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well, as long as you're up front about it, so she knows what to expect @noxx do you think you'll stay with her when she gets old? even if she stays in "good shape"

I do think Noxx owes it to her to make his point very clear though. It is a somewhat untraditional point of view, so she could perhaps be forgiven for thinking "he's just joking" or something like that. If noxx wants to be polyamorous (essentially what he's describing even if not using that name) then he needs to be clear and direct with her about it. If she accepts it, great. If not, they can both move on.

Yeah of course that's natural and unavoidable. But gaining weight due to an unhealthy lifestyle is not. of course, but they both have the same effect. and if her looks are the only think attracting you to her....then the outcome will be the same

Yeah of course that's natural and unavoidable. But gaining weight due to an unhealthy lifestyle is not. of course, but they both have the same effect. and if her looks are the only thing attracting you to her....then the outcome will be the same

well, she's going to get old and ugly if you stay with her, despite any efforts she makes to the contrary

Never said I wouldn't do it :P Is this supposed to be a daily thing? Or a one off?

Gratitude is an Attitude of giving Platitude to the Multitude who.... I have no poetry ability to be grateful for, clearly

Technically one might be able to get database credentials using the bug...in which case everything would be compromised. However I doubt that happened here...

Maybe she turned him gay PLOT TWIST

Yeah seems pretty ridiculous. Not saying all these lawsuits are without merit, but this one... Haven't posted in a while. The leafs' annual collapse is complete. Top ten pick baby!!

reported sexual assault incidents

That's too general and it's kind of stating the obvious, lol. I'm not really sure what you had in mind specifically when you wrote it. It seemed to me that your post assumed only men need to learn about consent, and that only women are sexually assaulted, and only by men. people need to learn about consent and respecting boundaries, not just men.

This is not an "old" issue, servers were vulnerable up until a few days ago.... Is tip.it not running openssl?

Both men and women should learn about consent, not just men. It's a two way street.

I'm here, just too lazy to respond...I'd have said approximately the same thing anyway.

Television

I don't think many people were predicting the sky falling or a plague of locusts....

I never read or text while on the throne. give it your full attention, people

In theory countries have a lot more to lose by going to war on a large scale with a similar power than they did before. In practice, it may take going to war to find that out.

I would not mind one bit if the UN fell apart.

Bear in mind there are a lot of ethnic russians in crimea so russia is generally seen positively there..

Agreed wholeheartedly with what muggi said. And just an FYI to noxx, I'm completely pro-monogamy (opposite of muggi). But sometimes it's not being able to break up with someone that's running away from your problems, not vice versa. Just staying and suffering with someone who is making you unhappy is often not at all mature.

Of course, but people aren't posting on this thread saying: "my so didn't call me today, I'm mad", they're saying things like "my so has a drug habit, or my so is cheating on me, etc...". The things people mention on here (when in existing relationships" are usually serious enough that breaking is a somewhat realistic option. The simplest solution is often the correct one, agreed. I'm just a bit cautious about not cutting off the nose to spite the face, if that makes sense. Of course. But I don't think I've ever told anyone to break up without that being at very least a reasonable solution given the circumstance.

Of course, but people aren't posting on this thread saying: "my so didn't call me today, I'm mad", they're saying things like "my so has a drug habit, or my so is cheating on me, etc...". The things people mention on here (when in existing relationships" are usually serious enough that breaking is a somewhat realistic option.

Which is why I said you should physically leave the building and go home if you are around your gf and her friends when they are high. If you were in America I would tell you to calm down and get over it, but according to you getting caught smoking in your country is extremely dangerous which is why I give this advice. "Hey TIF I have this problem with the person or situation regarding the person I'm dating, what should I do to fix it. Oh yeah did I mention I really don't like the situation I'm in and its not going to change in the forseeable future." Pretty much the main reason why half the advice given is break up and move on. Exactly this. People with healthy relationships have no need to post in this thread asking for advice.