Well it's been a bit over a month since this, and thought I'd give an update/ask one last time for advice. Like two weeks ago, she told me she got #10. She was hanging out with friends on a bus back from somewhere, and they dared her to get 10. She said that she just grabbed this guy and pecked him really quick. I was obviously pissed when she told me, but we were in a public place and I didn't want to make a big deal about it. Before we went out to where we were at when she told me, in a text she said something like she 'had something to ask me, or rather something she wanted me to ask her.' I knew she wanted me to officially ask her out, but I wasn't sure yet due to the things quoted. I was going to until she told me that, when I just walked out to my car and drove home after (and went to a friends with beer and COD B-ops :thumbup: ) I was texting her about it that night, and she kept apologizing and saying how stupid she was etc., which she also did the next couple of times I saw her in public. Ever since then, she's been hinting to me still that she wants me to ask her and make it official. I've just kind of ignored it, being very put off from what she told me. I've still been hanging out with her and going on dates and stuff though. All of the things I've quoted above have stopped for the most part. I really like everything about her a lot, except for that she kissed that other guy. Even though it was just a peck as she said, it's still cheating, just to fulfill a bet. It's fun hanging out with her, and we have a lot of things in common. Over the phone today, she told me tomorrow she wants to see me, and that she wants to share her thoughts about me. I'm sure she's going to ask me out, since i've been ignoring all of her requests so far for me to ask her. I'm wondering if I should go through with this or not. Just from reading over what i've typed, it seems the obvious answer is no, but it's hard to explain/type exactly how I feel too, so you don't get the whole picture. Any advice from my tif friends? Oh, there's also these two other girls. One is my ex. I broke up with her in June-ish, because I just wanted to be friends with her, lost all my feelings. We are still friends and I'll see her every once in a while, but she did NOT lose her feelings for me. She is always trying to get back with me and everything. She publically posted on facebook a video of her with a notebook asking me to go back with her. This was last week. She had 'our song' which was Smile by Uncle Krakker playing, while she flipped through a notebook that said everything she missed/loved about me. At the end, it said I hope BFF turns back into BF. So it's awkward with this situation. The other girl is probly nothing, but she's in one of my university classes. We'll every day during and after class, and last week she asked me out to lunch. We went to a very nice sushi place, and I had a lot of fun. I don't know if it would be a possible relationship or not though, or if it's just friends. Now that my fingers are dead, I hope to get some advice haha :-)
