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She isn't attracted to you imo. The friend zone isn't really bad unless you have really strong feelings for her, which you don't seem to have. She can be your wingman :thumbup:

I've stayed awake for about 3 days before and never hallucinated.

no u dont own this forum, i was jus saying dat cuz i kno fersure its not ttant's. but anyway i dont get y ery time i make a post eryone has 2 start cabbage wit me. :((( i just wanted to make a confession. Confession: I half suspect this is an admin (Most likely Das), bored out of his/her mind and getting a good laugh. I'm pretty sure it is, otherwise he would have probably been banned by now for trolling. I kinda miss that other troll, I can't remember his name but he started every post with 'hello friend,'

Confidence and humor are must haves. So is taking care of herself, (physically, socially and intellectually) and being adventurous and smelling good. As for looks, they aren't as important to me as they used to be. Good sex seems to be so rare with girls my age, I value that above looks as long as they are pleasant to look at.

You're thinking of dumbbells. Get the adjustable ones with wing nuts. If you aren't strong maybe start with 40kg in weights, get them used because new weights are expensive and used are just as good.

I skimmed too quickly and read that as porn army

I've heard about this. Cables in the house act as an antenna, diode in the fan converts AM into sound via a vibrating case or motor coil windings.

I wouldn't go there. You couldn't possibly know if you are right together unless you're around each other in person a lot, and moving halfway across the world is a big decision. Long distance relationships are pen pals wearing a different name tag imo.

If we're just talking about looks. Formal athlete maybe? I have an athletic build and a fauxhawk. I tend to wear button ups and jeans with white casual shoes and I have a bling watch.

^ Clever. I haven't been to collage, but attraction isn't going to work any differently if that's what you're asking.

You've missed a lot. Apparently so, Do people talk about BDSM on here too? I do like tying girls up, probably the closest I've gotten to that sorta thing. icuownage, this thread pretty much goes everywhere related to girls and relationships.

What happened was that she started fantasizing about me, having dreams etc. She told him, who told me and didn't seem bothered by it at all. Fast forward a few months, we went out one night and her sister had gotten me extremely drunk. I was going to hook up with someone I met but got [rooster] blocked by a police related incident so I was pretty sexually frustrated. We got back to the house and me and her were both really drunk, he was sober. She started grabbing my junk and undoing my pants, I was going to leave to another room and crash when he said to go for it. He is also apparently really bad at sex and she can almost never finish, so she is constantly horny and really bad when drunk which is probably why she acted on it in the first place. He wasn't into it, he is just extremely passive and wanted whatever his girlfriend wanted. I posted the whole story in detail but it got lost in a rollback. They're both still together, both deeply in love, and deeply unsatisfied.

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http://forum.tip.it/index.php?app=core&module=usercp&tab=members&area=avatar Not sure if you can still directly upload it, if not then just host it on imageshack and put it in the box labeled "enter a url to an online avatar logo"

I'm not sure how many girls are into the guy on guy thing, but it does show confidence. I'm comfortable with my sexuality, and dance/grind with other guys. I wouldn't say it's questionable though. Then again I've [bleep]ed a girl while her boyfriend was watching, so I'm pretty much up for anything :?

What about meeting girls through your social circle? That's how I met the chick I'm into now. That's saying something seeing as I've had feelings for a grand total of 2 girls since the love triangle [bleep] up years ago. It's much easier too.

iirc you pm'd me a while back about changing your style, how did that go? How fun and playful are you around women? I mean are you playing footsies one minute and texting another girl the next, or just being indifferent full stop? If they show interest, 'reward' them by showing some interest back. Also, do you start touching early?

My more recent posts have been made with inexperienced people in mind, notably the ones I added as my last 3 blog entries and where I explained how wongtong's friend can still make it work with that girl after I reread her post. I do agree that a lot of my older posts don't do that well. I feel a much more common scenario with inexperience is where a guy will have D&Ms with a girl and act needy while developing strong feelings for her, then spilling his feelings which confuses her because he never even gave her the idea that he is a potential suitor. The majority of the posts asking for help here seem to be "I told her I like her and then she freaked out" Comfort and attraction are interchangeable, but only until about 14 and then become less and less so. My reasoning is that most guys of all ages go for comfort first, so if he is asking for advice here then it didn't work and the girl is probably past the stage where she develops feelings for close friends. As for the young feminine ladies man, he has many attractive traits other than comfort. He is around a lot of girls, he is confident,playful and sexual, he ensures girls don't automatically assume he is into them straight away and they never know where they stand with him because of his questionable sexuality. If you take away "because of his questionable sexuality" from that last sentence then it is basically how all guys should attract women anyway. Also, I might be getting a little ahead of myself but it looks like I might actually have a girlfriend soon if things continue as they are going. Dan in a committed relationship.. woah :/

I'm guessing I'm one of the 'pro pua's' you were referring to. Did you miss my post at the top of this page telling him to build comfort and warm up to her? He blew it because he didn't qualify her. She was attracted, and then weirded out because she didn't know why he would like her. He wasn't a challenge, so she figured he isn't so attractive after all. It might be possible to fix, however unless he's completely useless with women and needs to latch onto anyone with feelings for him, he's better off moving on. To me it kinda sounds like he only likes her because she liked him anyway. That happens less and less often as you get older and the girls get more experienced, and basically never when you hit 17 or so.

I love chess, I used to be really good. Played it on funorb for the first time in about 6 years and depressed myself because I'm so bad at it now. Poker is my favourite card game.

I really can't imagine a cliche I even come close to. I mean I was a 'jock' in high school and was friends with the 'cool kids', but I studied physics etc. I got into fights but also read philosophy. I box and also have an interest in psychology and body language. I wear button up shirts sometimes, and football shorts others. I spend a lot of time on the computer, but also a lot of time at parties, bars, clubs etc. I'm promiscuous but I'm also introverted and quiet, but also confident sexual and cocky.

The girl I'm keen on bit my neck.. I have a huuuge neck biting fetish, to the point where I've thrown a girl against a wall and [bleep]ed her in a house either of us were staying at when she did it to me playfully. I told her this and she tried to do it again, thought I might share that on this thread because it works great as an ioi test, and also for physical escalation in case anyone here happens to like it too. Now she has an easy way to escalate with me, while it still being 'my fault.' 'tee hee hee i'm gonna do it anyway/i don't believe you would do that' etc is a huge indicator of interest. I did manage to contain myself, but I wouldn't have if a couple of others weren't sleeping in the same room. I would have escalated a little bit but my mouth was dry as [bleep] from drinking and I like the first kiss to be a good one. She was being more aloof lately which made me more into her, she intrigues me because she's way different to the usual type of girl I get with. I guess I'm sick of the cookie cutter club rat personality. She's intelligent, I thought she might have been smarter than me but a mutual friend doesn't think so. Still a huge step up from the girls I usually hang with though. edit: the bling search engine seems to be finding this thread a lot lately.

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I missed this part the first time through. Given that they're both very inexperienced he could still make it work. Tell him to first slap himself in the face, then be more aloof but build comfort straight after. Do this while slowly qualifying her and telling her what he likes about her like I mentioned a couple pages back, and in my blog. That way she will feel more emotionally invested, and be more comfortable around him which will make her much more likely to go on a 'date.' He should start out aloof though, and slowly warm up to her as she starts opening up to him.