Iamdan

Someone in my tafe class looked almost exactly like you. He had an emo sort of cut, except good. Really long sideburns, short back and top etc. It looked awesome, and it's a good way to get out of the 'stereotypical asian' look.

Pretty much every song from killing with a smile and horizons is [bleep]ing awesome. Deep blue is kinda meh, but I like home is for the heartless.

I love skiing and snowboarding, but I live in aus and don't get to go much. If I don't become a pilot I'm going to take up hang gliding for sure.

Hey girl, I was temporarily possessed by a demon vagina. It's gone now, by the way if we don't hang soon I'm going to start cheating on you. Best thing he can do really is gftog and come back later if he wants.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WMibNS7v4eM Not a fan personally but it's the only metalcore band with a female singer I know of. I don't like many hardcore bands but I love parkway drive. Too bad they're touring the world and becoming so popular making their concert tickets go up :(

words escape me

I posted it on the last page (374) and also in my blog.

/facepalm Toning means burning fat. Running longer rather than harder does pretty much nothing for weight loss. You burn the calories you ate today, hit a wall and then stop and eat. Sprints and weights are the best way to lose weight. Building muscle raises your BMR. More muscle requires more energy to sustain itself.

I just got manipulated into a date...

The big lebowski. Brilliant, but no laugh out loud moments that I thought there would be due to it's reputation.

That, or the girl gets weirded out because the guy is putting in so much effort when they haven't really even been together long. What about public transport?

Before you start an organic food diet, watch the episode of penn and teller: [cabbage] about organic food. Eating healthy on the cheap is easy. Oats and fruit or an omelette for breakfast, nuts for snacks. Brown rice and tuna for lunch with fruit and raw vegetables.

Don't worry about a straight answer. Just escalate. She likes you and she will go along with it. Keep moving forward with touching, logistics (where/how often you talk/hang out) and let her know subtly why you like her while you continue to build comfort. Why can't you see her in person? Also, when a girl says she likes going slow, she means she likes going slow, but she will take bigger steps if the guy leads and knows what he's doing.

Anyone else a fan of aussie hip hop? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jwy-eh0x7wU http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tczH283SwkA

Don't frame it as a favor, she should enjoy doing it. Just saying. That said, the new girl I was intrigued by is into me but I think I'm back in the 'I get over them quickly when they aren't much of a challenge' swing of things :/ I'll see how things go. edit: I was thinking about that today and had an epiphany. I've always known and understood this, but now I realize it's the same with me and I feel it too. I used to think it was just me needing a challenge and there was no relation to why girls need it too. Most girls, and some guys have options. Obviously people with options are going to screen for the best. The reason why girls, and guys with options want a challenge, is because the 'best option' is obviously also going to have many options. Girls are attracted to guys all the time, generally guys are too scared to make a move without obvious encouragement and they never even find out about it. This is why you should assume the girl is into you, calibrate by her reactions, but keep escalating. Keep moving forward. Even if she isn't into you, she will respect you for having the balls to do it. If a girl is into a guy and he gives himself to her too easily, she will lose attraction for him. Think of it this way: If she's screening for a catch, she is going to have to work to get him. If he isn't challenging, she will wonder if he is really that great after all. "Why is he into me? How come it was so easy? Maybe he's desperate." etc This is why you should never 'spill your feelings.' Even if she does it first. Even if you have been having sex for months. (I learned that one the hard way) Let her know you are into her by qualifying her. Qualifying her is when you look for reasons to like her, and let her know subtly what you find. Compliment her on things you value. Don't complement her on her looks because then you look shallow. Then be a challenge to keep her guessing.

That's the kind of attitude that begs for an unsatisfied life. Why settle? I would leave it, she will find someone who likes her for her flaws, as should you. You need to like the whole person, dating a 'fixer upper' won't lead anywhere good. edit: I'm saying he shouldn't go there because the mustache bothers him, not because of the mustache itself.

I'm not into the whole spirituality thing, if we do have a soul then it's really just our personality and consciousness. It's the sub atomic world in our brain, and the probability of the behavior of the electrons etc. ^

That guy looks like he's never smoked before the time he did it in that video.

I met a girl who is not only smarter than me, but is also fun, bubbly and attractive. The first is a rare occurrence by itself, the others combined are proof god loves me for being atheist. She intrigues me, and gets my mind off the other girl/man eater.

god dammit get out of my head I've become a pathetic depressed mess who checks his phone every 20 minutes hoping for a text from her, even while he's out with friends trying to get his mind off it.

I guess I'll just move on. I mean she ignored my texts when she was spending a weekend with some dork who she was complaining to me about like a week earlier. "he's 24, why would he want to get with an 18 year old, that's creepy' etc. She prioritized some random guy she isn't into and just met over someone she's known a third of her life. Yet she complains her close friends leave her. I don't need it. I'll probably end up telling her we both need to get our priorities straight, I need healing time, and maybe we'll hang out later. I can get sex, what I need is someone who won't [bleep] me around. tbh I'm starting to regret the whole thing. Sex is [bleep]ing awesome when done right, terrible when done wrong, but overrated.

I know, but that combined with being close friends and us both flirting with each other a lot? Then I would think the sex means much more, because it's not just with someone we didn't care about much. I mean short of it not being official, the way things were meant we pretty much were in a relationship. Except for the whole her not having feelings for me thing.

I asked her if she wanted a relationship a couple days ago. I told her I was sick of being a [bleep] and that she was the first person I've wanted to be with in a long time. She said she doesn't have feelings for me, that she did but now hasn't in a while, and we both agreed to stop [bleep]ing. I don't get it... I'm the best sex she's had, she finds me physically attractive, we've been close friends for years and we just fit together so well. I'm more concerned about the sickness, depression and anxiety associated with not being with her, than actually not being with her because I don't want another repeat of last time. Especially since it's hard to keep out the "so this is what happens when you stop being promiscuous and open up to someone again dan" thoughts. Trying to get over her atm, I need to meet some new people.

get an old used hilux, they run forever

I'm losing her :cry: She went out with some guy, which turned into a weekend, and I gather she's going back tonight. I have no idea how to try for a relationship without being needy. [bleep]. Would you treat someone you love like that? I have no idea because I don't think I have ever been in love (or even had a girlfriend). but you said... ugh nvm, you know my opinion.