Family worries over " security to much . "

Hi,

For most of you, going out daily with your friends is common, all you have to do is tell you parents I'll be back, call me if you need anything. Correct?

For me, it's different. I Personally, live in a VERY SAFE place in Canada. Yet, my parents are still scared,something will happen to mean, sometimes its SCARY how SCARED they are! I am 15 soon, and pretty grown up. If i'm outside past dark time, they would honestly call the cops if I'm 10 minutes late+, and want an amber alert! What can i do to possibly make them losen up. I want to go out with my firends, and i do about once a week but that's only because i LIE to them, telling them i'm going biking or something.My bro, 22, is aloud going out till lik 4 am , etc,but I'm not waiting another 7years for that.

Any advice? Friends always doing stuff,and IM NOT.

Thanks

-> Are any of your parents like that

-> Any advice?

Get them to get you a cell phone, so that they can keep in touch with you all the time, thus allowing you for freedom.

Anything other then, at the moment im sure they wont give me a cell, but i can always borrow a syblings. What if they still refused even if i had a phone because they say " To muc hgoing out

carry a dive knife attached to your calf all the time.

..caus theirs safty in numbers and theirs safety in steel.

carry a dive knife attached to your calf all the time.

 

 

 

..caus theirs safty in numbers and theirs safety in steel.

Canadians don't use knifes..... we throw beavers.

carry a dive knife attached to your calf all the time.

 

 

 

..caus theirs safty in numbers and theirs safety in steel.

 

 

 

Canadians don't use knifes..... we throw beavers.

rofl! :P

Wow man, you're parents are really to worried about you, i have to be gone for a week atleast untill my dad would call the cops.

Wow man, you're parents are really to worried about you, i have to be gone for a week atleast untill my dad would call the cops.

Your so lucky..that what i tell my parents, and they tell me " That jjsut means we're smarter, and their dumber "

Move in with your girlfriend.

If you don't have one - get one then do the first part :ohnoes:

Seriously though, I don't think there's much chance of them loosening up unless you can convince them that their "protective nature" is going to turn you into a recluse and do more damage than good if they make you scared of society.

It took me a hospital incident, a night unconcious in a bus stop and a whole heap of last-minute work to graduate from school to be able to stay out past 11.

count yourself lucky. ;)

Erm, no. I can't. My parents are the same as yours.

Stupid thing is, we live in a nieghborhood called " Presential Estates " and they're still afraid of me crossing the road.

 

Canadians don't use knifes..... we throw beavers.

Siggied! :XD:

 

Canadians don't use knifes..... we throw beavers.

 

 

 

Siggied! :XD:

hey!! atleast give me some of the credit!

Hah! you think you're overprotected? and you STILL get to do something with friends once a week? ive gone months and months without doing something with friends. and even then i ask and my parents dont say yes. better yet, im six miles from anything so i cant do anything as it is. even if i do do something with my friends i cant stay out past eight.MY SOCIAL LIFE SUCKS! but im not afraid of society or the world or what not, thats what school is for. i also live in a very safe place cause i have no neighbors or anything to hurt me. and then people ask me why all i do is play computers. Well i cant do anything outside, the roads are dirt, there is no grass, and the only thing out there is sagebrush. fun fun fun

like i said before...u need one of these..

^^^ jeep knife pwnage.

Somehow you have to gain their trust. The only advice I have for you is for them to get to know your friends and trust them enough. Another piece of advice is to try to go out with a lot of friends, maybe that will do the trick because they will think its safer.

^^^ jeep knife pwnage.

not only is it a jeep knife..its the jeep survival knife with fishing hooks,matches,cumpas,map,flairs,tent,boat....

http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/ref=br_1_14/602-8354949-5207806?ie=UTF8&frombrowse=1&asin=B000KEPPEW

like i said before...u need one of these..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Images!

I told you, these work better here

http://dnr.state.il.us/orc/wildlife/vir ... camera.jpg

 

Canadians don't use knifes..... we throw beavers.

 

 

 

Siggied! :XD:

 

 

 

hey!! atleast give me some of the credit!

Why o_O? It's a sig... chill.

Parents can be overprotective, but that's just because they're too scared of losing you, and nothing is going to change that.

Haha, looks like you're screwed until you're 18 :P .

like i said before...u need one of these..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Images!

 

 

 

I told you, these work better here

 

 

 

http://dnr.state.il.us/orc/wildlife/vir ... camera.jpg

but what will u use to clean ur beaver with when ur in the wild??

and then people ask me why all i do is play computers. Well i cant do anything outside, the roads are dirt, there is no grass, and the only thing out there is sagebrush. fun fun fun

Lol...almost would siggy the sagebrush part lmao... \

Lionheart resize the image dang man. :wall:

i wish i had dirt roads :( :(

caus my wrangler would tear that shiznik up :D

Make your parents happy (clean up, wash the dishes I dunno) and then ask them if you could go out. Always works for me. :)

Haha, looks like you're screwed until you're 18 :P .

Way to go.

Your brother is an adult, you are a child. They are right to be worried. Think yourself lucky you have parents that care about you.