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When he says/does something attractive, reward him with ioi's but still be a challenge. As for asking him out, just invite him to come along with something you and your friends are doing.

No difference to a non alcohol soaked body, just expressing my point that alcohol doesn't effect me as much as it should (which I hate) and a cigarette will. When someone tells me how much they drank I've made it a rule of thumb to subtract about 30%. I've found that true not because people deliberately brag, (which I don't understand with the whole "I have to spend $30 more than you to get drunk I'm so great woooo") but because they miscount when they drink and tend to overestimate. In my area at least. I believe things like '1case,' '1 bottle' etc because that's pretty hard to mess up.

Alcohol doesn't seem to effect me that much, probably from excessive binge drinking. I could have a case of TED's in a few hours, equaling around 34 drinks and be fine. I'd be able to walk fine, talk ok and keep awake until I'm sober, and get no hangover. However if I had 1 cigarette after a case I wouldn't even be able to stand for 10 minutes.

I juuust missed out on pilot today :cry: I smashed the aptitude and hand eye tests but failed a really pointless test, which was reading as many dials as I could in 7 or so minutes. Basically like reading a ruler but more complicated, it's a little difficult at first but as soon as you have any kind of practice it would be very easy. I got a high score doing things like math with 1 hand while operating a joystick with the other, and got high results on the math and aptitude tests, but failed overall because i was a little slow on the dial reading :wall:

I got told pmods get first beta test so if I play I'll stick with that account.

She will get over it, but you would have been much better off just telling her you what you were mad about.

She apologized and started an amusing rant about all the guys who hit on her. The guys in the group asked me a lot of questions about being gay, which I had some fun with. I k closed but didn't talk to her again because I wanted to work on opening groups and didn't want to get hung up about anyone. Interesting people are everywhere, you just have to meet a lot of people and pick through the morons. I'll point out the main blunders I see. As I've said before, don't take this the wrong way and I don't mean anything by it. Do what you want with it. gftog mate

Girls do little tests, I think subconsciously to test your personality. If you act like the real deal but then fail her tests then you lose. They do things like getting you to jump through hoops, such as buying them a drink. They might also change the conversation to sex to see if you get all excited. Sometimes a girl will neg you too. Examples: 2 couches in your house, and she sits on the opposite one to you to see if you go over to hers. You're a jerk. I'm a jerk. (no emphasis on 'I'm' btw) Can you buy me a drink? I will if you sing me x song. (grab the hoop and make her jump through it) Look, I'm not putting out. I'm actually gay, if you don't wanna talk that's fine I'll go meet someone else. (This is something I've said and she dragged me back to her) These tests are usually good things (other than the last example which was her assuming I was trying to get laid before I opened my mouth) If they aren't at least somewhat interested in you, they wouldn't test you.

My mum's chicken and broccoli Chicken enchiladas are also awesome, and nothing beats a good ol' chicken sanga.

On that note I've never understood the reasoning behind hooking up in the movies. I don't know what it is about the sticky floors, ringing phones, greasy smells and the waste of $10 that seem to turn people on :roll: I should mention it's important to touch or you will end up in the friends column. Touching builds comfort with a person, and the higher levels will get you both used to the idea of intimacy with each other. Goddess would know a lot more about this than I do, she can correct me/add to this if she wants to. Here's a basic view of what I know: There are levels of touching, think of them as gears in a car. It's easiest to go from gear 1 to 2 to 3 etc. Starting at 2 or higher is possible but harder. Skipping a gear is possible but harder. If you unsuccessfully skip gears you can wreck the gearbox. Once you've reached a gear, you've 'unlocked' all lower gears. The levels go somewhat like this: [hide=]Handshake, shoulder brush Holding hands, walking arm in arm Sitting close together so your legs touch, touching her back Hugging, walking with your hand on her lower back, hand on thigh. (not inner thigh) Touching face and neck. Things like brushing her neck when you look at her necklace, brushing something off her face etc. Her head on your shoulder, smelling hair/neck, running fingers through hair. It goes further but I'll keep it clean.[/hide]

ehh, sounds too needy imo As I said a few pages back, I've found the best way to go on a 'date' is to mention something cool you're doing halfway through the conversation, and tell her she can tag along towards the end of it. Not trying to undermine you or anything rpg but here's my analysis of that invitation: "Since you're not doing anything, want to see a movie?" - Well you aren't doing anything, so since you have nothing better to do you can go out with me if you want. Please? You should be doing her a favor by letting her join you. There is nothing else she could do that would be more fun than hang with you, and you're doing that thing anyway so it doesn't effect your plans if she comes or not. That way it's more confident and alpha at your end, and less commitment on her end. If she decides she doesn't want to go after saying yes, it's much easier since you are going anyway. That way she won't say no as a 'fail safe' in case she changes her mind later. Also as I said earlier, movies are a bad idea. Best doing something original, and something where you don't sit in the dark not talking to each other for an hour or 2. That's actually an indicator of interest in a lot of situations. If the conversation stops, she can easily just leave but she's trying to rekindle it. Sometimes I stop the conversation deliberately to see if she does it.

I just had to post this, the title reminded me of something. If you're ever at a loss when it comes to going to like a dress up party, tie a ribbon around your middle and attach a card saying "To: Women From: God"

Try being friends with uglier girls as a start The thing is, she isn't even that great looking. She isn't ugly, maybe a 7. I guess I'm just going to have to wait it out.

I have a problem. Long story short, I'm messed up and haven't been actually attracted to a girl in 3 years. I've just been objectifying them, which I don't want to do. Finally after all the girls I've been in contact with, I start feeling an attracted to one. Only issue is, it's my best mates girl :wall: :wall: I haven't been over their place in a while like I used to because it's driving me nuts.. Of all the girls I know, why the hell her? I suspect I'm subconsciously only in it for the challenge, and what better relationship related challenge is there than this? I know she is somewhat attracted to me, but she is definitely off limits. Even if he broke up with her, I wouldn't go there unless I waited like a year. Any ideas on how I can stay friends with both of them and not go insane? Expect 1 word answers and no participation. Do you think she will be interested in you, before she is interested in you? You will need to do 95% of the talking until she is becoming attracted.

I don't see how being in the same class would change the universal laws of attraction. I would talk to her, but not much seeing as you don't know her. As I said earlier, you pretty much need no game in high school because nobody else has it, but I'll give you a solid way to go about it. Throw in a little joke/story/tease every now and then. DVH and flip the preselection, humor and leader of men switches. If you DHV and then stop talking to her, that's a disqualifier to get her curious about you. Slowly talk to her more and over often and move from attraction to comfort as she starts winning you over.

May I suggest an excellent training session for 400m runners? It's what I used to do when I was an athlete trained by a commonwealth games competitor, and had a consistent 52s 400m. Do 10*200m with a strict 2 minutes recovery between each. Start with 35 seconds for each, then each session work your way down. Try and get down to 10*200m@30s. It's [bleep]ing brutal :lol:

I'd invite them both over and see what happens. Like they say about the lottery: You gotta be in it to win it!

Depending on how you do it, that's either low or high value. If you do, make sure as hell you are confident about it. Keep eye contact, keep a deep and steady voice tone, talk slowly etc. It can actually work if you do it right. It won't make her fall in love with you, but it will let you start a conversation with her.

You're kidding right? Maybe you would recognize her attraction if she bludgeoned you over the head with it. Then again maybe not -.- If you want to get back with her then do it, you don't need to ask online.

Sworddude is right. Here's what you do: Have a stronger frame than her, and don't be awkward yourself. If you do that you both will be fine. A couple times I have done it people have commented about that it should be awkward but it isn't, if you are comfortable and have a stronger frame so are they.

Why would it be awkward?

Just go, you can tell her you aren't interested and there's no harm in spending time with her.

I wouldn't worry about her, everyone makes stupid choices in relationships at times. I know a couple things that could help you, but they aren't easy to do and you can mess up your friendship with her if you do it wrong. If you still want to know give me a pm and I'll send you that chapter from my book. I really suggest leaving it alone though.

Wait....so you're saying the guy who tells Jacob that he wants to kill him in the beginning somehow became the smoke monster....who then somehow became the new John Locke? I don't think he became the smoke monster, I think that's just his natural form. He then either became the form of john, or got a copy of his body using that box and possessed it. He isn't human after all.

The smoke monster was the same being possessing lock imo, lock just acted surprised. It explains why the smoke monster killed ecko, because he was straying john from his path. The last episode also suggests the whole thing was just an everlasting fight between 2 beings, and every human on the island is just part of the game.