Would confirm RPG's suspicions about your self-esteem, particularly the reaction "why would they ever like me". Honestly, if I asked you to list ten qualities men would find attractive about you, and then ten reasons men might not like you, which would you find easier? The latter and the reasons are so apparent Yet I imagine that your average man would find it much easier to come up with 10 likable qualities for the average woman than 10 unlikable ones... I'm sure the same could be said for the average woman finding it easier to come up with 10 likable qualities for the average man than 10 unlikable ones?It's just different when it's not you in question I find. I could come up with reasons women might like me just as easily as reasons they might not. Don't be so hard on yourself, it's easy to overreact to one's own flaws - the important thing is to remember that everyone has flaws.