mad4u689 Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 I would suggest seeing a therapist. It took me five years of being depressed and my parents finding a suicidal story I wrote and FORCING me to the therapist in tears before I finally went - and now I trust my therapist more than most anyone. :D If you do go see a therapist, I suggest "shopping around." If you feel like you don't connect with the first one you see, try another one. It's one thing where it's really important you feel comfortable :D Everybody hug and spread the love :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gin_and_Tonic Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 Wow, depressed at 13? Thats not really a problem, so to speak, just quite ir-regular at such an early age. At 13, like already said, life begins to unfold. You question life, the other sex, and at this time, most kids develop the 'attitude' which sticks with them till they're about 16. My advise would be to try and get a girlfriend. I take it you're in secondary school? First year? If so, get a good, solid group of mates you can confide in. Keep them close, and try and build a solid bond within that friendship group. As time goes on, you'll become more confident, and you as you get older you can go to town/bowling/cinema etc with those mates, and you'll surely become happier. If not, and you're clincally depressed, then i hate to say it, but see a Doctor. I study Pyschology at school, and depression is a nasty place to be in. If you ever need a shoulder, or a punch bag, drop me a pm anytime. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueLancer Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 Rule 1: Don't listen to irulepoker. He doesn't know what he's talking about. Deloria, back me up on this please? :roll: Rule 2: Hang out with your friends a little more. Have more "dates" with your friends, such as a movie or a trip to the mall. Rule 3: If you've learned anything here, NEVER, NEVER, NEVER try to be someone you're not. Don't get "trendy" or whatever the hell irulepoker said, it's a load of BS. If you don't be yourself, then who are you? Rule 4: Your friends can do a lot for you. Talk to them about your problems. They'll listen. Hoping you feel better, ~Rushrock How is he going to do any of those if the last friend he had was when he was 9 :? Did you even read his post... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sheepdean Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 let's play hangman P U B _ R T Y Back by popular demand!And I guess I just wanted to tell you, as the light starts to fade, that you aree the reason, that I am not afraid, and I guess I just wanted to mention, as the heavens will fall, that we will be together soon if we will be anything at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gin_and_Tonic Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 let's play hangman P U B _ R T Y At 10? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sheepdean Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 young ever recoreded was at 7.. but the average is plummeting, it's curretly 11.6 or something like that in Britain Back by popular demand!And I guess I just wanted to tell you, as the light starts to fade, that you aree the reason, that I am not afraid, and I guess I just wanted to mention, as the heavens will fall, that we will be together soon if we will be anything at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gin_and_Tonic Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 young ever recoreded was at 7.. but the average is plummeting, it's curretly 11.6 or something like that in Britain A little off topic here, but i heard the youngest couple to have a baby were 8 years old - Chinese couple o.O Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuziAngel Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 Rule 1: Don't listen to irulepoker. He doesn't know what he's talking about. Deloria, back me up on this please? :roll: Rule 2: Hang out with your friends a little more. Have more "dates" with your friends, such as a movie or a trip to the mall. Rule 3: If you've learned anything here, NEVER, NEVER, NEVER try to be someone you're not. Don't get "trendy" or whatever the hell irulepoker said, it's a load of BS. If you don't be yourself, then who are you? Rule 4: Your friends can do a lot for you. Talk to them about your problems. They'll listen. Hoping you feel better, ~Rushrock How is he going to do any of those if the last friend he had was when he was 9 :? Did you even read his post... I think the thinking behind this may have been that while he is in this state of depression, it's probably that he feels he has no friends. I'm sure most of us have gone through patches like this, feeling as if nobody cares. When, in actual fact, our friends were there all along, we just couldn't see it. The Poison Fairy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Giordano Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 [qoute]DO NOT MENTION RUNESCAPE AT SCHOOL, EVER! Why? Scared of the majority's opinion? Make a few friends, and slowly earn your popularity. Take out the "and slowly earn your popularity" and that statement is fine. Have a cool attitude, if a teacher yells at you, so be it. Don't show any emotion, and then laugh with a friend. ( Once the teacher can't see you that is ) I dont get this...what if a teach yells at you for doing somethig wrong? You're just going to sit there and get detention :?: Look at some of the more popular kids and their wardrobe. Get some clothes like them. And if you wear glasses, get contacts! Contacts > Glasses, big time. Wear whatever you want, dont copy others its dumb. If you want to be more attractive wear contacts, but I personally wear glasses. Sex isn't everything you know. Do not do nerdy things There is no such thing as "nerdy things" such as no "cool things" We do what we do, thats just being disrespectful. and try to hang out with the girlz. You get a rep with the girlz, you get a rep with everyone. FLIRT! FLIRT, FLIRT, FLIRT. Flirting, and flattering a girl makes them feel special and wonderful. Trust me, I know. Sure you do this, but just remember Sex isn't everything. "The cry of the poor is not always just, but if you never hear it you'll never know what justice is." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dwarfdude3 Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 like people have said before, mentioning runescape in school aint gonna help things, people just walk off even if i refer to runescape :cry: What the hell is wrong with people and thinking nerds are bad. I admit i'm a nerd, and tell people im a nerd at school. No one cares, nerds are awesome, nerds are cool. Playing games is awesome and cool. People try to be who they aren't these days and no wonder they get screwed up teenage years. To the author of this thread. I was very depressed during those years mostly cause i had a hard time socializing with friends and that. But little did i realize, my friends were just right under my nose all along, i just didn't care enough to pay attention. Also, i would suggest reading some books. I did alot during those years and it helped alot. You can learn alot reading even fiction, as there are many lessons to be learned through the themes of many books. This is probably the best advice on this thread so far in my opinion. I would also suggest to listen to some music that you like that may cheer you up. I would recomend Bob Marley. Look into, it may help you a lot as it did me. Whatever you do, don't listen to Irulepoker and try to be something you are not. Try to just be yourself, and let anyone who likes you for who you are be your friend. If no one comes, well then just keep waiting. It may take a while. But you have to learn to be strong about it and stay a good person, no matter how hard it gets. Some people mention you should try to get a girlfriend. I would say this, if there is a girl you like, try to do things with her and maybe eventually ask her out. If not, then don't try to get a girlfriend just to be cool. good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Se46 Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 Hey. I'm 13. Since I was 10, I have been depressed about life. What is wrong with me? :-k Do you listen to My Chemical Romance? If you do, don't. If you don't, uhh.. be happy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
One Too Far Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 let's play hangman P U B _ R T Y At 10? no but at 13 and it could make him feel like he been like that 3 years Rule 1: Don't listen to irulepoker. He doesn't know what he's talking about. Deloria, back me up on this please? :roll: Rule 2: Hang out with your friends a little more. Have more "dates" with your friends, such as a movie or a trip to the mall. Rule 3: If you've learned anything here, NEVER, NEVER, NEVER try to be someone you're not. Don't get "trendy" or whatever the hell irulepoker said, it's a load of BS. If you don't be yourself, then who are you? Rule 4: Your friends can do a lot for you. Talk to them about your problems. They'll listen. Hoping you feel better, ~Rushrock How is he going to do any of those if the last friend he had was when he was 9 :? Did you even read his post... it can't litteraly be that way he probaly meant that his new friend he got was when he was 9 and on topic: it do's not matter if you have '' not many friends'' cause thats probaly cause you look at the ''cool kids'' who have tons of friends but those friends arent real ( most of em arent) they are just haning out with the ''cool'' kids cause they wanna be ''cool'' themselfs but if the ''cool kids'' need friends they wont be there so just talk to you real friends do fun stuf Rule 1: Don't listen to irulepoker. He doesn't know what he's talking about. Deloria, back me up on this please? :roll: Rule 2: Hang out with your friends a little more. Have more "dates" with your friends, such as a movie or a trip to the mall. Rule 3: If you've learned anything here, NEVER, NEVER, NEVER try to be someone you're not. Don't get "trendy" or whatever the hell irulepoker said, it's a load of BS. If you don't be yourself, then who are you? Rule 4: Your friends can do a lot for you. Talk to them about your problems. They'll listen. Hoping you feel better, ~Rushrock +1 ( il back you up hope that helps : ) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pete_the_Viscous Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 On the other hand, lots of people seem to have a nice time, so it is obviously possible to view things differently somehow. ... when I read that, some cynical part of me immediately went "Blissfull ignorance". No -- that part of you is right, but some people might take the attitude that "if there's nothing else for it they might as well try and enjoy themselves" if you see what I mean. deviantart account Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
issy2 Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 let's play hangman P U B _ R T Y At 10? Certainly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kiddie Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 i had the same problem as you.. but then i did some of the things irulepoker said, and im wearring all the cool stuff and i got a nice girl friend with huge BOOBS http://img212.imageshack.us/img212/2676 ... sigyu4.jpg Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rushrock Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 To santor: Of course your opinion matters! Thanks for backing me up! :D To SuziAngel: Thanks, and don't worry, I'm a guy. :wink: To irulepoker: One more thing. Could you back up what you said earlier? (I don't think he's going to say another word in this thread...:roll:) To BlueLancer: I think the author was bluffing. There's always friends around, and I just think it took a while for him to realize it. He probably had friends, but either was ignorant and ignored them, or felt so bad for himself that he forgot they even existed. (No offense, author of this thread.) In my opinion, there's no such thing as a nerd. Everyone has their own little group of friends in school, and that's fine. It gets bad when some of the groups start discriminating against the other groups, and such common insults such as "goth" or "emo" begin to appear. Don't be like the "popular" kids. They seem to be a huge group, but really they just do it for social status. However, in my opinion there's no such thing as social status. If there was, then everything would be in the hands of one group of people. Is that really what you wanted to tell the author of this thread, who apparently has depression issues, irulepoker? My girlfriend sometimes wears glasses, and she doesn't dress like the "popular" kids, as you put it. Do you really suggest that I stop loving her? Do you want all of us to be conformists? If that's so, then I have one conclusion for you and anyone else who listens to him: BRAINWASHED. Thank you all for listening to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeeLee Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 Listen to rushrock. I agree with everything he said, but I wouldn't go as far as saying that the people who listen to irulepoker and irulepoker are brainwashed, other than that he is apsolutely right. He knows what he's talking about. DON'T listen to irulepoker. The most important thing to do when you're depressed is not to give up on yourself. Following irulepoker's advice is like changing your personality to suit others, therefore it is like giving up on yourself because you don't have enough faith in your own personality and feel the need to copy others. If people don't think that you are good enough for them then don't get involved with them, they obviously don't understand you and can't accept you for who you are. Look for people who understand you and are like you ( share the same interests etc etc). My mum who is a psychiatrist says you should try to do more of the things you enjoy and focus less on the things you don't. Hold out there and talk to someone close to you if you get really desperate : Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gin_and_Tonic Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 i had the same problem as you.. but then i did some of the things irulepoker said, and im wearring all the cool stuff and i got a nice girl friend with huge [bleep] How pathetic... You changed who you are who the respect of others? Fake -.- Do not do that this 'Kid' says he did... Be yourself. Oh, and nice to see you act as your name portrays. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rushrock Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 i had the same problem as you.. but then i did some of the things irulepoker said, and im wearring all the cool stuff and i got a nice girl friend with huge [bleep] How pathetic... You changed who you are who the respect of others? Fake -.- Do not do that this 'Kid' says he did... Be yourself. Oh, and nice to see you act as your name portrays. +1 I got my girlfriend when I was being myself, and I absolutely love her! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuziAngel Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 i had the same problem as you.. but then i did some of the things irulepoker said, and im wearring all the cool stuff and i got a nice girl friend with huge [bleep] How pathetic... You changed who you are who the respect of others? Fake -.- Do not do that this 'Kid' says he did... Be yourself. Oh, and nice to see you act as your name portrays. I am so pleased that someone said that! The Poison Fairy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
revanlives Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 irule was just saying what it takes to be cool and for that he was absolutely right. however, many people do not want to be popular because they feel that they are changing themselves to be that way. if this is you, do not follow irule's advice. but if you feel that being popular does not mean you are changing who you are, then why not go for it? anyone who's lived would say that being social and joining things will make you feel better, for the friends and for any group you are in. as for getting a girlfriend, you might want to think about what kind you want. if you want what some typical guys want, blonde, big *you know what I mean*, etc then by all means change your look, get better clothes, and get rid of the glasses. but if you really want a girlfriend for personality and some looks(can't blame you there, of course it's better if you like looking at your girlfriend lol), then you should be yourself, talk to her(NOT stalk her), ask her about herself and get to know her and share a bit of yourself. if she likes you, then things can go from there. if not, then don't waste your life going for someone who will never like you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gin_and_Tonic Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 i had the same problem as you.. but then i did some of the things irulepoker said, and im wearring all the cool stuff and i got a nice girl friend with huge [bleep] How pathetic... You changed who you are who the respect of others? Fake -.- Do not do that this 'Kid' says he did... Be yourself. Oh, and nice to see you act as your name portrays. +1 I got my girlfriend when I was being myself, and I absolutely love her! And apart from being absoloutely adoreable in a non-homosexual way I got my girlfriend from being myself also :mrgreen: I dont find enough hour in the day to even contemplate being anyone other than myself ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rushrock Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 irule was just saying what it takes to be cool and for that he was absolutely right. however, many people do not want to be popular because they feel that they are changing themselves to be that way. if this is you, do not follow irule's advice. but if you feel that being popular does not mean you are changing who you are, then why not go for it? anyone who's lived would say that being social and joining things will make you feel better, for the friends and for any group you are in. as for getting a girlfriend, you might want to think about what kind you want. if you want what some typical guys want, blonde, big *you know what I mean*, etc then by all means change your look, get better clothes, and get rid of the glasses. but if you really want a girlfriend for personality and some looks(can't blame you there, of course it's better if you like looking at your girlfriend lol), then you should be yourself, talk to her(NOT stalk her), ask her about herself and get to know her and share a bit of yourself. if she likes you, then things can go from there. if not, then don't waste your life going for someone who will never like you. Very hypocritical...:notalk: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gin_and_Tonic Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 irule was just saying what it takes to be cool and for that he was absolutely right. however, many people do not want to be popular because they feel that they are changing themselves to be that way. if this is you, do not follow irule's advice. but if you feel that being popular does not mean you are changing who you are, then why not go for it? anyone who's lived would say that being social and joining things will make you feel better, for the friends and for any group you are in. as for getting a girlfriend, you might want to think about what kind you want. if you want what some typical guys want, blonde, big *you know what I mean*, etc then by all means change your look, get better clothes, and get rid of the glasses. but if you really want a girlfriend for personality and some looks(can't blame you there, of course it's better if you like looking at your girlfriend lol), then you should be yourself, talk to her(NOT stalk her), ask her about herself and get to know her and share a bit of yourself. if she likes you, then things can go from there. if not, then don't waste your life going for someone who will never like you. Very hypocritical...:notalk: X2.7 Woah, how shallow... My girlfriend could pop out a HOUGE stomach and i'd still love her to bits. Personality > Looks - Anyday of the week. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Viktorkrum77 Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 Depressed? Just don't let it lead to (attempted) suicide, bulimia, anorexia, cutting, etc. Me doing staff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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