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Although his anger seems to be a little more widespread, fact of the matter is...he's you're BROTHER. They're supposed to treat you like that. You're making too big a deal about it. I do most of the same things you just described to my sister(granted she's younger). Thre's really nothing you can do about it except by staying out of his way. You're two very different people, chances are you won't be best friends. In about 10 years, you'll get along just fine though.

You already said that you and her are both very sports oriented. unless they're completely different sports, couldn't you practice together? You could workout with her...I mean it's not the most flattering of scenes...but you would be spending time together, and doing somethig you both enjoy. Dude. that's some serious stuff. You say you care about her, now the moral dilemna that you should make a big deal out of the abuse or not. Overlooking that aspect for a second...she trades naked pictures with a 20+ year old? Thats just f***ed up. Seriously, that's kind of messed up. Alot. If I were her mom, I would have hit her too. Not that I'm supporting child abuse. If I were you, I'd stay away from that chick...she's trouble. Unless you're into that kind of thing, in which case keep coming to her rescue and slowly she'll warm up to you. Judging by her behavior you may get a few naked pics within a week. Good stuff. Sorta. Hopefully you getting closer to her will keep her from persisting with this 20 year old creep. Damn. That's a really big problem. But we're here to help. As you've said, she isn't talking to you. Slowly she'll return to do so. The first thing you'll probably talk about is as to why she reacted the way she did. I'm gonna say that it was the shock of seeing the loss of innocence of her young, pure little sister. This is a very traumatic event for older siblings. The image of her little sister was just shattered. She's gonna be acting a littel funny. I suggest you talk to her about it when she's ready and convince her that sh*t happens. She'll cool down eventually, but it may be another day or so. Depending on how long she can hold an emotion. For now respect her wishes and for the love of god don't argue with her. You may not want to make any sexual advances anytime in the imidiate future either.

You could...but what's stopping her from using a friend's phone/house phone/pay phone?

Did you just admit to spamming? :-? Not that I am not guilty myself for pointing that out... Why exactly is this thread still alive anyway? I declare this thread is now about bears. Nice fluffy ones.

religion gives us: Hope Discipline Rules Unity (sorta) and ideally gives us: order peace cooperation the ideals are simply unattainable, but overall I count religion as a plus :thumbsup:

I think the Steelers will win. but srsly, the game intself was awesome. Full of ups and downs. i wasn't really rooting either way, but it was mad fun to watch (especially that 100 yard return!) The halftime show was decent, although I can't remember the last one that I actually enjoyed. The cheerleaders did NOT get enough face time and what happened to the commercials? There was only like 2-3 good ones, not including the return of the E-trade babies. I depend on go-daddy to deliver usually, but the first one kinda sucked. And the 1 second commercials were eitehr canceled or were too fast for my brain to even pick up on. What was that about?

@ NoMoreDead [/hide] Well it seems as though she did make you laugh. :lol: (she's controlling you afterall). But seriously, it seems as though you found a new girl (congrats) and I wish you the best of luck in that field. Unfortunatly I see that the old girl is getting jealous (a solution to your first problem I don't even think I considered). I think you're handling it well for now, just keep ignoring her and such and eventually she'll back away from boredom. i wouldn't even grant her your attention. It may quicken the process. I'd like to thank you for the clear and detailed manner in which you presented your story. It made it much more fun to follow, and much easier to aid. :) @RayOxide As mentioned, common interests in turn cause friendship. But you can't be afriad to push the social boundry. CONFIDENCE. (I think I liked that point, it seriously is the answer to everything). I say take what you're interested in already, and start talking about that stuff to new people. Sooner or later you're going to find people who have similiar interests and agree with you. Hence friendship.

I likedhow you included that you're from Belgium as if it made a difference on disscusion topics :lol: I think there's been a mis communication here. She sleeps with her friends? As in orgy? or does she just trade partners alot? Or does she just litterally sleep with her friends? Would you mind clarifying that for me?

Sucks to be him! Anyways, I'd make the card written in a way that it sounds like you're the one wro wrote it, obvious enough that she asks you 1st, but not obvious enough so that she knows straight away that it is definately you. On the note of Valentines Day, I wanna get a girl something, although it feels really weird for me to (like it is weird for me to show emotion towards a girl on MSN) :wall: I guess if I did something I would have to e-mail it, as I don't know where she lives, and won't be able to see her that day. Go the extra mile to see her that day. It'll make it that much better. If you absolutly can't...well...Do your best to compensate. Like, get a friend to deliver the message for you. The internet should really only be a last ditch effort.

@ the OP: You're logic is sound. getting 60% off is much better than 0% off. Unfortunatly when 60% off costs just as much as 0% somewhere else for an equally cool shirt...you still end up getting gyped. My style is my own. I do not view enthusiastic/styled wardrobes as gay. Caring about how you look does not make you less of a man. I usually buy stuff from Kohls. I get my pants, shirt, shoes, socks...everything there. The only exception being my tees, which I buy from Hot Topic.

Lenticular brings up a good point. a plan like that can just as easily backfire as it can assist you. I like your train of thought about the upcoming valentines, but I suggest something a little less subtle. Get yourself noticed somehow. Or you can simply sign the card with your name. She'll confront you about it, and make your move from there.

Apparently I complained too much... although I don't recall ever complaining considering i thought that she was perfect. I'm going to apologize and see if that gets us anywhere and if not then I'm just gonna tell her that I respect her decision and move on. I just can't believe after 7 months she would break up with me for something that little :( You have my condolences. Just remember that one day this will be behind you, and before you know it - that day will come. It does seem strange that 7 months were killed over a little whining. But as you said, it's her decision. I suggest you move on as quickly as possible and get a new girl. That's what high school is all about, afterall. Don't let it get to you.

I don't know who it was at this point, but who ever got suckered into watching "The Notebook"...you have my condolences. I only sat through it in exchange for watching a star wars movie with my girlfriend after ward. And she hates sci fi. @ NoMoreDead It's pretty much up to you at this point. If you can deal with the crap she's giving you, more power to you. Doing so is actually rather entertaining - I guarentee if you stick wit hthis, you'll never feel bored again. You decide if that's a good thing or not. @ War_Junky Welcome back! Hopefully your return will be viewed as a fresh start, as I remember quite the amount of controversy sparked by your issues. I say go for it.

Because then we couldn't be hypocrits...thus ending humanity as we know it.

We could semantically argue that one over the course of the next week or two, as I have a tendency of doing on this forum. I say because the emotion caused you to kill yourself...the emotion killed you. (kind of the same principle as guns don't kill people, people kill people.)

Nothing can kill you. [through insanity of thinking of the paradox] Everything can indeed kill you. It's all about location and application.

Peru and Mexico are separate countries. Nigeria and Liberia are countries located on the continent of Africa. So they're both Africans. Peruvians aren't Mexicans ;) That's my point. If you see anyone from south america here on the East Coast, you label them "mexican" (no matter where they are from). They do not like this. But the Africans do not complain when you say they are "African" even if they are from rival tribe nations. I confused myself in my own explaination... Basically just watch a few Carlos Mencia videos and you'll catch my drift.

Congradualtions. You're in. Unfortunatly, now you've committed to a dramatic tail spin. I hope you're prepared...you're life is going to get hella confusing in the next fwe weeks. Here's the damage report: 1) You like a drama queen 1a) good luck with that, it's interesting, and devestating all in one 2) she's already trying to control you 3) your new facebook friend holds the key to whatever your life is about to go through Diagnosis: Red pill...or Blue? Red (friend him) you will learn what he has to say. whether its BS or not is up for interpretation. He may be helping you...he may be doing everything he can to stop you from talking to the girl. It's a total friend or foe situation. If you friend him, this will lead to a negative reaction with the girl. Blue (ignore him) Trust her and see how it play out. This is a positive reaction from the girl, and a negative one toward any future relationship you may or may not have with her. Both (my recomendation) Don't choose to ignore his friend request just yet, but leave the option open. Give him a PM asking him what's up, this way you can judge if he is a friend or foe. This does not jeapordize anything with the girl in question. Good luck soldier.

People need to get over themselves. I can't call a an "african american" black because some guy somewhere said he was deeply offended by it. you're black...that's how it's always been I can't call an Asian 'Oriental'. But they have no problem calling themselves that. As i remember "Oriental" means "mystic" why does this piss people off? I can't call 'freedom fries' , 'french fries'. They're damn french fries. I don't care who is trying to nuke us. I can't call a Peruvian "Mexican". But if you're from Africa...no one is going to bother differenciating Liberian from Nigerian. You are what you are. All stereo types have some truth to them. get over yourselves. we're all human.

A fairly similiar thing happened to me. For one reason or another she's playing hard to get. But your bro nailed it on the head. Do exactly what he said - Don't ignore her, but don't start anything. Infact ath statement alone seems to work with a lot of girl related issues :-k I'd like to see how this plays out...keep us posted

Frosted butts. pic unrelated (and invisible) but my fave board is easily this one right hurr (Tip.it OT ftw)

It's beyond me why you want to GAIN weight. I'm 3 inches taller than you and 10lbs lighter. I eat like a fat man, and never gain an ounce. Some people just can't do it. I suggest eating nothing but really fatty/unfillling foods. like Mcdonalds. Seriously, eating nothing but fast food for 4 months straight should bounce you up another 20lbs atleast.

Although the circle is important, the square is much more fundamental, where the circle is more of a luxury. I'm going with square.

I think you should read through the many postings in this topic: viewtopic.php?f=10&t=776939 you're 14 for god's sakes. Keep it in your pants. There'll be plenty of easy girls later in life for you. And you know what? You won't even have to come here for advice on how to get them...cause they're easy. This topic is about relationships, not sex quests.

I'm 90% sure he got banned. His posts were hilarious, but mostly spam. Anyone remember his topic "How to get into Dairy Queen when you die"? :lol: :lol: No, he's not banned. I checked his profile. Hasn't logged in since 12/07. Hm, you're right. Could have sworn he got banned. :-k Remember,everyone got unbanned during the rollback.Bubs included. That's a name I haven't heard in a while. Why DID Bubsa get banned?