That's good then, have your family back you up if the other family gives you crap. I don't know what the legal age is, but when you (and your partner) have a baby, it's your child, and you get to make the decisions. Her parents should not be able to tell her or you what to do with your child. They have every right to be mad, but in this situation, besides punishing her, I don't think they can do anything else, such as not let you see her, because you are the father...