Valentines day. Eeeeeep.

[Doughnut]

For the record MILK'S GOOD FOR YA! My parents make me drink a 250 ml glass every day. (I think that's because I'm a vegetarian though) It's not sad so don't be prejudiced against it - there's no reason to be.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I have to be in the mood to drink milk. :P

[K00pa]

Hmm 14th of Feb.. SCHOOL EXAMS PT 2 ;(

[ThoseTheBrokes]

 

For the record MILK'S GOOD FOR YA! My parents make me drink a 250 ml glass every day. (I think that's because I'm a vegetarian though) It's not sad so don't be prejudiced against it - there's no reason to be.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I have to be in the mood to drink milk. :P

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Dude, Stay on topic please.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It's been agreed that milk is good for ya' :lol:

[Gin_and_Tonic]

The problem is, and what IÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢ve found, the younger generations always seem to think they need to spend huge amounts of money, of pointless cuddly toys, rings, jewellery, chocolates etc, but is that because of insecurity? When i was 14, i noticed a lot of girls just getting boyfriends for the buzz of it... Now, my girlfriend wouldnÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢t mind if i didnÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢t buy her anything, just along as we spend the evening together - I wouldnÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢t mind if she didnÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢t buy me anything either.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Valentines day used to be a day of love and thankfulness for our partners, now it just seems like a media outburst on 'what celebs did', and the provocation of mass advertisement of tiny bears with excessively ridiculous prices...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Although i may like to treat my girlfriend, i still know that if i didn't it wouldn't change the way we were - Its about appreciation of who your'e with, no a battle to stay with her...

[ForsakenMage]

 

Probably Olive Garden and a ridiculously oversized teddy bear.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

(lands on the big 6 month anniversary too)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My sixth month anniversary is the day AFTER Valentines. >.> So I dunno what I'm gonna do. Do I celebrate the V day or the 15th? AAAAaaaahhhhh

In attempts to steer the topic back on topic, I shall answer this person's post.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I say go celebrate the anniversary. :P

[ThoseTheBrokes]

The problem is, and what IÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢ve found, the younger generations always seem to think they need to spend huge amounts of money, of pointless cuddly toys, rings, jewellery, chocolates etc, but is that because of insecurity? When i was 14, i noticed a lot of girls just getting boyfriends for the buzz of it... Now, my girlfriend wouldnÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢t mind if i didnÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢t buy her anything, just along as we spend the evening together - I wouldnÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢t mind if she didnÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢t buy me anything either.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Valentines day used to be a day of love and thankfulness for our partners, now it just seems like a media outburst on 'what celebs did', and the provocation of mass advertisement of tiny bears with excessively ridiculous prices...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Although i may like to treat my girlfriend, i still know that if i didn't it wouldn't change the way we were - Its about appreciation of who your'e with, no a battle to stay with her...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

+1.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My girlfriend, to be honest, Wouldn't care what I was to buy her or take her too, We both value each other for who we are.

 

 

 

As long as were both happy, It's going well.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

No-one needs objects to show ones feeling, Only the shallow in my opinion, Don't eat me.

[Gin_and_Tonic]

 

 

Probably Olive Garden and a ridiculously oversized teddy bear.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

(lands on the big 6 month anniversary too)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My sixth month anniversary is the day AFTER Valentines. >.> So I dunno what I'm gonna do. Do I celebrate the V day or the 15th? AAAAaaaahhhhh

In attempts to steer the topic back on topic, I shall answer this person's post.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I say go celebrate the anniversary. :P

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Its my 1 Year 7 month the day before :)

 

 

 

Not that we celebrate months, but still - Its a milestone :D

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I'd say celebrate six months, as you may not be able to do it in another six months :|

[rushrock]

 

 

Valentine's day, like Christmas, is freaking stupid. Of cource there is the commercial aspect, but really, love in general is not worth it. Why did God make love work the way it does? It is really freaking dumb. The girls are attracted to the guys that are not going to care for them, and the guys that really do get stuck with nothing and a pathetic life. If you try to be a good person, you get nothing but crap. I cannot comprehend why God would make life like this. (and I'm not trying to spark a religious conversation, I am more saying 'god' as like 'creator', not a specific religion).

 

 

 

Hey! You're full of crap! :D

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hey! Shut up! :|

 

 

 

Well it's true...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I'm going to give the girl I like a rose, with a nice little ring on the tip of the rose. :D

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Milk came out my nose. Seriously? You're 13.

 

 

 

Not exactly...:lol:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I'm 12. *Gasp* 13 in two months though :D

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I am quite smart for my age though, and I hate talking like a seven year old moron. :P

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

That's priceless. Absolutely priceless. :roll:

[cadburys_egg]

 

 

 

Valentine's day, like Christmas, is freaking stupid. Of cource there is the commercial aspect, but really, love in general is not worth it. Why did God make love work the way it does? It is really freaking dumb. The girls are attracted to the guys that are not going to care for them, and the guys that really do get stuck with nothing and a pathetic life. If you try to be a good person, you get nothing but crap. I cannot comprehend why God would make life like this. (and I'm not trying to spark a religious conversation, I am more saying 'god' as like 'creator', not a specific religion).

 

 

 

Hey! You're full of crap! :D

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hey! Shut up! :|

 

 

 

Well it's true...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Not really, if you want to care for someone you truly love, then do it year-round and not just because some marketing scheme or a calander tells you to.

 

 

 

I appreciate love can seem confusing at time, but really if it were simple, it wouldn't be as rewarding as it feels. And by love I mean, willing to marry and spend the rest of your life with. Not some flimsy 2 month old teeny relationship.

[rushrock]

 

 

 

 

Valentine's day, like Christmas, is freaking stupid. Of cource there is the commercial aspect, but really, love in general is not worth it. Why did God make love work the way it does? It is really freaking dumb. The girls are attracted to the guys that are not going to care for them, and the guys that really do get stuck with nothing and a pathetic life. If you try to be a good person, you get nothing but crap. I cannot comprehend why God would make life like this. (and I'm not trying to spark a religious conversation, I am more saying 'god' as like 'creator', not a specific religion).

 

 

 

Hey! You're full of crap! :D

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hey! Shut up! :|

 

 

 

Well it's true...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Not really, if you want to care for someone you truly love, then do it year-round and not just because some marketing scheme or a calander tells you to.

 

 

 

I appreciate love can seem confusing at time, but really if it were simple, it wouldn't be as rewarding as it feels. And by love I mean, willing to marry and spend the rest of your life with. Not some flimsy 2 month old teeny relationship.

 

 

 

Well, if someone has a girlfriend, then they should love her all year round. One day shouldn't change anything. I agree. But, I do think that a day where we give our girlfriends a little extra something that says, "Thanks for loving me!" isn't much.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

He's full of crap because he's assuming that all girls and all relationships are like that. Let's take a look at my girlfriend, shall we? She wears black, she's very emotional, and she actually cares about people's feelings. Does that mean I can't love her because, apparently, all love is null and void?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I agree, love has changed a lot in a bad way, but that doesn't mean all love is like that.

[Gin_and_Tonic]

 

 

 

 

 

...

 

 

 

Hey! You're full of crap! :D

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hey! Shut up! :|

 

 

 

Well it's true...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

...

 

 

 

Well, if someone has a girlfriend, then they should love her all year round. One day shouldn't change anything. I agree. But, I do think that a day where we give our girlfriends a little extra something that says, "Thanks for loving me!" isn't much.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

He's full of crap because he's assuming that all girls and all relationships are like that. Let's take a look at my girlfriend, shall we? She wears black, she's very emotional, and she actually cares about people's feelings. Does that mean I can't love her because, apparently, all love is null and void?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I agree, love has changed a lot in a bad way, but that doesn't mean all love is like that.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Not at all... Hes basing his prejudism, most likely on his age group... So what, like 14 year olds?...

[rushrock]

 

 

 

 

 

 

...

 

 

 

Hey! You're full of crap! :D

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hey! Shut up! :|

 

 

 

Well it's true...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

...

 

 

 

Well, if someone has a girlfriend, then they should love her all year round. One day shouldn't change anything. I agree. But, I do think that a day where we give our girlfriends a little extra something that says, "Thanks for loving me!" isn't much.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

He's full of crap because he's assuming that all girls and all relationships are like that. Let's take a look at my girlfriend, shall we? She wears black, she's very emotional, and she actually cares about people's feelings. Does that mean I can't love her because, apparently, all love is null and void?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I agree, love has changed a lot in a bad way, but that doesn't mean all love is like that.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Not at all... Hes basing his prejudism, most likely on his age group... So what, like 14 year olds?...

 

 

 

Probably younger. :wink:

[Striker6]

 

 

 

 

 

Valentine's day, like Christmas, is freaking stupid. Of cource there is the commercial aspect, but really, love in general is not worth it. Why did God make love work the way it does? It is really freaking dumb. The girls are attracted to the guys that are not going to care for them, and the guys that really do get stuck with nothing and a pathetic life. If you try to be a good person, you get nothing but crap. I cannot comprehend why God would make life like this. (and I'm not trying to spark a religious conversation, I am more saying 'god' as like 'creator', not a specific religion).

 

 

 

Hey! You're full of crap! :D

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hey! Shut up! :|

 

 

 

Well it's true...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Not really, if you want to care for someone you truly love, then do it year-round and not just because some marketing scheme or a calander tells you to.

 

 

 

I appreciate love can seem confusing at time, but really if it were simple, it wouldn't be as rewarding as it feels. And by love I mean, willing to marry and spend the rest of your life with. Not some flimsy 2 month old teeny relationship.

 

 

 

Well, if someone has a girlfriend, then they should love her all year round. One day shouldn't change anything. I agree. But, I do think that a day where we give our girlfriends a little extra something that says, "Thanks for loving me!" isn't much.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

He's full of crap because he's assuming that all girls and all relationships are like that. Let's take a look at my girlfriend, shall we? She wears black, she's very emotional, and she actually cares about people's feelings. Does that mean I can't love her because, apparently, all love is null and void?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I agree, love has changed a lot in a bad way, but that doesn't mean all love is like that.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A key theme of this thread seems to be quote trains so to stop this from being classed as spam and thus being locked i'm going to say something highly intelligent.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

choo choo!!!

[cadburys_egg]

Well, if someone has a girlfriend, then they should love her all year round. One day shouldn't change anything. I agree. But, I do think that a day where we give our girlfriends a little extra something that says, "Thanks for loving me!" isn't much.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

He's full of crap because he's assuming that all girls and all relationships are like that. Let's take a look at my girlfriend, shall we? She wears black, she's very emotional, and she actually cares about people's feelings. Does that mean I can't love her because, apparently, all love is null and void?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I agree, love has changed a lot in a bad way, but that doesn't mean all love is like that.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

But why do you need an excuse, in this case - the day, to do that? Why not just do it spontaniously? I prefer not to see what's coming, if I know when i'm going to get something, I generally guess what i'm going to guess. And then when I find i'm right, the "magic" of that day is gone.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I expect he's basing his opinions on ~15 year olds. I know my age group is stupidly like that. If you told a girl here you loved them, they'd shrug it off and leave. But give them a gift, something simple like a teddy, and they'll probably squeal like a little girl and not stop kissing you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Which is why I don't believe "true love" can happen before you leave school. College/University is different, girls who go there are generally smart and mature.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

There's a difference between caring for someone and wanting someone.

[rushrock]

 

Well, if someone has a girlfriend, then they should love her all year round. One day shouldn't change anything. I agree. But, I do think that a day where we give our girlfriends a little extra something that says, "Thanks for loving me!" isn't much.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

He's full of crap because he's assuming that all girls and all relationships are like that. Let's take a look at my girlfriend, shall we? She wears black, she's very emotional, and she actually cares about people's feelings. Does that mean I can't love her because, apparently, all love is null and void?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I agree, love has changed a lot in a bad way, but that doesn't mean all love is like that.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

But why do you need an excuse, in this case - the day, to do that? Why not just do it spontaniously? I prefer not to see what's coming, if I know when i'm going to get something, I generally guess what i'm going to guess. And then when I find i'm right, the "magic" of that day is gone.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I expect he's basing his opinions on ~15 year olds. I know my age group is stupidly like that. If you told a girl here you loved them, they'd shrug it off and leave. But give them a gift, something simple like a teddy, and they'll probably squeal like a little girl and not stop kissing you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Which is why I don't believe "true love" can happen before you leave school. College/University is different, girls who go there are generally smart and mature.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

There's a difference between caring for someone and wanting someone.

 

 

 

Sure, spontaneous gifts and acts of love are great! But, all I'm saying is that one day where people give gifts to their girlfriends/boyfriends isn't terrible. We all need a day to remember how wonderful our girlfriends/boyfriends are! :

[honeo]

 

 

Well, if someone has a girlfriend, then they should love her all year round. One day shouldn't change anything. I agree. But, I do think that a day where we give our girlfriends a little extra something that says, "Thanks for loving me!" isn't much.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

He's full of crap because he's assuming that all girls and all relationships are like that. Let's take a look at my girlfriend, shall we? She wears black, she's very emotional, and she actually cares about people's feelings. Does that mean I can't love her because, apparently, all love is null and void?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I agree, love has changed a lot in a bad way, but that doesn't mean all love is like that.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

But why do you need an excuse, in this case - the day, to do that? Why not just do it spontaniously? I prefer not to see what's coming, if I know when i'm going to get something, I generally guess what i'm going to guess. And then when I find i'm right, the "magic" of that day is gone.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I expect he's basing his opinions on ~15 year olds. I know my age group is stupidly like that. If you told a girl here you loved them, they'd shrug it off and leave. But give them a gift, something simple like a teddy, and they'll probably squeal like a little girl and not stop kissing you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Which is why I don't believe "true love" can happen before you leave school. College/University is different, girls who go there are generally smart and mature.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

There's a difference between caring for someone and wanting someone.

 

 

 

Sure, spontaneous gifts and acts of love are great! But, all I'm saying is that one day where people give gifts to their girlfriends/boyfriends isn't terrible. We all need a day to remember how wonderful our girlfriends/boyfriends are! :

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

+1.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I want to do something that will make my Girlfriend feel loved and different. Do something out of the ordinary, something no one else in the school is doing except for me. This is just one day out of the year where you can love your girl/guy an extra special amount and do something for them you would not do on a daily basis.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

BTW: Valentines day is not an excuse. :notalk:

[Sir_Alex85]

 

 

Probably Olive Garden and a ridiculously oversized teddy bear.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

(lands on the big 6 month anniversary too)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My sixth month anniversary is the day AFTER Valentines. >.> So I dunno what I'm gonna do. Do I celebrate the V day or the 15th? AAAAaaaahhhhh

In attempts to steer the topic back on topic, I shall answer this person's post.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I say go celebrate the anniversary. :P

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

and

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I'd say celebrate six months, as you may not be able to do it in another six months :|

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thanks guys. ;D I decided to do that as well. It seems more personal than something like V-day.

[ThoseTheBrokes]

I've had such an emotional day.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My girlfriend has opened up to me, She's told me about her issues she veiws about herself, about her family and about her life.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I spent 2 hours listening to her talking, Naturally, being be, I couldn't think of the words to say at that time.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

On the way home, I though of 100's of things I should have said, I decided that because I couldn't think of things on the spot, I'd write them down, I ended up writing an A4 script of things i'm going to say to her tomorrow.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Words, Emotions, Trust, Faithfulness, Means alot more than materialistic objects.

[ktmcf121]

ah.... could everyone please stop quoting quotes of quotes of quotes? they make my eyes hurt... :?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

anyway, im taking my gf to see a concert on valentines day. that and driving home from school in the middle of the week means no cash to buy flowers or any other commercial junk. :wink:

[dwarfdude3]

 

 

 

 

 

Valentine's day, like Christmas, is freaking stupid. Of cource there is the commercial aspect, but really, love in general is not worth it. Why did God make love work the way it does? It is really freaking dumb. The girls are attracted to the guys that are not going to care for them, and the guys that really do get stuck with nothing and a pathetic life. If you try to be a good person, you get nothing but crap. I cannot comprehend why God would make life like this. (and I'm not trying to spark a religious conversation, I am more saying 'god' as like 'creator', not a specific religion).

 

 

 

Hey! You're full of crap! :D

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hey! Shut up! :|

 

 

 

Well it's true...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Not really, if you want to care for someone you truly love, then do it year-round and not just because some marketing scheme or a calander tells you to.

 

 

 

I appreciate love can seem confusing at time, but really if it were simple, it wouldn't be as rewarding as it feels. And by love I mean, willing to marry and spend the rest of your life with. Not some flimsy 2 month old teeny relationship.

 

 

 

Well, if someone has a girlfriend, then they should love her all year round. One day shouldn't change anything. I agree. But, I do think that a day where we give our girlfriends a little extra something that says, "Thanks for loving me!" isn't much.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

He's full of crap because he's assuming that all girls and all relationships are like that. Let's take a look at my girlfriend, shall we? She wears black, she's very emotional, and she actually cares about people's feelings. Does that mean I can't love her because, apparently, all love is null and void?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I agree, love has changed a lot in a bad way, but that doesn't mean all love is like that.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Perhaps a relationship may spring up between two people that aren't sterotypically masculine football player and feminine cheerleader. But please admit that this is the way a majority of people (of any age) are. Maybe a girl will go out with a nice guy that cares about her, but when she meets the perfect guy, that is better looking, stronger, and more masculine, she will feel more attracted toward him. It is not her fault at all, it is God's fault for making the system that way. So my point is: do not love.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

and I still don't get that thing about the ring... :oops:

[trapical]

Let me add to the "Nice guys finish last" discussion. It's true. Simple really, nice guys are polite and usually a bit shy and not only after sex, so they don't bring it up as agressivly. On the other hands the guys that don't care about school, go to parties, and are only looking for sex end up getting it. Part of the reason is a lot of girls are like guys on the topic of sex --they want it and they want it dirty but make no mention of this to anyone. Aggressive guys give this to them and bring it up at parties where everyone drinks, etc. They usually hook up and do there thing while the "nice guy" stays at home and studies. A week later he brings flowers and a poem to the girl's house but she doesn't answer the door because she's off with the guy she slept with at the party.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This isn't the case in most relationships but it is why pretty much all the "hot" girls in HS go out with total putzes that have no future in college.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Oh and if you think valentines day is bad when you have a gf, imagine how awkward it is if your "kinda dating someone, but not really, but your both kinda more then just friends" I mean, do you buy them something? Would that be saying too much? Do you not buy them a gift? Would that tell them you don't want a relationship? :-s

[dwarfdude3]

Let me add to the "Nice guys finish last" discussion. It's true. Simple really, nice guys are polite and usually a bit shy and not only after sex, so they don't bring it up as agressivly. On the other hands the guys that don't care about school, go to parties, and are only looking for sex end up getting it. Part of the reason is a lot of girls are like guys on the topic of sex --they want it and they want it dirty but make no mention of this to anyone. Aggressive guys give this to them and bring it up at parties where everyone drinks, etc. They usually hook up and do there thing while the "nice guy" stays at home and studies. A week later he brings flowers and a poem to the girl's house but she doesn't answer the door because she's off with the guy she slept with at the party.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This isn't the case in most relationships but it is why pretty much all the "hot" girls in HS go out with total putzes that have no future in college.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

ok well I am still in high school, but I have seen how people are in adult life too. It may not be as extreme, but girls still have that attraction to those kind of guys. I just wish people would learn to control their emotions, particulary those kinds.

[Sin81]

Valentines day... pffft what a great idea.... i hate the idea of valentines day, whats the point, i have been with my girlfriend coming up 3 years, this year and we have decided that its a waste, nothing will happen maybe a small gift, but nothing like the other times. Her birthday and christmas is the most important, i am takin her to Paris this year for her 18 for the weekend, and maybe getting her a car.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If you want her to feel special but not overboard, cook her a meal, works like a charm, jsut make sure she sin't allergic to anything and that you cook her something she will enjoy.

[Bubsa]

I never forget that date. It's my freakin' birthday :(

[cadburys_egg]

I never forget that date. It's my freakin' birthday :(

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

in b4 jokes about Bubsa being cupid.