It's not about strategies, I just mean I can hang out with a girl and go grab a coffee and not call it a date, because it's not going to be something really aimed at a relationship. For a date I'd probably go somewhere a bit more special like the Canal in the winter, it's frozen so you can go skating, there's maple taffy stands where they take boiled up maple syrup, pour it on ice and instantly get candy (but I've never been able to do it. :(), get a Beavertail (not a real one, it's long, flat fried bread dough with toppings like Nutella or cinnamon and sugar,) ice sculpture expositions and other fun winter stuff. I love beaver tails. and that canal in the winter, it's awesome, even though I can't skate. That'd be an awesome place to go on a date. Mainly because it's really purdy, and beaver tails are delicious.