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Oh [cabbage]! I'm gay... why was I not informed earlier? I have so many girl to apologize too...

It's funny how popular RED has gotten. I found them YEARS ago back when they were unsigned and only on MySpace and PureVolume. They're decent I guess. I liked their earlier stuff better than their new stuff. but I digress. Faves include in no particular order: Linkin Park A Day to Remember Tool Avenged Sevenfold

here's a flow chart for you meaningless filler | V lol lmfao ha haha hahaha rofl lmao LOL OH GOD, LOL HAHAHA LMAO ROFL LMFAO I seriously just laughed out loud | V actual meaning

-condescending -judgemental -underenthusiastic -socially awkward in new environments oh, and sometimes i get a little obssessive...and occasianally compulsive. but I'm fairly certain I don't have OCD

Did you really just ask the internet NOT to 'lol'? LOL

connotation ;) I've always figured that if you're able to say "yes" to the guy [or girl in the seldom case] you're okay with the responsibility of the high likelyhood that there will be lip-to-lip contact of some sort. The that kiss would be either good or bad, which then allows further judgment for the possibility of a second date. This of course all falls under a "formal" date, which personally I'm much more comfortable in and operate a lot better under. There's also the whole "90/10" thing that was taught to us by the lovely movie Hitch. You go 90%, she'll go 10%. Honestly, unless the girl previously discussed extreme discomfort to kissing on th first date prior, I'd be vey insulted if I didn't get atleast one over the course of the date [which first dates for me, ideally are 5-6 hours]. I'm a farly physical person. Kissing is pretty important in a relationship to me. It might sound shallow, but honestly, without the physical chemistry/compatibility, said attractive girl goes from "date" to "friend".

Am I wrong or is kissing on the first date an obligation? I mean, unless the date is an absolute disaster [and not the funny kind].

I fourth the motion for breaking up afterward. That way you can claim that you've felt distant from her seeing as how you yourself just came back from a long vacation. let her enjoy her vacation, and then break up with her when she gets back.

eh, breaking up with pepole sucks. For both parties. Although I must say, I prefer to be the breaker.

I have a feeling that romy is a pro-gay rights activist :lol: But that's cool beans for the British. Now if only America were a little less douchey to those that prefer their own gender.

neither is thursday that was my point. And for the sake of argument, what genre would you classify my links? deathcore/metalcore Metalcore, maybe. But certainly not deathcore. When I think deathcore I think Behemoth, Devildriver, Nile and Carnivex.

This reminds me of "piss-ups". Where everytime you pee, you have to drop and do 20 push ups. Good way to work out. Make use of those random natural body functions! :D

I would do anything to date Misa. ANYTHING.

:? heh? oh, and I loved the rollerblading knee pad bit, lol. Not something i'd say, so I won't steal it, but funny nonetheless. @helpme I can only assume that you feel that way because you're not used to being in a committed relationship, and you're not sure what to expect. But I don't know you as well as you know yourself. I'm sure those negative feelings will disappear as the relationship prgresses. And if they don't start to fade...you might want to consider altering your relationship status.

Round these parts these stupid things called "silly bands" are popular. Most people use them as markers to show that they're "with" somebody. More like close to someone of the opposite gender, but the prinicple being that couples usually have exchanged these cheap little rubberband things. So it doesn't have to be an expensive piece of jewelry. Hell I've even used rubber rings you can find at any Hot Topic. Use whatever you want, doesn't even have to be jewelry. or anything to be honest. But if you are going to get something, meaning>expense for sure. Think back to your early days with the girl. Was there a special inside joke taht can be made into an object that brought you closer? For me in the past, this "object" has ranged anywhere from a box of tic-tacs to a sterling silver ring. So...whatever you feel fits the relationship will be fine. Make it personal though ;)

ring seems too...clingy? Go for a bracelet or a necklace. Latter prefered. as for going official, I like going for the over dramatic "cute" method. Once I even bent down on one knee and asked her to be my girlfriend, as if I were proposing to her [but much less serious, but infront of a good chunk of her family]. Be creative. Have fun. Do something that makes for a good story later. Cause you'll be retelling it everytime you go out in public as a couple.

IamDan speaks the truth :bow: in anycase, i had my first real college experience today, as I had to take some placement tests. I always convinced myself that by college I'd be ready and willing to move on, and even do so. That time is approaching rather quickly. Anywho; I met a chick named Jamie. She was real nice. Pretty attractive, too. We exchanged stories as to how she gave up Ivy League college to move in with her 3-year-boyfriend [who dumped her 3 weeks ago for some reandom chick]. Few too many awkward silences, which i tribute to nerves over the test. I didn't preform as well as I'd hoped, but I really don't have any actual interest in her. Just the realization taht there was an opurtunity presented to me on a silver platter and I practically shoved it aside. Ah well. If all goes according to schedule, I'll be seeing her for an hour a day on a train anyway. We'll see where this ends up. I'm shootin for just a friend to be honest.

As a large-lipped fellow myself, I have to wonder what 'flicking' it actually entails. I'm picturing an Elvis Presley sneer type thing. Which I can't imagine is what you're talking about. Do explain, dear friend. Bottom lip under top teeth. Bite a little bit. Flick lip out. Look sexy. ohhhhh okay. I got you. Yeah that's definiatly a keeper in my armory of moves

As a large-lipped fellow myself, I have to wonder what 'flicking' it actually entails. I'm picturing an Elvis Presley sneer type thing. Which I can't imagine is what you're talking about. Do explain, dear friend.

If you don't give a crap, then why are you so distraught over women? And why are you coming here for reassurance? This isn't a wishy-washy trait to have... you can't toggle a switch on not giving a [cabbage], and being over-concerned about everything. Take your pick-- being indecisive isn't being dominant. Also keep in mind, if you really wanna not give a [cabbage]-- then you can start by not giving a [cabbage] over whether you're dominant or not. indecision is inhibiting my dominance? That makes sense. I guess I'm going to have to stop obsessing. Easier said than done, but I'll give it a shot.

neither is thursday that was my point. And for the sake of argument, what genre would you classify my links?

Hell yeah. [but in all seriousness, I'm a converse guy, and anyone who collects shoes as a hobby is a nutjob]

Alright muggi, I respect that. Now I'm forced to wonder what about me makes me an 'omega' rather than an 'alpha'. I suppose its cause I am getting a little obsessive. Which is indeed an understatement. Not giving a crap one way or the other about chasing girls does seem to be a quality most 'alphas' have. I agree that just chillin out and backing away from relationships as a whole might be a solution to most of my issues [i even had a post where i felt like i made a breakthrough on such a regard]. But I've become very wishy-washy. One day, I'll be fine, minding my own buisness, doin' my own thing, not caring. The next, I'll get lonely, and desire to be involved with a girl in one way or another [i'm going to tribute it to jealousy of all of my friends who seem to get women with a fair amount of ease, and the girls I'm friends with who give it out like candy]. I guess I just feel left out now that I don't have any relationship leads that I'm actually interested in, and that drives me to practically hunt for them. and yes. I over-analyzed the [cabbage] out of that.

Ever thought about not doing that? Like I said. Probably. I don't really want to do it, but if the low spot I'm in now gets worse before it gets better by tommorow...she might just convince me to not listen to myself too well. On the other hand, I'll likely be able to control myself from at the very least the latter half of my quoted statement.