is like a canibal that hates eatin people... and I KNO ive only cheated once and im gonna break up wit her tommrw i think cuz u guys have lots of good points..... but one question how do i get over her cuz all the other times ive wanted to end it i alwasy take her back cuz i miss her so much Well you said you were done with school for a while so if you want to get your mind off of her, do something that takes a lot of concentration/hard work. Learn to program, read a long book, find the artist in your soul.. There's plenty of things to keep you from thinking of her and after a while you'll find a passion for something and lose interest in her altogether. Internet Marketing For Newbies Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hasnol143 Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 well im sorry i cant spell me + gramar is like a canibal that hates eatin people... and I KNO ive only cheated once and im gonna break up wit her tommrw i think cuz u guys have lots of good points..... but one question how do i get over her cuz all the other times ive wanted to end it i alwasy take her back cuz i miss her so much Well you said you were done with school for a while so if you want to get your mind off of her, do something that takes a lot of concentration/hard work. Learn to program, read a long book, find the artist in your soul.. There's plenty of things to keep you from thinking of her and after a while you'll find a passion for something and lose interest in her altogether. cold..but true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deloriagod Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 well im sorry i cant spell me + gramar is like a canibal that hates eatin people... and I KNO ive only cheated once and im gonna break up wit her tommrw i think cuz u guys have lots of good points..... but one question how do i get over her cuz all the other times ive wanted to end it i alwasy take her back cuz i miss her so much Well you said you were done with school for a while so if you want to get your mind off of her, do something that takes a lot of concentration/hard work. Learn to program, read a long book, find the artist in your soul.. There's plenty of things to keep you from thinking of her and after a while you'll find a passion for something and lose interest in her altogether. cold..but true. Yeah.. But trust me it works.. I had a crush on a girl and I asked her to homecoming and kind a 'maybe but probably not' so I figured if she didn't want to go to a dance with me she probably wouldn't want a bf/gf relationship with me.. I still have some feelings for her (She's my neighbor so I see her every day) but I really got into manga/anime drawing and it keeps my mind off of her.. Internet Marketing For Newbies Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hasnol143 Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 yeah it's hard to live without girls they light up a sparck in a boys soul and it never turns off....(I have no idea where i got that...). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Notorious_Ice Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 To the people who say drinking at that age is bad: Whats so bad about getting drunk at 14? As long as you drink in moderate amounts there isnt really anything wrong with it. Its better to start drinking a little younger, and building up to get yourself immune to it. So you dont go crazy at your 18th and pass out in the first couple hours. (which is exactly what i did my first time being drunk at 14, after about 3 drinks moderately, an hour or 2 later i skolled almost half a bottle of johnny walker red label and went out like a light in 15-20 mins (40%alc) Second time around, i had a 6 pack of red bear, a bundy and cola can and 4 shots of cowboy and didn't feel it at all, while there were people all around me at that party who were completely off their face. But to the people who just want to get drunk everytime they do drink, or if they are immature its not a good idea to start drinking at that age. And whoever made this topic: You havn't really posted enough info like if your fighting right now, and how easy it is to see each other etc. If your fighting right now but you still wanna go out with her, dump her. Then organise for you her and the friend to go out a couple times, if you do it right she will see what shes missing and come back and will be less likely to fight with you. If your not fighting now then why not see her anyway? She could just tell her parents shes going out with friends, and get them to drop her off somewhere. Or just move on to someone you wont fight with, if you keep fighting then its not worth being with her. But cheating on ur gf isnt cool. Answer yourself honestly, if she got drunk and cheated on you, what would you do? If the answer is dump her then its might be best you broke up. Don't be afraid your life will end, be afraid it will never begin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deloriagod Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 The reason you shouldn't drink at such a young age is because (at least in the US) it is illegal until you are 21 (maybe 18 elsewhere). Drinking can lead to problems and teens have enough issues without alcohol working against them.. Internet Marketing For Newbies Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Notorious_Ice Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 Where I live its 18. The government has to have drinking restrictions. Think of the uproar the country would cause if anybody could drink. But really, as long as the drinker is mature and responsible there shouldnt be a problem. I have been drinking for a few years, and never had a problem from it, because im mature and responsible. (Except maybe that first time I drank, and I stole a bike lol. but ended up giving it back the next morning cus i had no use for it anyway) Whereas someone who isnt might get drunk once, then go out and smash house windows, and beat up a random person with a shopping trolly handle. Thats when they have a problem, and thats the kind of person who shouldn't drink. Don't be afraid your life will end, be afraid it will never begin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Viv Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 Just dont waste time on relationships untill after highschool. um...when you can drive you can have a serious relationship but do not drink and drive. if you cheated on her you may not be able to get her back i know i wouldnot like a guy that cheated on me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
destroyon2 Posted August 31, 2006 Author Share Posted August 31, 2006 well she felt bad cuzi brang up the subject so idk how to break up wit her... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
d3nic Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 As said already, quit getting drunk.... Ask your self if you want a relationship, if you do, only you know what steps to follow. - Denic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SanFranciscoGiants Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 To the people who say drinking at that age is bad: Whats so bad about getting drunk at 14? As long as you drink in moderate amounts there isnt really anything wrong with it. Its better to start drinking a little younger, and building up to get yourself immune to it. So you dont go crazy at your 18th and pass out in the first couple hours. (which is exactly what i did my first time being drunk at 14, after about 3 drinks moderately, an hour or 2 later i skolled almost half a bottle of johnny walker red label and went out like a light in 15-20 mins (40%alc) Second time around, i had a 6 pack of red bear, a bundy and cola can and 4 shots of cowboy and didn't feel it at all, while there were people all around me at that party who were completely off their face. 1. Its illegal you can go to juvenille hall. 2. You can get caught by parents Just wait untill you do something stupid when your drunk youll see. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
destroyon2 Posted August 31, 2006 Author Share Posted August 31, 2006 ummm my rents dont care.... lol i got bad parents and home life.... and i kno thatsy im done today cuz it was my birthday:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Notorious_Ice Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 SanFranciscoGiants: Im smart enough not to get caught. And if i got caught by the cops (which i highly doubt, any parties ive been to that got raided by cops, everyone bailed and nobody got caught) i wouldnt go to juvie, first time offence i would get a warning and my parents contacted. They would ground me, which would do nothing, and then life goes on. Ive been drinking for years, and nothing bad has ever happened. Even if you are drunk, you still have control over yourself, So if i do something stupid it would be by my own accord, its not like you just do whatever. destroyon2: If you wanna break up with her, just say firmly that you don't think its working out, and that you just want to be friends. And don't back down. Don't be afraid your life will end, be afraid it will never begin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
destroyon2 Posted August 31, 2006 Author Share Posted August 31, 2006 ive tryed that before but like i always miss her so much after a day i cant go with out her but i got a idea... get someone lined up to go out with break u wit her and go out wit new chica:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
assassin_696 Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 From reading through this thread and what you've said, in my opinion, you don't deserve her. Either end it, and save the poor girl, or work hard at your relationship and stop getting drunk, what's the point at your age? Sort yerself out. "Da mihi castitatem et continentam, sed noli modo" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Notorious_Ice Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 Lol no offence or anything, but you sound desperate. Ok, flirt with another chick around her, your gf will probably either get jealous, or mad. (If she is mad, then she will also be at least a little jealous) If she is jealous then the will be nicer to you and do whatever she can to keep you. If this happens, if you want to, tell the other girl that ur gf is smothering you. (just make sure they don't really talk to each other) If ur gf gets mad, then you can still play your cards right so it works your way. She could bring it up, if she suggests your flirting with the girl just say you don't know what she is talking about and that she is just paranoid. If she is angry and TELLS you that your flirting with her then tell her how much she means to you, but angrily. There are way too many possibilities to explain them all. If you want any more help from me then give me a pm. Im aware that my methods might seem even manipulating to some, but it works. All GOOD relationships all involve a little fighting and careful choice of words, its all a part of attraction, and trying to keep the other person attracted. There is actually a science behind it. Just know this is just advice. it works, but its really hard to explain. I can't guarentee it will work, as you might not do it right. Don't be afraid your life will end, be afraid it will never begin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zonorhc Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 Or you could, you know, be a man and just tell her that you're not ready for a serious relationship, because you really aren't. Varrock Library: Shattered Sky | Silent Thunder | The Emperor's FinestAstri @ MythWeavers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Notorious_Ice Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 ^^ lol that might be better, but he needs to learn sometime. He can start learning by stuffing this up. Don't be afraid your life will end, be afraid it will never begin. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anesthesia Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 get someone lined up to go out with break u wit her and go out wit new chica:) Is English your first language? Some people are changed by being a moderator. I wouldn't be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FrankyBrown Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 ive tryed that before but like i always miss her so much after a day i cant go with out her but i got a idea... get someone lined up to go out with break u wit her and go out wit new chica:) mE cant gammer good :uhh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubsa Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 ive tryed that before but like i always miss her so much after a day i cant go with out her but i got a idea... get someone lined up to go out with break u wit her and go out wit new chica:) I bet girls flock for you. This is how much you all raised for charity. Thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zonorhc Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 ive tryed that before but like i always miss her so much after a day i cant go with out her but i got a idea... get someone lined up to go out with break u wit her and go out wit new chica:) I bet girls flock for you. Sheesh, get with the times, Bubsa! Only losers call them girls nowadays - everyone knows they're called digging tools! How do you expect to be hip without knowing the lingo? Represent the 'hood, and all that hat. Varrock Library: Shattered Sky | Silent Thunder | The Emperor's FinestAstri @ MythWeavers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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