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I wouldn't be surprised if they changed the mechanics of it at some point in RS3, but on 2007scape they just released the official Barrows chest loot mechanics: Source: https://twitter.com/JagexKieren/status/705428283509366785

I think you just have oneitis :P

30 minutes is my driving limit for women... 6.5 hours is insane lol I feel like letting her know that you're traveling that far just to see her is subcommunicating to her that you don't have any other options

She wants you to visit her 8 hours away? [bleep] that lol

IME if a girl can't meet up because she's "sick," she's trying to flake on you without making things awkward. If she offers a specific time to reschedule to, she's probably telling the truth though.

You probably are. But you have nothing to lose by pitching the meet. You need to get used to going after what you want, even if it makes you (and other people) temporarily uncomfortable. Right now you're uncertain. And that's bad.

Pitch a meet with a place and time. If she:-Doesn't respond -Says "I'll let you know" -Says "Let me check my schedule" -Changes the subject -Offers you a vague time when she's free (e.g. "Next week") -Gives you any excuse not to meet up ...then she's wasting your time. If she is interested, she will either accept your offer, or she'll say she's busy BUT she'll give you a specific time when she's free (e.g. Thursday night at 8pm) As a reminder, if you'd made a move, she'd be probably be fantasizing about your dick right now instead of the douchebag she met the other night who made a move :P

oh well in that case i was just kidding about everything. i think you should whip your dick out as soon as you say hi, if not sooner :D

That's probably the first time I've elaborated on that particular reason. There's tons of reasons why it's a very good idea to get in the habit of caressing her hand: 1. It conveys boldness which is universally attractive to women on a primal level, just like a woman with a sexy body and a pretty face is universally attractive to men on a primal level 2. It keeps you out of the friendzone. A "nice guy" doesn't do stuff like this because he doesn't have the balls. He'd rather be the asexual goofy guy that keeps her comfortable and makes her laugh all night without touching her because he's afraid of making things uncomfortable. Or if he actually ends up touching her, thinks touching her via high fives and thumb wars is sexy lol 3. It puts you in control of the interaction, rather than her. You convey to her, "I'm offering you an opportunity to be with me. Take it or leave it." And then she'll take it or leave it. :) As opposed to being the average guy who never makes a move and is constantly trying to decode her body language and the things she said all night, waiting for 99.9% certainty that she'll accept him before he makes a move... or worse, he'll just wait for her to make a move, which basically never happens, and then he wonders why she doesn't want to hang out anymore. 4. You don't really need to worry about trying to kiss her. If a girl caresses your hand, she's down to make out with you; or give you her number; or be alone with you; etc. Once you two are caressing each others' hands, you're basically on the same team. No more uncertainty or playing games trying to feel each other out. Most guys will try to kiss her instead of going for a hand caress. The problem with kissing is: a) girls often kiss guys who they aren't interested in, so it doesn't really give you any proof that she's into you; b) a kiss rejection is much more awkward and difficult to recover from than a hand caress rejection; c) you can't talk and kiss at the same time, whereas you can caress her hand while she's busy talking if you wanna be sneaky :)

No I've never recommended kissing on the first date. Unless you plan on [bleep]ing her that night, kissing on the first date ironically makes it more likely that you'll never hear from her again. The reason why you caress a girl's hand ASAP is because girls can easily lead inexperienced guys on just by being friendly and flirty with them. But if a guy starts holding her hand and caressing it, she can't really pretend to like that if she's not interested. She'll either simply allow you to caress it if she's on the fence or slightly interested, or she'll caress your hand back if she's attracted you. Or if she was leading you on, she'll cringe and reflexively pull her hand away when you try to caress it. After every first date I go on, I know exactly how a woman feels about me based on how she reacted when I caressed her hand. Way better than walking away from the date, trying to keep score of all her behaviors and guessing whether or not she liked me.

How does making a move on the first date, such as trying to caress her hand, suggest to her that you only want sex? What do you gain by playing it safe and not making a move to gauge her interest?

Don't do dinner. Just do drinks or coffee unless there's some kind of activity that you think you'd both enjoy doing like going for a walk around the park. Text her about something you both laughed about the other night to start the conversation off on a lighthearted note. Banter for a little bit and then pitch the meet. "Let's grab drinks at [place] on [day] night." When did you last see her? You should text her like 24-48 hours after last saw her. Don't wait a few days.

http://forum.tip.it/topic/192134-i-want-a-girlfriendboyfriend-and-other-such-relationship-advice/page-948?do=findComment&comment=5584600 I think it'd be better for you to argue what the benefits are for not making a move on the first date. Because I can guarantee most of the people reading this thread are crossing their fingers, hoping that you're right. Because if you're right and I'm wrong, then they have a free pass to act like a [kitty] and wait for the girl to basically give them a written invitation to make a move :P

Why didn't you make a move to determine whether or not she's interested?

I remember when we had to start learning how to type. They gave us typing programs which made typing exercises into games. Which is actually a good way to learn, but an even better way to learn is just typing all the time at home recreationally. I think everybody eventually became a fast typer mostly through talking via instant messengers all the time, or playing online games which required communication via typing

Whether you think my opinion is valid or not is of no concern. With all due respect, you were at times disrespectful to the game publicly as a moderator and therefore to the community you served. Many of those in the community adored the game. Who wants to be led by negative community leaders? You may have done many positive things as you claim but it just looks like papering over the cracks. I think you're taking this a bit too seriously and making mountains out of molehills. I've been here for over a decade and I've never really viewed any of the mods as "role models." That's not to say that they aren't role models; but rather I'm saying that I just view them as normal people volunteering to do a shitty job that most people don't want to do: babysitting strangers on the internet for free, and having your hard work go largely unnoticed by the community (with the exception of wannabe mods and people who have grudges against you). Sure they're held to a higher standard and expected to be more mature than the average poster, but I think it's a bit silly to genuinely view them as "leaders" or "role models." It's just a fansite forum and they're just trying to keep the place from becoming unruly. Even though I've had arguments with many of the mods over the years (Kim included), I don't think I've ever thought "Wow, I can't believe this person is a mod! What is wrong with this forum?!" I have a feeling you already had the belief that certain mods were dropping the ball somehow, and then you ran with that belief, looking for as much evidence as you could to reinforce that belief. Anyways I'm rambling now. I'll close with: If you don't like TIF, then you can :thumbup:

Just follow my flowchart. I had a girl respond to my opener with "come over?" a couple weeks ago... So I did :)I say "hey"Hey! What a wonderful kind of day!

Just follow my flowchart. I had a girl respond to my opener with "come over?" a couple weeks ago... So I did :)

FTFY

Leave your profile blank and delete pics 3-5.

Not sure if tinder is the right demographic for you lol Treat her like any other girl. I take everything on a young woman's profile (even if they seem to be super religious) with a grain of salt.

That's either a cultural thing or you're just giving off "provider" vibes instead of "player" vibes. In the US, young women (18-22ish) have the least hangups about sex and are the quickest to get into bed. They're all about having fun. As they get older they come up with more and more "rules" for themselves before they'll have sex That said, if you come off as a boring nice guy rather than a player, then you either won't get to have sex with her or she'll make you wait a long time for it. Players get laid on the first date with all kinds of girls all the time, despite the taboo of it. That's why they're players.

i edited my post

Do you have a man bun? That's like the most attractive men's hair cut at the moment Edit: you look a lot more "alpha" in the top pic. You'd prob do even better w/o sunglasses if you're looking aloofly away from the camera, doing the squinch. It's your vibe/facial expression more than your hair IMO Notice how most of the guys in the top results of all time in ladyboners all have very similar facial expressions/attitudes: https://www.reddit.com/r/LadyBoners/top/

Here I'll just quote an old post from a mentor of mine which sums up my thoughts on the friendzone (and cuddling, etc):