That's situational though depending on one persons goals and preferred lifestyles. Telling someone they're losing to a game that you define and create rules for is a tad bit silly. "Real life" can pertain to countless things. What if someone is a stay at home spouse and chooses to spend time playing a game. They could be unproductive in your opinion, but that's all it's coming down to. Judging people for their opinions and preferences.