Thats what I was wondering, If her best friend is female I wouldn't to shocked, but if her best friend is male I would be a little worried :wink: I can vouch for that. My bestest pal is a girl, who has a boyfriend. Initially, he was a bit paranoid of all the time and closeness we shared...and I guess for the, how you say, "sexual relations" we once shared, but now he's totally sound with it. He's a great guy and I'm made up for her :) The difference is, I know my place as a best friend as to when and when not, how and how not to intrude and I respect the time they need to share. It seems like her best friend, to the original poster, regardless of their gender, does not and neither does your girlfriend.