Why would you back down from showering with women if you were proud of your sexuality? You enjoy being around naked women, why be ashamed of it, these are natural responses that should not bring forth shame
I prefer to not to subjugate myself to "classy" as class is a concept and not an actual style that exists. I wear what I want to be perceived as because feeble minds will judge me easily for it.
How can you understand a concept that means something differently to each individual. You cannot show someone or get them to understand love, they must discover it themselves.