Just be yourself :thumbup: You don't need things in common, just confidence. Neutral comments could be anything from suggesting that the weather looks good today, or its been hot recently. Another could just be a story in the news, or a recent sporting event - or something like that. There are millions on conversation starters, and it would depend whether you are going for a friend, or a stranger. So you just go up to someone and randomly say one of those things? That wasn't supposed to be sarcastic, I'm serious :/ If that's really all there is to it, then thank you :) It just seems to cliche too be real :/ you should join a bunch of people. sport club or something.