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I get along with my parents very well, I've earned their trust.

 

 

 

They know I don't do drugs and I only drink on social drinks meaning every 2 - 3 months.

 

 

 

I have friends over all the time girls and guys :) you just need to communicate with them more people. If you do that you're golden for the rest of your life :wink:

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When I was younger, and still at home, I brought very few friends over to my house, mainly due to the fact that my mom had this rule "No people over with at least an hours warning".

 

 

 

The reason for the rule: my mom always had crafts stuff all over the place, and wanted time to tidy up a bit.

 

 

 

Other than that, when I did bring friends over, they loved my mom, because my mom was always that 'cool' mom. The one that everyone could talk to, and be comfortable around. I guess I was lucky in that aspect.

 

 

 

If you can at least open up a bit and talk to your parents, I'm sure it could be reasonable to bring a couple friends over. As long as your room isn't a disaster waiting to happen, you should be fine.

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When I was younger, and still at home, I brought very few friends over to my house, mainly due to the fact that my mom had this rule "No people over with at least an hours warning".

 

 

 

The reason for the rule: my mom always had crafts stuff all over the place, and wanted time to tidy up a bit.

 

 

 

Other than that, when I did bring friends over, they loved my mom, because my mom was always that 'cool' mom. The one that everyone could talk to, and be comfortable around. I guess I was lucky in that aspect.

 

 

 

If you can at least open up a bit and talk to your parents, I'm sure it could be reasonable to bring a couple friends over. As long as your room isn't a disaster waiting to happen, you should be fine.

 

 

 

That's how my mom is. The mom that all my friends think is awesome but I can't stand(most of the time... :-$ ). I'm not really into inviting friends over for that exact reason, everyone seems to be comfortable except me... :?

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you just need to communicate with them more people.

 

 

 

Unfortunately this doesn't work in all cases as we don't live in a perfect world.

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The only people who tell you that you can't do something are those who have already given up on their own dreams so feel the need to discourage yours.

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Oh my. :( Do you just butt heads with them a lot?

 

 

 

You could say that. I can't go too much in to detail because my parents play Runescape and some people reading this might personally know them.

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The only people who tell you that you can't do something are those who have already given up on their own dreams so feel the need to discourage yours.

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well let me tell all you little kids reading this topic.

 

 

 

i got the best feeling in the world when i told my parents everything.

 

 

 

 

 

im 18 now

 

 

 

but when i was back in highschool

 

 

 

hey mom im going drinkign and im going to be at a party ill clal if i need a ride home.

 

 

 

mom dad - okay be safe answer when i call

 

 

 

thats their only rule..

 

 

 

answer wehn they call

 

 

 

and i do

 

 

 

once you can tlel your parents everything and not lie. you will notice you will have much much much more freedom.

 

 

 

i come home in the *not right state of mind* and no its not alcohol its drugs. my parents ask me. i straight up tell the truth.

 

 

 

im pretty sure most parents are fine with things if you straight up tell the damn truth.

 

 

 

dont say *oh my parents arent like that* because have you honestly tried?

 

 

 

 

 

well thats my 2 cents for all yall. :D

 

 

 

i honestly can tell my parents everything and anything.

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well let me tell all you little kids reading this topic.

 

 

 

dont say *oh my parents arent like that* because have you honestly tried?

 

 

 

You don't need to try to degrade us; some of us aren't little kids. In fact, I'm sure some of us are even older than you. While I'm feeling quite happy that you have such a wonderful connection with your family, there are some people who can't. So please don't tie your values to everyone, because realistically, you can't.

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haah goddess whats going on ol runescape classic buddy :shock:

 

 

 

i used to be friends with your father when he played this game. years and years ago. just for your information. and its glad to see that your still around.

 

 

 

i no your not a little kid.

 

 

 

infact your in your 20's i believe now.

 

 

 

 

 

i had forgotten to add in my post above ( for the little kids viewing this topic) aka their are older people viewing this but this is aiming at just the little kids. and yes i realize most people dont have that good of connection with their familes. but in all honestly ask anyone on here how muc hthey try to have a good connection. and that will get your answer.

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You have a point - I thought that by what you wrote you were trying to apply it to everyone ::' Glad that's sorted.

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The only people who tell you that you can't do something are those who have already given up on their own dreams so feel the need to discourage yours.

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but in all honestly ask anyone on here how muc hthey try to have a good connection

 

Both the parent and the children need to make an effort. Something one-way will not work.

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dont say *oh my parents arent like that* because have you honestly tried?

 

 

 

 

I'm 17 and yes I have tried. Basically they have 3 rules.

 

 

 

1. Answer when they call

 

2. Absolutely no drugs

 

3. Call for a ride if I have anything to drink

 

 

 

I follow those rules and we get along for the most part. For the most part that really does work as long as your parents are very open minded. Some parents wouldn't be like ours though..

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