It might. You would think that if she really started to get emotionally involved with you, she would not really need anyone else right? But I bet she would still be a bit flirty with other guys... even though she only actually loves you. She reminds me of a friend of mine ( a girl), she flirts with a lot of guys, even when she has a boyfriend. But again, if she really starts to get attached to you then it will probably get better.

I have to disagree, anyone who's flirting that much when they're just starting to date isn't going to get better.

Well the friend that I referenced really just does it to put up a wall. She really got attached to one guy once and he "broke her heart", it took her over a year to get over it, and now she is afraid to get attached to anyone else. It might be the same issue with his girl... by flirting with different guys she might be preventing herself from getting over-attached to one guy. Actually Blake, you should just go and talk to her about it and tell her that it bothers you.

 

...I do that.

Weird.

 

and by 'that' I mean I flirt with a ton of people for no real reason other than to not get attatched to anyONE of them. Again, commitment issue.

 

It might. You would think that if she really started to get emotionally involved with you, she would not really need anyone else right? But I bet she would still be a bit flirty with other guys... even though she only actually loves you. She reminds me of a friend of mine ( a girl), she flirts with a lot of guys, even when she has a boyfriend. But again, if she really starts to get attached to you then it will probably get better.

I have to disagree, anyone who's flirting that much when they're just starting to date isn't going to get better.

Well the friend that I referenced really just does it to put up a wall. She really got attached to one guy once and he "broke her heart", it took her over a year to get over it, and now she is afraid to get attached to anyone else. It might be the same issue with his girl... by flirting with different guys she might be preventing herself from getting over-attached to one guy. Actually Blake, you should just go and talk to her about it and tell her that it bothers you.

 

Yeah, I planned to say something next time it came up, and it will come up. I'll let you know how it goes.

ouch bro </3

:P

 

My pants that night were standard black pleated, with Dockson black loafer lookin things. Brand new, so they weren't terrible. As for a new tie, I got a whole box, I just like that one...is there a significance in silk red? cause that one is silk black with red swirls and a yellow abstract design at the bottom

No, I just thought it wasn't a very nice tie. I tend to steer clear from anything that isn't plaid/rep/plain. You should also get some solid dress shoes that you can stick into a category, as opposed to loafer they're loafer looking things. Black, clean oxfords will do.

No offence, but I look better and yet YOU get laid. Oh Australian women, why art thou so denser then mercury...

- RPG looks okay, he gets laid in the USA.

- You look good, no love in Australia.

Conclusion: You don't get laid because girls are weird in Australia.

:mellow:

ouch bro </3

:P

 

My pants that night were standard black pleated, with Dockson black loafer lookin things. Brand new, so they weren't terrible. As for a new tie, I got a whole box, I just like that one...is there a significance in silk red? cause that one is silk black with red swirls and a yellow abstract design at the bottom

No, I just thought it wasn't a very nice tie. I tend to steer clear from anything that isn't plaid/rep/plain. You should also get some solid dress shoes that you can stick into a category, as opposed to loafer they're loafer looking things. Black, clean oxfords will do.

No offence, but I look better and yet YOU get laid. Oh Australian women, why art thou so denser then mercury...

- RPG looks okay, he gets laid in the USA.

- You look good, no love in Australia.

Conclusion: You don't get laid because girls are weird in Australia.

:mellow:

 

What the hell do you even look like, Tim? [Dark_Aura]

 

now I'm curious

ouch bro </3

:P

 

My pants that night were standard black pleated, with Dockson black loafer lookin things. Brand new, so they weren't terrible. As for a new tie, I got a whole box, I just like that one...is there a significance in silk red? cause that one is silk black with red swirls and a yellow abstract design at the bottom

No, I just thought it wasn't a very nice tie. I tend to steer clear from anything that isn't plaid/rep/plain. You should also get some solid dress shoes that you can stick into a category, as opposed to loafer they're loafer looking things. Black, clean oxfords will do.

No offence, but I look better and yet YOU get laid. Oh Australian women, why art thou so denser then mercury...

- RPG looks okay, he gets laid in the USA.

- You look good, no love in Australia.

Conclusion: You don't get laid because girls are weird in Australia.

:mellow:

 

What the hell do you even look like, Tim? [Dark_Aura]

 

now I'm curious

 

When I get my hair streaked with blonde tips in a week or so I'll post a picture. :thumbup:

This is incredibly short notice, but I hope someone can help my 'situation'. It's self inflicted really, but I can play it out in my mind and it goes wrong every time.

 

Just so you know, Woman 'B' is the only one who I am trying to enter a relationship with. 'A' is already in a relationship, so off limits.

 

Basically, today (half past midnight GMT, wednesday, right now) I am going to a party, with 'A' and she is requiring that I stay with her the whole night. Yesterday (Tuesday) I continued flirting with 'B' and it ended up with me persuading her to come out tonight instead. As it's a Where's Wally (Waldo) party, I've given 'B' a game - she has to find me (We're going to a club at around 11pm, she is arriving after that and has to find me) in the club.

 

The problem here is that 'A' is a good friend, so if I go off and spend my night with 'B', she might feel left out. Conversely, if 'B' finds me dancing with 'A', she might assume that I'm trying to 'get' with 'A'.

 

I didn't ask to be with 'A' the entire night, she has basically told me that I'm with her for the entire night.

 

 

Anyway. I don't need advice on how to 'Pull' as I'd say I'm basically there, I just need advice on how to handle this... most unfortunate of circumstances in a way which will not alienate 'A' and not send 'B' away.

 

All help is greatly appreciated.

Ask A to help you get with B. She'll get to be your wingwoman which is enough for her not to feel left out, and you'll get to flirt with B.

I'd go with this, ^ it's pretty fool safe.

 

or if you think you can play your cards right, dance with A to make B jealous and more into you.

Ask A to help you get with B. She'll get to be your wingwoman which is enough for her not to feel left out, and you'll get to flirt with B.

 

Yeah that's probably the best route. Try not to look too into 'A' while dancing with her, in case 'B' suddenly appears. I'd explain to 'B' that 'A' was just there as a friend...but I mean, you could use her as a tool of jealousy, like dan said

I don't really feel comfortable with that, and I'm not sure I could pull it off. Since I'd only have one shot anyway I think it'd be better to ask 'A' to be my wingwoman.

 

Thanks for the help everyone. Buy yourselves each a cookie and have it on me :thumbsup:

I don't really feel comfortable with that, and I'm not sure I could pull it off. Since I'd only have one shot anyway I think it'd be better to ask 'A' to be my wingwoman.

 

Thanks for the help everyone. Buy yourselves each a cookie and have it on me :thumbsup:

 

your success is better than any cookie I could ever find. So go out there and get yourself a lady!

Hmm what is the nicest way to tell your bestfriend that you are practically dating his ex?

Hmm what is the nicest way to tell your bestfriend that you are practically dating his ex?

What's the nicest way to tell someone he shouldn't ask for advice if he isn't going to bother reading it? I don't remember a single person, out of all the people who read your post, who said you should go along with it. Most said lose her as quick as you can.

 

In case that didn't work, to answer your question, DON"T.

 

Sorry if I'm confusing you with someone else. You're the guy who described how some girl wanted to get with you who was sort of [bleep]ty and had a messy breakup with your best friend, right?

Hmm what is the nicest way to tell your bestfriend that you are practically dating his ex?

What's the nicest way to tell someone he shouldn't ask for advice if he isn't going to bother reading it? I don't remember a single person, out of all the people who read your post, who said you should go along with it. Most said lose her as quick as you can.

 

In case that didn't work, to answer your question, DON"T.

 

Sorry if I'm confusing you with someone else. You're the guy who described how some girl wanted to get with you who was sort of [bleep]ty and had a messy breakup with your best friend, right?

 

 

That is me.

 

And I'm sorry but you cannot control who you have feelings for. I'm not going to rant any further because it is pointless to argue over something like this, yes you all said I shouldn't do it but things happened and I had few choices.

And I'm sorry but you cannot control who you have feelings for. I'm not going to rant any further because it is pointless to argue over something like this, yes you all said I shouldn't do it but things happened and I had few choices.

You can control who you're dating. Man up and do the right thing.

And I'm sorry but you cannot control who you have feelings for. I'm not going to rant any further because it is pointless to argue over something like this, yes you all said I shouldn't do it but things happened and I had few choices.

You can control who you're dating. Man up and do the right thing.

:thumbup:

 

Ignore those feelings and it will go away with time.

I egged Standard_Pix on. My bad?

 

Ask him if he's cool with it before you actually start dating her.

I egged Standard_Pix on. My bad?

You're excused.

I egged Standard_Pix on. My bad?

 

Ask him if he's cool with it before you actually start dating her.

 

That is what we are doing.

Still a bad idea, but whatever.

 

Next time tell us you're going to ignore our advice so we don't waste our time.

Still a bad idea, but whatever.

 

Next time tell us you're going to ignore our advice so we don't waste our time.

 

I didn't ignore you advice, I actually followed it at the start but then things happened.

 

But sorry none the less.

I egged Standard_Pix on. My bad?

 

Ask him if he's cool with it before you actually start dating her.

 

That is what we are doing.

Don't do it as a 'we' thing. Pull him over to the side one day and ask for his permission to date her. If he says no go directly to square one, do not pass go and do not collect $200.

And I'm sorry but you cannot control who you have feelings for. I'm not going to rant any further because it is pointless to argue over something like this, yes you all said I shouldn't do it but things happened and I had few choices.

You can control who you're dating. Man up and do the right thing.

This.

Still a bad idea, but whatever.

 

Next time tell us you're going to ignore our advice so we don't waste our time.

Also this.

 

My best friend did it to me like 5 years ago and it still effects me long after they broke up. They're long over it, but it still [bleep]s with me. There will always be other girls. Anyone who puts [garden tool]s before bros is pathetic imo.

 

"Few choices"... Hows "I'm not going put my [bleep] before my friend" as a choice?

We got some sensitive ass people up in this hurrr thread, don't we?

 

Advice is supposed to be adhered to when asked for, but don't take it as a personal offense if they don't listen to what you tell them to do. They're people, too with their own free will.

 

And no, I'm not just defending Standard_Pix, I mean this thread has a history of raging at anyone who posts here, and then does whatever they want anyway. This thread is about acceptance and understanding advisement, not egotistical butthurt. C'mon people.

 

 

 

in other news...I'm losing the fight for the girl that I only last morning realized how much I cared for. I was okay with it until something magical happened. She texted me, woke me up and I smiled. I NEVER smile when I wake up. Ever. it's been years since a girl had this effect on me.

 

...and I'm losing her. :(

 

Feels bad gentlemen. Feels bad.

 

Reasons for not pouring my heart out to her in a pathetic attempt to gain her love; GO!

Because you'll come across as desperate and needy, and most likely put her off you.