Alexpop11

Ok, im thinking of asking a girl out, and i want opinons and tips Im not to sure if she likes me or not. I'm either going double or nothing asking her out, so i want opinons. And if im going to ask her out, were should we go? the movies are an option, but there arnt too many movies on she would want to see. If you want specifics about her, be specific on which specifics. And the whole IOI thing dosent seem to work. Im on a tie between shes to shy to look at me for more than a minute and she dosent like me. I really wanna ask her, and im starting to think its going to be to late if i wait any longer.

lol I think i get the point, and i think ive been more number 2, thankfully

I'd say do it when she's alone, you're more likely to intrude otherwise. What kind of girl is she? [Edit] sorry about the DP. What kind of girl.... WELL i dont really know, but ill give you big things -REALLY smart, but not in the nerd group -Not the hottest girl in the school by far -On a scale from one-ten, with ten being UBER popular, id put her at 4 and me at 3 Is that enough? I think that sums up all that needs to be said.

Rebdragon, lol ANYWAY I got 2 good 'specific' questions. Numero uno- Eye contact. Im a somewhat-shy kid, and I tried to get some eye contact a-goin with random girls. It worked. kind of. So, this brings me to the question- is simply holding eye contact going to get the girl to think "what a wierdo"? numba 2- Conversations. I want to get a certain girl here, but right now i think i just need to get a conversation rolling, kind of get to know her, and her own group of friends a bit. Will aproching her and a small group of her friends make her think im an idiot? Small means 1-4 freinds in my eyes.... soooo... Ya. Any and all tips are what i need. Dont think anything is too small to mention .... ....oops, i said shy. Lent is gunna hunt me down for that :ohnoes:

I know, eh? I left for two years, and when i get back the first thing i see is the sudden couples all over the place. I dont think that it was that important, but i missed the first little bits of the dating ages. It would be like trying to read a complex 600 page book, but skiping the first 75 pages. Your kinda lost on it, but you'll find out whats going on eventually. I like what i just did there....

Wow. Two random, but so ridiculously helpfull posts. For Istolethepie, im in grade 9, 14 years of age. ....and dont go stalking me now :ohnoes: .... ..... ...... ........I love OT

hmmm.... Well, for me, 5-6 seemed to be the point were everyone figured out how to get a date. I was left in the dust, or, should i say the salt water of the carribean :P Dont worry, i dont let aspergers get in the way. I like to think the only thing it does now is makes me smarter. I have never once studied, and im still a A average student. IOI, still meh. If a girl is lookin at you, its seems pretty easy to find, right? Specifics.... specifics.... Ill get back to you guys on that. Still, thanks for the help.

Thanks for the tips guys. Good ol' OT I am getting really ticked about my school life now. See, i used to live in a small town in Canada till i was 10, just before my dating years. I had good friends, good life, good times. Then, suddenly im ripped out and sent away to the carribean for 2 years. Work, ya know? I made friends, then we moved back. I arrived in another small town in Canada, but i had missed probably the most important social years of my life- Grade 5 and 6. suddenly, i was interested in girls, and i had lived in a island with about 1000 people. I was the only kid in my grade! Remember those times when you first started getting into girls? now imagine going through that again- as the new kid, with no good social expereince. I didnt even know what rasism meant! It was kinda like i took one hell of an oversized vacation -.- So i think what i need is some pointers. The 'rights and wrongs' of dating. I really want to try, even if it does end in the dreaded friends. But thats one more friend than i have now, right? If anyone knows a site, a post on this topic, or wants to just type stuff out, ill thank you for it. And no-one tell me to go look at IOI. Their about as usless as a slinky. Cool, but really useless. for me at least. BTw, ill say it once more, just for lent--ASPERGERS SYNDROMi haz

Ok, i wanna know something here. Is starting a conversation on msn with a girl i barily know.... wierd? Shes in my science class, we know who each other are and i kinda like her, but i really dont know if striking up a conversation would make her think im a wee bit odd. Dont forget your talking to a social reject here >.<

Hmm.... Confesions..... HMMM.... Cant think of any. I dont play ruin-your-life-scape anymore (sorry, had to go there), I generally dont do anything crazy -.- Oh, i threw a desk at a kid once. Yes, you can throw desks. He made me angry. I also threw a chair at some other kid. It was lighter than the desk. He made me angry too. I punched a kid in the back of the head. He called me some name, and then turned away. Bad choice on his part. This was all within three weeks of grade 6. Only times i got suspended :P

Well, this is the smartest thing I've seen all day. Literally Well, i dont really know if there is a worst case scinario for me. Everything that can go wrong, already has -.- I think it would probalby be suddenly losing all my friends, family, and ending up very lonly :cry: But, i would cope. Im guessing that if i lost everyone i knew, making new friends would be... somewhat easy. Easier than it is now :wall: P.S: if you need an explaination for losing everyone, its right before you. SWINEFLUWILLGETYOU

One word: Cheesecake mmm....

Ok, thanks for telling me i need to flirt. NOW TELL ME HOW TO [cabbage] FLIRT! Im not good at this! like, really -.- What would flirting be? sitting down next to her? Just randomly start following her and talking? But really, i just need suggestions on what flirting would be! I'm not exactly the best person for this -.-

Banned for being rasist to cats

OI! I still need a bit of help. I posted a while ago, but didnt get much of a response. To sum it up, theirs a girl i like, i wanna try to go hang out with her or somthing, and i really just dont know know how i should go about doing it, and advice on how to pull it off would be nice. Im a somewhat shy kind of kid, and i really am just nervous and dont wanna make an idiot of myself. Im gunna say it again, "lenticular and your aspergers syndrom :wall: "

WELL im back again, and i seem to have made progress. Pretty much, we talk, we see each other, and to tell you the truth, i have no [CABBAGE]ing clue where to go from here -.- Any suggestions on getting that first date? if it can be called that. Oh, and it seems lenticular has found my fault :oops: you and your Asperger's syndrome :wall:

ARRG! Thats exactly whats frusturating me! i cant figure out How to go and talk with her! I'm simply to shy, and i need something a bit more in detail than that. like how i should go about even starting a converstation with her kinda thing. I know, im definatly lost :wall: The best you can do is go up and say hi. Just find her when she isn't surrounded with her friends and strike up a conversation. And remember, BE CONFIDENT! If you approach her thinking you'll say something extremely stupid and make yourself look like the biggest loser in the world, you probably will. If you approach her thinking you're the hottest piece of [cabbage] in the school, your confidence will radiate. And remember your body language. It's important. Iamdan posted some good advice about that 1 page back, read that. Thanks alot guys. I'm gunna try Something on monday -.-

ARRG! Thats exactly whats frusturating me! i cant figure out How to go and talk with her! I'm simply to shy, and i need something a bit more in detail than that. like how i should go about even starting a converstation with her kinda thing. I know, im definatly lost :wall:

Lol, that was fast. the whole of two minutes and i have somone willing to help. We dont exactly have a long history. I know her, she knows me, and we're both on the same link of the food chain. Not that either of us are to high up. Same classes last year, but non this year. We dont share friends, and we're both somewhat shy. I can't really tell if she likes me but we have alot of things in common, which means lots of topics ;) Oh, and after school i have time for either 5 minutes of talking, or a full out date. I can't hang around because of my busing. TY, BTW :lol:

ARRRG! I'm verrry frusturated with my situation right now -.- Im in highschool, and their is a girl I like. Simple, right? WRONG! Me being me, I'm not exactly the most outgoing person I know, and I don't really know how to approach her. We have the same lunch period, but no other classes together, and I really just need suggestions on how i should pull this off, like when, where, how kinda thing Any help would be nice.

wow, wait a sec. Has anyone gone over using a helicopter yet? I just so happen to live next to a helicopter building facility, (where they finish putting them together and test fly them) and using it to get away from the action would be easy. There will always be someone on site who can fly it, lots of fuel on site, and bring up rifles, rations, ect. And whenever we need a restock, land and steal food from where ever we're at, with the other guys covering your back. The helicopters fuel shold last long enough to fly away from the infected areas, and then we could be safe.

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Your wish will not compute, resulting in the self destruct of your head :( I wish that i can not lose "THE GAME"

When i was talking this through with my friends, our situation was that most other people have been evacuated or killed. I planed this out as if me and my friends were the only survivors. Just to calrifiy

THe party kind of thing is NOT a good idea on mine or the girls point of view. I know her well enough that she dosn't like partying like that. Im not exactly the one to start a conversation, so if i want to start talking to her more, tips on what i should say would be nice.