Lenin64 Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 I'm getting better with the anti-social thing. Like, a lot better. So that's nice. But I take far too few risks with my social interactions. Command the Murderous Chalices! Drink ye harpooners! drink and swear, ye men that man the deathful whaleboat's bow- Death to Moby Dick!BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GOD! SKULLS FOR THE SKULL THRONE! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
9Fade1 Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 I know what I need to say or do in my head but when the time comes I Chicken out a lot and then tend to beat myself up about it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
9Fade1 Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 I know what I need to say or do in my head but when the time comes I Chicken out a lot and then tend to beat myself up about it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skull Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 I've been getting better at it too. I've recently found that when I open my mouth I vomit awesomeness. [bleep] the law, they can eat my dick that's word to Pimp Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skull Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 I've been getting better at it too. I've recently found that when I open my mouth I vomit awesomeness. [bleep] the law, they can eat my dick that's word to Pimp Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wisp Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 They way I deal with stuff is just by doing it. Not sure if I should say it, just say it. I mean, within reason. Works for other stuff to. Hegemony-Spain Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wisp Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 They way I deal with stuff is just by doing it. Not sure if I should say it, just say it. I mean, within reason. Works for other stuff to. Hegemony-Spain Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skull Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 Ok, back to flaws... don't want to turn this into an optimistic thread or anything like that. :lol: Uhh, I tend to not realize that I'm being offensive until it's too late. Not that I'm actually offensive, it's just that people who don't know me well don't realize that I'm being satirical. [bleep] the law, they can eat my dick that's word to Pimp Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skull Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 Ok, back to flaws... don't want to turn this into an optimistic thread or anything like that. :lol: Uhh, I tend to not realize that I'm being offensive until it's too late. Not that I'm actually offensive, it's just that people who don't know me well don't realize that I'm being satirical. [bleep] the law, they can eat my dick that's word to Pimp Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PoorLepRecon Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 I'm too shy. I'm unconfident around girls. I only talk to the ones that I've known for a while, I can't just start up a converstation. I'm too hard on myself. I'm a smart-[wagon] at times. I'm condescending. I sleep in class (only history, even though I enjoy the subject). As for me, I can be a [Female Dog] online sometimes without meaning too. They really need to make it so that word I had to custom-censor has a different censor than the f word. You know, the reason we have a censor is so you don't know what word was being said. It kind of defeats the purpose if you know what each word is censored. Though the censor for [cabbage] is quite entertaining. Forum Updates & Suggestions <------ Let your voice be heard!Forum Games <------- Coolest place on Tip.ItTip.It Forum Rules <------- Read them! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PoorLepRecon Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 I'm too shy. I'm unconfident around girls. I only talk to the ones that I've known for a while, I can't just start up a converstation. I'm too hard on myself. I'm a smart-[wagon] at times. I'm condescending. I sleep in class (only history, even though I enjoy the subject). As for me, I can be a [Female Dog] online sometimes without meaning too. They really need to make it so that word I had to custom-censor has a different censor than the f word. You know, the reason we have a censor is so you don't know what word was being said. It kind of defeats the purpose if you know what each word is censored. Though the censor for [cabbage] is quite entertaining. Forum Updates & Suggestions <------ Let your voice be heard!Forum Games <------- Coolest place on Tip.ItTip.It Forum Rules <------- Read them! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wisp Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 I'm too shy. I'm unconfident around girls. I only talk to the ones that I've known for a while, I can't just start up a converstation. I'm too hard on myself. I'm a smart-[wagon] at times. I'm condescending. I sleep in class (only history, even though I enjoy the subject). As for me, I can be a [Female Dog] online sometimes without meaning too. They really need to make it so that word I had to custom-censor has a different censor than the f word. You know, the reason we have a censor is so you don't know what word was being said. It kind of defeats the purpose if you know what each word is censored. Though the censor for [cabbage] is quite entertaining. Well, everyone knows that the swears have unique censors most of the time. I remember [wagon] was censored to wagon, and stuff like that. I don't really see why that word should be censored anyway, but whatever. I mean, if someone say's that they're a [bleep] (This used to be censored to [puncture] I think) because they have a fetish and don't like how [cabbage] is going in the world, and it [bleep]ing sucks. I can tell what they're saying, just because the censor has unique stuff for most words. Hegemony-Spain Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wisp Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 I'm too shy. I'm unconfident around girls. I only talk to the ones that I've known for a while, I can't just start up a converstation. I'm too hard on myself. I'm a smart-[wagon] at times. I'm condescending. I sleep in class (only history, even though I enjoy the subject). As for me, I can be a [Female Dog] online sometimes without meaning too. They really need to make it so that word I had to custom-censor has a different censor than the f word. You know, the reason we have a censor is so you don't know what word was being said. It kind of defeats the purpose if you know what each word is censored. Though the censor for [cabbage] is quite entertaining. Well, everyone knows that the swears have unique censors most of the time. I remember [wagon] was censored to wagon, and stuff like that. I don't really see why that word should be censored anyway, but whatever. I mean, if someone say's that they're a [bleep] (This used to be censored to [puncture] I think) because they have a fetish and don't like how [cabbage] is going in the world, and it [bleep]ing sucks. I can tell what they're saying, just because the censor has unique stuff for most words. Hegemony-Spain Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PoorLepRecon Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 Yeah, I know. It defeats the purpose of the censor because you know what is said anyways. Atleast with [bleep] you have to wonder what was said, even though it's pretty obvious. Forum Updates & Suggestions <------ Let your voice be heard!Forum Games <------- Coolest place on Tip.ItTip.It Forum Rules <------- Read them! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PoorLepRecon Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 Yeah, I know. It defeats the purpose of the censor because you know what is said anyways. Atleast with [bleep] you have to wonder what was said, even though it's pretty obvious. Forum Updates & Suggestions <------ Let your voice be heard!Forum Games <------- Coolest place on Tip.ItTip.It Forum Rules <------- Read them! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueLancer Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 Acknowledging the ridiculous nature of 'required societal norms' and the general emptiness of life does wonders for anti-socialism. When you free yourself of shackles like self-conscious shame, you can have polite conversations with strangers, have a good time with friends, be open with loved ones, etc... Just think of life as another game. Don't be scared to speak; Ultimately most people will not laugh at you or think you are awkward, as long as you have something meaningful to say. The bad part is that only you can do it. Nobody, probably not even a psychiatrist, can just 'make' you social. It's not an inherited trait any more than other traits (roughly 50/50 between genetics & environment). You can learn to control aspects of your personality if you really want to. For me, I realized how unattractive, unprofessional and unfriendly people find it when you don't look at them or try to engage in meaningful conversation, instead just grunting simple responses and staying silent. I don't live for other people's opinions, but other people can definitely give you some perspective on what you could change in yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueLancer Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 Acknowledging the ridiculous nature of 'required societal norms' and the general emptiness of life does wonders for anti-socialism. When you free yourself of shackles like self-conscious shame, you can have polite conversations with strangers, have a good time with friends, be open with loved ones, etc... Just think of life as another game. Don't be scared to speak; Ultimately most people will not laugh at you or think you are awkward, as long as you have something meaningful to say. The bad part is that only you can do it. Nobody, probably not even a psychiatrist, can just 'make' you social. It's not an inherited trait any more than other traits (roughly 50/50 between genetics & environment). You can learn to control aspects of your personality if you really want to. For me, I realized how unattractive, unprofessional and unfriendly people find it when you don't look at them or try to engage in meaningful conversation, instead just grunting simple responses and staying silent. I don't live for other people's opinions, but other people can definitely give you some perspective on what you could change in yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IGoddessI Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 Wanting everything now not later ;) The only people who tell you that you can't do something are those who have already given up on their own dreams so feel the need to discourage yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IGoddessI Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 Wanting everything now not later ;) The only people who tell you that you can't do something are those who have already given up on their own dreams so feel the need to discourage yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Levon_ Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 Everything. I think so low of myself that I scared to talk to this girl that I like when I am 99.9^9% sure that she likes me. Really sucks. It's great you know what you're talking about rustiod. Everything you've said is 100% accurate a true. That being said...your a [bleep]ing [bleep] douchebag, and none of your advice will ever (or should ever) be taken seriously because of it.disregard good advice because the giver is a douche THAT MAKES YOU A BETTER PERSON Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Levon_ Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 Everything. I think so low of myself that I scared to talk to this girl that I like when I am 99.9^9% sure that she likes me. Really sucks. It's great you know what you're talking about rustiod. Everything you've said is 100% accurate a true. That being said...your a [bleep]ing [bleep] douchebag, and none of your advice will ever (or should ever) be taken seriously because of it.disregard good advice because the giver is a douche THAT MAKES YOU A BETTER PERSON Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wisp Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 Everything. I think so low of myself that I scared to talk to this girl that I like when I am 99.9^9% sure that she likes me. Really sucks. Just talk to her... Worst case scenario, she doesn't like her. Oh noes. [cliche] We all are good in some ways, no matter what we think of ourselves [/cliche] Hegemony-Spain Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wisp Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 Everything. I think so low of myself that I scared to talk to this girl that I like when I am 99.9^9% sure that she likes me. Really sucks. Just talk to her... Worst case scenario, she doesn't like her. Oh noes. [cliche] We all are good in some ways, no matter what we think of ourselves [/cliche] Hegemony-Spain Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Levon_ Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 Everything. I think so low of myself that I scared to talk to this girl that I like when I am 99.9^9% sure that she likes me. Really sucks. Just talk to her... Worst case scenario, she doesn't like her. Oh noes. [cliche] We all are good in some ways, no matter what we think of ourselves [/cliche] Yeah but how ;_; and it should be "she doesn't like you" not "like her" It's great you know what you're talking about rustiod. Everything you've said is 100% accurate a true. That being said...your a [bleep]ing [bleep] douchebag, and none of your advice will ever (or should ever) be taken seriously because of it.disregard good advice because the giver is a douche THAT MAKES YOU A BETTER PERSON Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Levon_ Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 Everything. I think so low of myself that I scared to talk to this girl that I like when I am 99.9^9% sure that she likes me. Really sucks. Just talk to her... Worst case scenario, she doesn't like her. Oh noes. [cliche] We all are good in some ways, no matter what we think of ourselves [/cliche] Yeah but how ;_; and it should be "she doesn't like you" not "like her" It's great you know what you're talking about rustiod. Everything you've said is 100% accurate a true. That being said...your a [bleep]ing [bleep] douchebag, and none of your advice will ever (or should ever) be taken seriously because of it.disregard good advice because the giver is a douche THAT MAKES YOU A BETTER PERSON Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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