Guest XplsvBam Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 When is it right to forgive and forget? Always? Never? Sometimes? I'm sure it depends highly on the situation. Let's say someone important to you makes you feel really crappy. Sure they didn't mean to do it. What if they don't even realize what happend? What if they did? Should you tell them how you feel? Should you shrug it off? Can you think of an example of when this happend to you? How did it end? I'm in a very forgiving mood right now, just not a forgetting mood :x I'm not the subject here right now, forgiving and forgetting is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
____ Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 For me, never. I might forgive, but never forget. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubsa Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 A case of keep your friends close and your enemies closer. This is how much you all raised for charity. Thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigUso Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 A case of keep your friends close and your enemies closer. never really believed in the wesley snipes train of thought.... but uh... fight, squash it. then go back to being friends... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tetsuya Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 I don't forgive very easily. But if I do, I generally forget. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lionheart_0 Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 I usaly forgive and forget once, but if something happens again, i forget, and do not forgive. I will dislike that person, but i wont want to remember why. Edit: after much thinking, I forgive and forget almost all the time except in extream cases, friends are better then foes. Sig by IkuraiYour Guide to Posting! Behave or I will send my Moose mounted Beaver launchers at you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faux Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 One of my best friends pissed me off a few years ago. Didn't talk to him for months til the school year was over. I can hold a grudge for a long time, but it always depends on the incident. I can also forgive within a few hours. Forgetting is the same, it depends on the incident. :: Guess the Movie Contest Champion: pfilc23 :: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ctp080188 Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 It depends on the severity of the situation really, in most severe and very rare cases i neither forgive nor forget. Meh most the time it's never that bad once you look over it, and I'm an easy going person most of the time, no point wasting my energy on grudges! :D SHH HUT YUH MUH. DERKHED. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dusqi Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 It's psychologically healthier to forgive and forget. However.. it's all very well to want to do it.. but how do you go about it? The more you think about it.. the less you forget. For it is the greyness of dusk that reigns.The time when the living and the dead exist as one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mad4u689 Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 Don't forget; intentional ignorance rarely works out well. Forgive; all humans are, well, human. And good, somewhere, deep down. Everybody hug and spread the love :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest XplsvBam Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 A case of keep your friends close and your enemies closer. never really believed in the wesley snipes train of thought.... but uh... fight, squash it. then go back to being friends... wow when u posted that i was watching blade... ka ka ka krazy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
knives669 Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 I forgive a few times... But, I never ever forget. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BenBru Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 I have had scuffles with my friends in the past and I usually end up forgiving them. I never forget though. I remember when I was in 5th grade and Carlos stole my beloved Yu-Gi-OH cards. :( I am an Atheist, and I take pride in it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mercifull Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 Don't forget; intentional ignorance rarely works out well. Forgive; all humans are, well, human. And good, somewhere, deep down.Same as with you and rick. Forgive, but not always forget Mercifull <3 Suzi "We don't want players to be able to buy their way to success in RuneScape. If we let players start doing this, it devalues RuneScape for others. We feel your status in real-life shouldn't affect your ability to be successful in RuneScape" Jagex 01/04/01 - 02/03/12 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ikzelf100 Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 every morning i wake up i have forgotten like all the bad things people did to me i dont know why but i cant remember it when something bads happen :? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ragen Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 I'll always forgive and eventually forget but only if I get a genuine apology. Thanks Venomai for this super sig and Kwimbob for the awesome avatar! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blushenka Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 A case of keep your friends close and your enemies closer. never really believed in the wesley snipes train of thought.... Actually, that's from 'Godfather' :P "Metal isn't about violence or faggy whiny lyrics. It isn't even about who plays the heaviest and fastest. It is about invoking a sense of wonder and magnitude that no other genre can depict." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
issy2 Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 I will never forget what someone has done to me. If they are in the wrong and I am sure of this I will not forgive, either. I will try to continue our friendship/relationship on better terms but if I've been wronged someone else can take the blame. O:) Lol. Anyway yeah. That's what I think. Is it not easier to stand up to your enemies than to oppose your friends? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fgfuyfyuiuy0 Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 I forgive (Sometimes), but I never forget. I don't stick a Knoppix CD in my head and type "Wipe -kq /dev/file://memory/:c/mysisterpunchingme/". I <3 Gears of War 2. Add me on Xbox Live and mention you are from Tif :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lionheart_0 Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 Whats the point of forgiving and then not forget. Sure you have forgiven them, but then the past will always linger, and that will interfere with your judgment of a person. Sig by IkuraiYour Guide to Posting! Behave or I will send my Moose mounted Beaver launchers at you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bludragon124 Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 i forgive and forget. i figure there is no point in holding grudges. O:) Noted raw mackerel drop... Wtfh? Always buying: Watermelon seeds, 2K each. Strawberry seeds, 800 each. Contact Via PM on forums. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Not Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 Forgive sometimes, but I'm going to forget and allow the same thing to happen again. Fool me twice, shame on me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
apinagez Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 i forgive and forget. i figure there is no point in holding grudges. O:) I wish it were that simple. But one day you'll find people remember everything you've done and will crucify you. And you won't have how to argue. ^The most disturbing signature on Tip.it^Last.fm|HELLY KAYLA!|Oh the mehagurtz!|#Siencemakers"they care less about their spelling mistakes then I." - Lionheart"apinagez... let me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lionheart_0 Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 i forgive and forget. i figure there is no point in holding grudges. O:) I wish it were that simple. But one day you'll find people remember everything you've done and will crucify you. And you won't have how to argue. But if everyone learned how to not hold a grudge then no one would have this problem... Sig by IkuraiYour Guide to Posting! Behave or I will send my Moose mounted Beaver launchers at you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
apinagez Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 i forgive and forget. i figure there is no point in holding grudges. O:) I wish it were that simple. But one day you'll find people remember everything you've done and will crucify you. And you won't have how to argue. But if everyone learned how to not hold a grudge then no one would have this problem... Just as if everyone stopped killing eachother, going to war, supporting Bush and eating fast food. ^The most disturbing signature on Tip.it^Last.fm|HELLY KAYLA!|Oh the mehagurtz!|#Siencemakers"they care less about their spelling mistakes then I." - Lionheart"apinagez... let me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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