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lol I'll always wear the pants in my relationship but the thing is mine doesn't care, he's happy :lol:

Boo! minime is 9 1/2 months now just popping in to show his new trick! (I haven't been on the forum as I've been too busy enjoying being a mummy and spending time with him). He's crawling and climbing (has 5 teeth now) so even if I wanted to, I don't have the time. Oh did I mention we're trying for number 2? :lol:

1. It's their computer - you don't own it. Therefore they aren't being over controlling as it is their computer and up to them what they want on it. You are however, being a little emotionally immature about the whole thing. 2. Get a part time job and earn some cash - buy your own (good on your friends for being smart). Good job getting first aid and CPR but you're 15 so don't go thinking all these over the top, cool jobs that you might get because of it. Your age unfortunately is going to be a let down point. Start off working at a fast food joint or something like that and once you mature, get older, become wiser then try working with children because really, you're kind of still a child yourself. Start off small then make your goals larger. 3. The cheapest that has the most qualities, that is good for gaming (to suit your needs). You can always upgrade it and get flashy crap for it when you earn more money. 4. Perhaps the whole family should be more concerned about spending time together offline ;)

1. The first thing I'm concerned about is her linking arms with another dude. My gut feeling is she's actually interested in someone else (which is usually what happens when someone no longer makes an effort, things don't add up, you get a gut instinct that you aren't being treated fairly yadda yadda). 2. If she no longer makes an effort and isn't "relationship mature" to your liking, find someone else who is. Don't invest energy on a lost cause, no matter how long you've been with them and if it hurts to say goodbye.

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The war in the middle east has been going on for a lot longer than the plane crashing in to building bs. If you really want to know who to blame, go back further in to history and ask how America has always been in there somewhere either supplying the weapons or military funding/training for wars they were supposedly against. Go back and find out why Osama was actually a US ally. I could provide you with the answers but what fun would that be...always question everything. Look at East Timor as an example. America trained the Indonesian troops as well as supplied the weapons and even got the go ahead from the president to slaughter the Timor Lestes. You'll need to look in to the actual classified documents that are now available on the web. Also look in to the other super power Russia and how America was supposed to fight alongside them however stayed afar while the Russians were all shot! Gonna love the replies from the yanks ;)

My answer is stressors; the reason being life satisfaction and stress are strongly correlated. I'd also say perception; you choose how to feel in this moment.

Eat something and tell them your stomach needs to settle... then mysteriously you don't feel very well so need to take it easy and go on rides that wont unsettle your stomach.

Thought my ears were burning lol you got it pretty down pat there Dan :thumbup: Another good one is teaching her something like playing pool where you get to physically touch her (show her how to hold the cue while sneakily having one arm over her etc). It doesn't look as suss as it sounds - works a charm.

Wow you guys are marked pretty harshly when I was in high school 82.5%+ = A 92%+ = A+ 77% would have been a B+ rather than a C+, Science would have been a C instead of an F because technically over 50% is a pass. The only thing you would have failed would have been math. You're in year 7, year 7 isn't a big deal. Hell when I was in year 7 I got stickers and stamps not grades LOL If you're worried get a tutor but personally I wouldn't waste your parents money until you get to more important grades such as year 10 and 12.

I usually cast blank votes so I'd say mine makes a difference (however small) in not electing the wrong person over ticking random boxes :lol:

They don't sound like friends to me :shame:

I'm confused, are you saying that your friends only want to hang with you to play your runescape account? My response to that would be to find other activities to do together. If they suggest playing the computer just make up an excuse like "It's actually broken", "I'm grounded" or just straight up tell them you'd "rather enjoy productive activities other than online gaming."

I'm actually still waiting for it to be taken off air or for law suits to come up from vegetarians. Chicken carbonara or chicken schnitzel is a good one.

Wait I remember another time I was in trouble with the police but nothing happened to me. My friend ran away from home but didn't tell any of us and she told us a week in advance that it was okay to go camping outside of her family property. We saw the cops rock up with tracker dogs, hid our bags behind sheets of metal in the shed and crawled on our hands and knees through 2m long grass in the fields until we reached the main highway. Then we called someone to pick us up and hid in the bush land. Later on the police knocked on the door found out where we were and her mum hit me across the face for "being a bad influence" and the police did nothing. I nearly charged her but I decided not to after she kept trying to pull me aside and apologize profusely at the end of school.

lol um okay... although I would argue that in some religious beliefs people believe that God exists within ourselves and that we are the true creators of our own life experiences. You know your trolling sucks when it can be made discussion worthy :P

Just speeding tickets although I did try shop lifting once when I was a teenager and got caught. The shop owner said she would count to 20 and if it wasn't put back in the right place she'd report me so I got away with it, never did it again. Oh wait - I was driven home by the police after my ex made a false claim that I refused to remove myself from his property (I was actually the person paying the rent but I wanted to get out of there anyway but didn't have my license so the cops gave me a lift to my aunties house :lol:).

Even though you have classes with her if you don't want to talk to her then don't lol just be civil if she speaks with you but don't go out of your way. For example this female I'm talking about speaks with me, if I think what she says is overly exaggerated or dramatic [cabbage] I just reply with a "mmhmm" change the subject or don't bother giving it a response as it doesn't necessarily deserve one. This female is the girlfriend of my good friend - I can be friends with my friend without getting involved with her. I simply talk to him and don't bother going out of my way to speak with her. Suits me well actually. I'm not a fan of those who attempt to tell me what's best for my child and their behaviour when I have more experience than them on an educational level as well as experience level. I'm also not a fan of people who go through my bedroom when I'm not in the house (how rude). I really don't like her and think if we went head on she'd get a really rude shock. I'm polite when I need to be but I only let a person get away with so much before I become assertive and put an end to it. She'd come off second best. As for Chris, weigh up if he is worth being friends with still, if he is now you know not to say things to him because he blabs. If you want to confront him, confront him and say something like "Dude... what I told you was in confidence and you blew my trust. I'm glad we're friends but I probably won't trust you as much anymore sorry." to this girl: Don't justify yourself to her. If you bring out the whole story of how you told him and he blew your trust then the cycle will continue and then your friend will come up to you and say "why did you say this about me? why didn't you tell me instead?" It's not worth it. Seriously, I know it's great to be accepted and all by others but some people aren't worthy of making the effort for :P I'll probably end up losing my friendship with this person because of this female (her jealousy issues, attempting to +1 to make her feel she is better than me) there is only a matter of time before she tries to cut off the friendship I can smell it :P I don't think it will last anyway - too emotionally immature/insecure.

Panzers problem[hide=]amg, new problem. It all started thursday in history....we were learning about the bill of rights, when suiddenly this girl, Gabrielle, but prefers to be called Coco, makes a comment about the discussion: "Oh! Mr. Goodman! My grandfather wrote a letter to the supreme court regarding that case and that letter is now cited as a major item from that trial blah blah blah..." I was so pissed off. No you're probably wondering, so what, who gives a [cabbage]? Normally, this wouldn't bug me but... A: She does this quite often, as if to say, "haha, my lineage is better than yours!" B: She's the [bleep] model student. Her not getting 100% on a test is practically unheard of. Once again, "haha, my lineage > your lineage and I > you!" So yeah, that pissed me off... Anyway, I was walking home from school the next day with my friend, and we were discussing this. Our Dialouge went something like: Me: "God, why is she always so up her [wagon] with 'I'm better than you'"? Him: "She really isn't..." Me: "Really... :roll: . Somehow I never seem to hear the end of how she's completely bilingual because she lived in Spain for 5 years." Him: "She doesn't really talk about it that much..." Me: "Maybe not, but nonewithstanding, she makes it obvious that she's better than everyone else..." We go on like this for a while...but I'll resume a but later in the convo... Me: "Her problem is just she can't empathize with the common layman. She lives inside a bubble of smart and popular people, and in her eyes, the commonfolk, the folk who don't score an avg. of 99.5% on tests, but instead maybe 89%'s or 92%'s are nothing." Him: "That's completely unfair and based on nothing. Give examples." Me: I've been in her social class for two years, and she's never even said, 'hi,' to me." Him: "..." Me: "Does she talk to [name withheld for privacy] in French ever? Him: "No..." I go on and cite many more examples...anyways, let's continue to Saturday (today) We were both at our friend's justin's bar mitzvah (mazel tov justin!) and we were still debating, so I decided to conduct a field test I had Chris, who was friends with Coco, talk with jJohn, a normal guy. I had them "coincidentially" meet up with Coco, and have chris talk to her. The point of this test was to sees how Coco would react to, if she even acknoledged, John. Sounds good enough? Here's where it gets bad: I'm watching my test from afar, when I hear my name spoken by Chris. Hmmm? I turn around to read a text, and find in a second, I was being tapped on the shoulder by Coco. I then proceeded to drop my phone like an idiot. I picked it up and legged it to the guys room ASAP b/c I didn't want to be confronted by her, after all of the mean things I'd said. The story should end here. It doesn't. After I reached the sanctuary of the men's bathroom, she sent in guys as messengers, to tell me to come out. One messenger said, Coco via Messenger: "I want to be your firend" <-----Sarcastic? I stood in there for about 10 minutes, and then proceeded to avoid her for the next 50 mniutes. After that, everyone started leaving. I didn't see Coco in the main room so I figured she had to be either A: waiting to be picked up B: gone I took my chance and took a look. She was there, and she called me over to where she was and she asked me, "Do you feel like talking to me is a chore?" <------ GUILT TRIP ALERT :!: :!: So I sat there for a minute. I got scared again and made a phonecall which I used as an excuse to sneak away, and haven't seen/talked to her yet. Does the story end HERE? No. So now I feel bad and I am trying to make ammend, but I can't because I don't want to call her, want to do it over aim. Took me an hour to hunt arround for her sn. Well, as luck would have it, she is apparently never on AIM. So I decided to have my friends call her to tell her to go on AIM. Over two hours and 3 calls, the line was busy every time. Yay. Is this the end of the stroy? Yes. What now?[/hide] If that's her personality then you either accept that about her or simply choose not to like her/be around her. There are always personality traits that you are going to dislike. For example I'm quite motherly a lot of people love that about me and a lot of people hate that about me. Personally, I know people with that kind of personality (that you're talking about) and choose not to hang around them. I remember someone screaming at their partner to get a cloth because they had something on their cothes then screaming out for their mum... I thought wtf drama queen why don't you just get off your [wagon] and go get a cloth and clean it? And that person also feels the need to +1 you when you're just having a normal conversation. I feel sorry that they need to behave in that manner because they feel it is the only way to receive attention. There are much more intelligent ways that's for sure. As for the last comment "do you still feel like talking to me is a chore?" I don't know how it was said and won't jump to any conclusions. You have nothing to apologize for, if you don't like her personality don't speak with her or hang around her. [bleep]ing about them only gives that person power over you though. I simply wouldn't give someone like that the time of day and talk to much more interesting people. Do you need to apologize for running away? I personally wouldn't, I would have meant what I had to say and quite frankly wouldn't want to be around that person. I don't need to justify myself to them. I don't think you have any reason to feel guilty, it's your truth. What do you think you should do to ease your feelings? Forget about this chick, what would make you feel better about the situation? In my situation I simply ignore the person and choose to speak with people I enjoy the company of. That person obviously feels threatened by me or wouldn't feel the need to attempt to +1 up on me. Her bf liked me for years so it's no surprise she acts the way she does towards me. I know I'm the better person and thus don't need to speak of it ;)

Technically the truck belongs to your father because it's in his name. She can't stop you driving it if your father has given it to you but she can say things such as "I don't want you to go out after 10pm" or something like that. The court will probably give the truck back to your father if things were to go down this road unless he specifically states in court that he has given it to you. Technically you are just "borrowing" the truck until he puts it in your name. Sounds like she is still traumatized by something that has happened to her or someone she has cared deeply about involving cars/trucks etc She should probably go get help for that because she is trying to project her fears on to you which is unhealthy and controlling. My father in law's brother died in a motorbike accident and so he tried his hardest to steer my partner away from bike driving. In his controlling attempt he actually pushed him further in to riding bikes.

The first important thing is to learn that you can't control other people you can only control what you are doing right now and how you react to the problem. Secondly - Feeling frustrated is the first sign that what you're doing isn't working. So why isn't it working? What else can you do about it? Is there something you can do right now or will it have to wait a while? Talk to your teacher. Tell your frustrations. "I enjoy group work but I'm having a problem. What can I do when other members of the group won't do anything? I'm a hard worker and I feel that it is unfair that I feel I have to do more than my fair share of the work load. I have already tried talking about it. The other members don't seem to care and think it is funny. If I do nothing, my grades suffer and if I do something, I end up doing most, if not all of it and feel frustrated and powerless. I have a suggestion and I was hoping you will think about it. In future could the people who do their work be put together and the people who don't do work be put together? That way it is equal and the people who don't do work will be put in a situation of do their fair share or know they will fail because there isn't anyone who will do it for them to carry them across the finish line?" If your teacher doesn't listen to you - tell this to your school's counsellor and organize a discussion with your teacher in the counsellor's presence. Team work is all about problem solving - If what you're doing isn't working and wearing you down then it's time to come up with another plan. It will be like this in university for about the first year or half of the first year. Because a) the above situation happens: people who work stick together, people who don't work stick together and they will fail together and B) after the first year around half of the people who started will leave and decide it is not for them, too hard, to go back to work etc And usually it's the smarter people who stick around.

You should have asked this question before you went under their lease (lesson for next time at your own expense). Don't just assume you're going on a 9 month contract, ask them and put it in writing "When the 9 months is up can I move out or will I need to give notice?" also read your contract, when they ask you to read and sign you need to actually read and sign. If there is fine print tell them you will need to come back and sign at a later date, take the contract with you and get it magnified. My advice is to ring the tribunal and tell them your situation - read out your contract to them if you need to. The tribunal will punish lessor accordingly if they have breached any rules. You don't need to seek legal advice just yet. Not only that, legal advice will probably just put you more out of pocket and you'll probably be better off writing it now and staying the extra month. Within saying that I'm not sure where you live and what you're entitled to in the legal sense. Here in Australia you can ring the law firm, tell them your situation and you are allowed 1 free piece of advice before they charge you. An annoying lesson and an expensive lesson but a life lesson nonetheless. Learn by your mistake and come out wiser.

Leave it as water under the bridge. If she wanted to be your friend she would have messaged back or made an effort to get in to contact with you. I'm afraid if you keep messaging she's going to think you're obsessed with her and she may tell you to [bleep] off or get her new boyfriend to ring you. It's great that you want to stay friends with her but I think it was clear from the day she chose to ignore you rather than tell you the truth that she doesn't think too highly of you as a person. Some people don't believe that ex's can be friends. Or that ex's are ex's for a reason ;) It's a real shame though, I think you're great.

Ha! Got the best of procrastination, 10 pages of child development/implementation strategies ready to be sent. It was easier than I thought :? I'm starting to wonder whether I should have applied for credit transfer in this unit. Oh well it's completed now. But wait... I still owe Rick a tarot reading from like a week ago or something.... tomorrow... ;) :lol:

Spiritualism - the one religion that respects all other religions and encourages you to look within your heart for the answers instead of a man in the sky. I don't mind Buddhism either, if reincarnation were real that would be pretty sweet. Hmm Taoism is cool too.