I think the worst breakups are when someone gets their friend to break up with their bf/gf for them. I had to do that recently. :shock: One of my friends just invited me over to her house, gave me her boyfriend's number and said, "Call him and break up with him for me. I don't want to do it." I was like, "You want me to call a person I don't even know and have him be informed by someone he doesn't know that his girlfriend doesn't like him anymore?" and she was like, "Yeah. I'm gonna be in the other room watching TV. Just come out there when you're done." And she walked away. It was really weird...

 

He did it in public, in front of maybe 20 people casually, and made a rhyme out of it. I dont even remember the rhyme, but it was crazy. It ended in "and you're dumped, wonderful person" (censor stars it out, but the word is a female dog).

 

 

 

*? That's horrible. I would've punched the guy, even if that girl was a 'female dog'.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Nah, you really wouldn't have. The girl really was a "female dog" and although what he did was amazingly harsh, she probably deserved it, and I still thought it was hiliarous. If you had punched him tho, you would have been risking getting gang beaten over defending trailer trash :lol:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

But ya know how kids are anyways....I was in grade 8 at the time, the guy was in grade 9. Just little kid stuff, nothing serious anyways. The whole thing was more or less a joke.

 

 

He did it in public, in front of maybe 20 people casually, and made a rhyme out of it. I dont even remember the rhyme, but it was crazy. It ended in "and you're dumped, wonderful person" (censor stars it out, but the word is a female dog).

 

 

 

*? That's horrible. I would've punched the guy, even if that girl was a 'female dog'.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Nah, you really wouldn't have. The girl really was a "female dog" and although what he did was amazingly harsh, she probably deserved it, and I still thought it was hiliarous. If you had punched him tho, you would have been risking getting gang beaten over defending trailer trash :lol:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

But ya know how kids are anyways....I was in grade 8 at the time, the guy was in grade 9. Just little kid stuff, nothing serious anyways. The whole thing was more or less a joke.

 

 

 

Well, yeah ok. Pretty stupid anyway.

You went out with a guy who uses cliche's over a text message?

 

 

 

I'll tell you now hun, you're better off without him!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

That's what my friends say, that's what i say!!! But hell, i still like him... (jack*** is his new nickname!)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So'k.. i guess... at least i didn't sleep with him!!! Woohoo!! (Jack***....................) He WAS in it to screw me anyway.................................................................

:? Was in one realtionship so far... i broke up with her cause she was a female dog. Although i did it really nicly, and gave a friend a note i wrote. Next day she went out witha friend of mine...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

off-topic:Oh well.. im so tempted to make another thread about help witha realation ship cause there is a girl i realllllly like...

never have had a break-up

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

never have had a relationship either

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

turning 17 in august

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

im attempting to stay away from girls as much as possible in that way...its not working though lol...i keep finding myself flirting/ them flirting back...and have them "lead-on" time and time again....ill crack sooner or later :P

off-topic:Oh well.. im so tempted to make another thread about help witha realation ship cause there is a girl i realllllly like...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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^ Lol, go for it. But if you do, it has to be in full detail!! You can't just say something stupid like "I liked this girl for a while now, but I dunno if she likes me." :lol:

 

 

 

I dunno, isn't it awkward talking about that stuff online? Whatever works for you tho. If anything, my PM box is always open :wink:

i think its easier talking to them online...i prefer inperson too though

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

all you need is confidence Lionheart...thats all it takes

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

sometimes you'll come off cocky...and it might not always be good...but like id say 75% love it when ur beaming with that confident cocky attitude

:? guess i worded it wrong. Its that i like a girl,a nd ive liked her for along time, and just the other day, i thought i saw a glimmer in her eyes when she looked at me... Im sorta like my father, i can detect diffrent emotions, and changes in a person. and i couldnt identifiy this one...

:? guess i worded it wrong. Its that i like a girl,a nd ive liked her for along time, and just the other day, i thought i saw a glimmer in her eyes when she looked at me... Im sorta like my father, i can detect diffrent emotions, and changes in a person. and i couldnt identifiy this one...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

go for it man...bring all ur confidence with you..no doubts...no regrets...no worrying or nervousness (harder than it sounds for some people)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

take her somewhere...be original...romantic...make her want you...and not so much you wanting her...in a way...you gotta act like you dont care how things go

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

and if yo see an opening...lean in :wink:

 

:? guess i worded it wrong. Its that i like a girl,a nd ive liked her for along time, and just the other day, i thought i saw a glimmer in her eyes when she looked at me... Im sorta like my father, i can detect diffrent emotions, and changes in a person. and i couldnt identifiy this one...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

go for it man...bring all ur confidence with you..no doubts...no regrets...no worrying or nervousness (harder than it sounds for some people)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

take her somewhere...be original...romantic...make her want you...and not so much you wanting her...in a way...you gotta act like you dont care how things go

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

and if yo see an opening...lean in :wink:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thnks man, you and Avi both have given good advice. Lets no longer stray off topic, dotn want to risk this getting locked, its intresting :D

felacio, then right after.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

HAHAHA, curious how many ppl would know about that. Well at least it eased the pain from the break up :D

When out with some chick and 5 mins later comes up and breaks up with me. :lol:

getting dumped after 7 months for the reason of "best friend name here" turned out later that wasnt y but it was devastating the second it happened :?

Its really bad when they ask how you would like to be broken up with first....it just gets really akward.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Although I have had alot of "We should break up"...."Yep" "Ok seeya" "bye"

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Yeah I do ALOT of those.

Well, i had gotten a moped and rode it everywhere(even to and from my high school :? ), well one day i came outta school and written on my moped in paint was in bright purple ink "we're done"

Although I personaly have never broken up with anyone. Kind of because I've never had a date (curse my shyness!). Ahh... I'm only 16 , I still have time. However I recently discoverd exactly why my best friend's first (and currently only, since I don't count the time he dated someone over the internet) girlfriend broke up with him. I was his fault, he made just about the dumbest comment he could possibly make. I will not repeat his comment because its rather inapproprite and he wouldn't be happy if I posted it on the internet for the world to see.

I'm afraid you guys are overlooking the most painful, the unknown. I've never done it, nor have I had it done to me... but in the pre-dating stage its happened on both sides multiple times. Just don't say anything, but move on... so you never have anything real and concrete so you kind of thing it is still there, but she 'ent acting like it is (going with other guys). The leaving in the dark has got to be worse than anything else imo

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Lion, good luck lad... just watch the movie Hitch before you do it... Its the Eye of the Tiger of dating :P (but don't read too much into it)

You know whta would really hurt after a relationship? It's you have to pretend none of it ever happened and you're back to being good ol' buddies (it means being some what civelised to him!!). It kills you because you're still laughing in his face of some silly think he did and deep inside you just want to tell him how you feel but instead of saying that, you turn out saying "you idiot!". And he pretends nothing happened either.. Of course, he obviously speends more time ignoring you sometimes and throwing signals the next...... WAIT!!! I think it's called living a lie......

I'm afraid you guys are overlooking the most painful, the unknown. I've never done it, nor have I had it done to me... but in the pre-dating stage its happened on both sides multiple times. Just don't say anything, but move on... so you never have anything real and concrete so you kind of thing it is still there, but she 'ent acting like it is (going with other guys). The leaving in the dark has got to be worse than anything else imo

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Yep, that hurts. A lot. It's just happened with me over two different girls.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

But the ultimate worst one is when you start realising that you like one of your friends. Except, from what you can see, she doesn't like you. Worse, she likes someone else (someone that you know, but not amazingly well), and comes to you for advice. You can't give her crap advice that would stop anything happening, because she knows you too well and would see through it immediately, the same with not giving advice. So you watch the girl that you like run off with another bloke, knowing all the while that you helped it happen. That hurts.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Although it was made worse when I was talking this over with another friend and she said that if I'd have asked the girl out 4 months ago she'd have gone out with me. Then she started liking the other bloke, and I started liking her. If the timing had been that little bit better...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Wasted opportunities hurt worse than break ups.

ive never even been with a girlfriend b4, mm, everytime i ask, "cant we just b friends"... :roll:

You know whta would really hurt after a relationship? It's you have to pretend none of it ever happened and you're back to being good ol' buddies (it means being some what civelised to him!!). It kills you because you're still laughing in his face of some silly think he did and deep inside you just want to tell him how you feel but instead of saying that, you turn out saying "you idiot!". And he pretends nothing happened either.. Of course, he obviously speends more time ignoring you sometimes and throwing signals the next...... WAIT!!! I think it's called living a lie......

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Been there, done that, and never doing it again.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My ex stole me from my friends, and i almost never hung out with them. Going back was slightly hard.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

But how is forgetting hard? Just dystroy memories, dont think of them.

 

You know whta would really hurt after a relationship? It's you have to pretend none of it ever happened and you're back to being good ol' buddies (it means being some what civelised to him!!). It kills you because you're still laughing in his face of some silly think he did and deep inside you just want to tell him how you feel but instead of saying that, you turn out saying "you idiot!". And he pretends nothing happened either.. Of course, he obviously speends more time ignoring you sometimes and throwing signals the next...... WAIT!!! I think it's called living a lie......

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Been there, done that, and never doing it again.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My ex stole me from my friends, and i almost never hung out with them. Going back was slightly hard.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

But how is forgetting hard? Just dystroy memories, dont think of them.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

once u feel something real...trust me its totally different than what you think now....but forgetting is one of the hardest things in the world...

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WTH is this? Sorry this is O.T. but that's ridiculous. I just re-read the rules, there's no such rule in there.