dacona Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 please help! tell me if you think im depressed. i just need someone to talk to me. becuase im always feling down, and i think everyone including my family hates me, and i hardly ever talk to people unless i need to.i have nearly no friends and im getting iller alot to. and to make it worse my auntie got cancer, my cosins taken by the socails, my father threatens me for the littleest things and my older brother bullies me. im so lonely, i just need someone to talk to, has anyone been through what im going through, am i really depressed or just upset, i been like this for a few months now. i just sometimes want to die. im only 13 for gods sake, how am i supposed to deal with this stress.if anyone here has been what im going through tell me how to get past it. im so upset i never play out cuz i feel people hate me. i come on these forums and say this so that my parents and relatives dont find out how i feel and get worried. i also know that on tip.it most people here are good manord and may be able to help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Continuum Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 Unfortunately, pretty much no one on this board is going to give you sympathy, assuming it's teen angst. I'm sorry for you, being thirteen is tough. Unlucky year. If you want to talk, feel free to send me your screen name on AIM or whatever. I'm only about a year older. *shrugs* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faux Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 Have you tried just breaking down and start crying? It works for me. And to other TIF users, spare him the insults and stupid jokes. :: Guess the Movie Contest Champion: pfilc23 :: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dacona Posted March 28, 2007 Author Share Posted March 28, 2007 to be honest i'd like to see others go though what im going through though just to see if they can call it teen angst then, becuuase to be honest i have protected those cosins of mine since they were born, my auntie with cancer i hardly ever see her as see lives far away so you can tell others who think its teen agst to go through what im going through without suicide becuase i tell u all what , life's f'ing hard for a teen being abused edit: shadow, thanks, and by the way , yeah i do cry , sometimes i cry my self to sleep, its like 11 o clock were i am im the only one awake cuz i cant get to sleep cuase of all this stuff on my mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
highlanders Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 Here's some symptoms of depression, check if you have any of those. Paranoia? It might also be social anxiety, that is very common. Also, if you have some sort of physical ilness, or think that you have one, then it would explain the emotional problems. 2480+ total Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Continuum Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 I wasn't saying you have teen angst, I was saying that other members will say that. -.- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The_Dragon_Reborn Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 My Uncle died of Brain Cancer a year and a half ago. My Older cousin was thrown in jail for 2 years. My Aunt is a Drug addict, and an alchoholic. Her kids (13 and a newborn) were taken away from her last April, and now live with me. She recently was arrested for over 50 charges (Drugs, Drinking and Driving, Assault, Robbery, and Skipping Court), but was let out because she told the Judge she was trying to stop. :roll: Shortly after this, she broke into my house, stole $200 from Me, my Brother, my Cousin (her own [bleep]ing son), my Mom's Social Security card, and numerous other family stuffs. She then sold these to a Pawn Shop in town, and ran with the cash, presumably to buy more drugs. My mom is in shambles, and is afraid to stay alone in my own home for fear of people my aunt know. If you want to talk about stress, put all that on top of being over weight, little social life, schoolwork, Driver's Education, work, and Baseball. ~~Let The Dragon ride again, on the winds of time~~I've always felt as if I'm the only person who can understand the concept of sarcasm on the internet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dacona Posted March 28, 2007 Author Share Posted March 28, 2007 I wasn't saying you have teen angst, I was saying that other members will say that. -.- i know i was just saying for those that think i have, becuase for me life is too hard and im trying to cope but i cant. ps: i like talking to you guys on these forums becuase unlike real life i wont get judged by my appearence on here but instead my personality. also highlanders yeah i show some things meaning i probably am depressed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angryjoe Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 I dunno really i feel sorry for you i have always at least had 1 person to talk to. I would try really hard and stuff to get some friends so you can at least talk to them in person. You just have to try and stick it out, try hard in school so you can get out of it, get a good job when your older and start a new life with a good family. Thats just a suggestion because i dont really know what you should do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abyssalwhip Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 *looks at avatar and location* you don't seem depressed but after reading this if it isn't made up. Wow, I suggest trying to make friends? And unless you're an A-hole which you don't seem like one i doubt everyone hates you, especially you're family. They might act like that but that's not the case... Your name is "bet you fail", and you're starting a business with your mom? I'm not even going to touch that..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dacona Posted March 28, 2007 Author Share Posted March 28, 2007 I dunno really i feel sorry for you i have always at least had 1 person to talk to. I would try really hard and stuff to get some friends so you can at least talk to them in person. You just have to try and stick it out, try hard in school so you can get out of it, get a good job when your older and start a new life with a good family. Thats just a suggestion because i dont really know what you should do. thanks, but there is another problem, not many people in school want to be freinds with me,i duno , thanks for the advise, i'll be good at school also, i might just be like near enough silent at school becuase if i dont talk people wont bother me. ps: The_Dragon_Reborn, if you're not gonna try helping me then dont post becuase ur just making it worse, also if you can find you're mother try to help, like rehab or watever , be there for her, let her know you want to help. thank you everyone who posted some advise Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dacona Posted March 28, 2007 Author Share Posted March 28, 2007 *looks at avatar and location* you don't seem depressed but after reading this if it isn't made up. Wow, I suggest trying to make friends? i put them on a long time ago. i havnt been on here much, so i dont really change avatar + location but anyways i am not faking, why would i? and even if i was faking there might be someone in my position reading this, y'know and they might've been looking for help, like me? look dude im no fake, its just that, if you arent going to suggest help but insult me more, and cuase more phycological harm to me just dont post! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StrOwez Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 Listen to some music to cool yourself down, and learn from the mistakes of your elders so that you wonÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢t make them in future life. A friend to all is a friend to none. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dacona Posted March 28, 2007 Author Share Posted March 28, 2007 Listen to some music to cool yourself down, and learn from the mistakes of your elders so that you wonÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢t make them in future life. i listen to music the thing is though, most music have a bad thing in like rap, i like rap , but it has swearwords and i do swear but it makes me now feel uncomftable, and rock well sometimes there's bad things in that to. . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Continuum Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 Eh, listen to some oldies then. Billy Joel. Rolling Stones. The Beatles. :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dacona Posted March 28, 2007 Author Share Posted March 28, 2007 Eh, listen to some oldies then. Billy Joel. Rolling Stones. The Beatles. :D err... i dont think i should listen to music at all now... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StrOwez Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 Eh, listen to some oldies then. Billy Joel. Rolling Stones. The Beatles. :D err... i dont think i should listen to music at all now... Well then join a sports or other club, fill your head with something, dont just sit there feeling sorry for yourself. A friend to all is a friend to none. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dacona Posted March 28, 2007 Author Share Posted March 28, 2007 Eh, listen to some oldies then. Billy Joel. Rolling Stones. The Beatles. :D err... i dont think i should listen to music at all now... Well then join a sports or other club, fill your head with something, dont just sit there feeling sorry for yourself. like my mom and dad wouldlet me join a club! i do go to one club, but even then nowadays its hard to concentrate Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
highlanders Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 its hard to concentrate Problems to concentrate is one of the symptoms of depression, just pointing that out. 2480+ total Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dacona Posted March 28, 2007 Author Share Posted March 28, 2007 its hard to concentrate Problems to concentrate is one of the symptoms of depression, just pointing that out. oh, ye, i somtimes just forget what im doing or just shut off Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riku3220 Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 Eh, listen to some oldies then. Billy Joel. Rolling Stones. The Beatles. :D err... i dont think i should listen to music at all now... Well then join a sports or other club, fill your head with something, dont just sit there feeling sorry for yourself. like my mom and dad wouldlet me join a club! i do go to one club, but even then nowadays its hard to concentrate i highly doubt that. join your schools chess club and make some friends there or something. you can easily make friends if you try Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dacona Posted March 28, 2007 Author Share Posted March 28, 2007 at my school people are bullied for playing chess as its "nerdy". i personally think chess is not nerdy but a game of logic, but using logic, i assume that being bullied is bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abyssalwhip Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 *looks at avatar and location* you don't seem depressed but after reading this if it isn't made up. Wow, I suggest trying to make friends? i put them on a long time ago. i havnt been on here much, so i dont really change avatar + location but anyways i am not faking, why would i? and even if i was faking there might be someone in my position reading this, y'know and they might've been looking for help, like me? look dude im no fake, its just that, if you arent going to suggest help but insult me more, and cuase more phycological harm to me just dont post!Wow calm down, i wasn't trying to insult you, sorry if you took it as one. Your name is "bet you fail", and you're starting a business with your mom? I'm not even going to touch that..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flametrooper Posted March 28, 2007 Share Posted March 28, 2007 Do things. Whatever you can - sitting around crying does nothing, and makes things worse. If your parents won't let you do anything, either a) talk to them or B) just do more around home things. You say you don't play rs, or listen to music, because you are too depressed. Maybe if you played RS and listened to music you wouldn't be so depressed? Apathy sucks, but if you just try doing things and try to live you may find yourself enjoying it. (Or, there's always the good old "At least I'm better off than the starving dudes in Africa" mode of thought.) Are you sure you have no friends? None? at all? I bet you have at least one friend, one person you know, see often, talk to. Almost everyone does. If you really don't, try making more. If you just try talking to people, responding, saying hi, making funny comments in class, etc, it may work wonders. No one likes an emo, but everyone likes someone who's funny and willing to accept life. And the one thing everyone likes the most is someone who'll listen. And I'm 1) the same age as you and 2) felt similar to you about a year ago. You will survive, trust me, and probably look back on this and laugh. (Unless, that is, you slice your wrists. Don't, trust me.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattycake Posted March 29, 2007 Share Posted March 29, 2007 Man, thats a pity to hear. I personally have experienced way to much difficult times in my life but still remain a strong optimist. Maybe some suggestions should help. 1) Slap on a nice Marley album and try singing at the top of your lungs, not only does singing boost confidence, it also releases positive endorphines that make you happy. 2) Paint and re-arrange your room, most of the time when a person is depressed the old room just reminds them of their sorrows. 3) Take a long walk and think about nice things that family or even people have done for you, for example how much do you think you cost financially to your parents- you would be surprised how much of a sacrifice having a child is. 4) Stay buisy, get a job or even a paper route, nothing makes me feel good like personal achievment. 5) Stay off the drugs for god sakes, I myself am strongly for the legalization of most soft street drugs BUT drugs and depression makes life seem so much worse and this may sound like a over exadgeration but you will end up on heroin or crack trying to forget your life and hoping you miss the vein next time and cark it. Anyways man good luck with stuff and take it easy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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