RpgGamer

Remember the chick i found at the GSA dance? She plays yu-gi-oh. Hell yeah. I can NOT wait to make something of that.

First summer womanless in 4 years :( So obviously I'm going to spend the entirety of the 3 month period flirting with everything with a vagina. Here's hoping

You're blaming yourself. Don't do that. You have no idea how much I can relate to your situation. Blaming yourself brings you nothing. Rewarding her for making you feel like crap brings you nothing. You're digging yourself in a deeper ditch than you were in before. One realization helped me out: I am young. You're 15. You're actually younger than me. You're supposed to have fun. Don't let this stuff get you down. Find some old friends and reconnect. Make some new frinds that are a little more experienced in the realm of females. Trust me it helps so much more than you think. 15 year old girls are the worst. Heartless [bleep]es. Unless your lucky wnough to be the guy the chase after. Cause that's the age the girls are seperated from the [bleep]s. EVERY GIRL is [bleep]ty at 16. Sophmore year is like year of the tramp. Don't sulk over it, Get into it and enjoy it. You can chose to be on the heartbreak side, or the over-sex'd side. And all it takes is a different outlook.

okay first of all: STOP SPENDING MONEY ON HER that's not helping anybodys case. You can buy her things when she earns it. Rewarding her when she's treating you poorly doesn't make for improvements in your situation. And I've been played the "you're my Best Friend card" as well. Honestly...such a title should be mutual. She can call me her best friend all she wants...I wouldn't dare call her that. So think to yourself, is she really you're best friend if she treats you like such a dormat? She can be your friend for sure. But you're best friend? I'm sure there are better candidates.

Yeah...I've felt that way before. It took a LOT of heartbreaking before I finially decided it was time to change something. A man can only take so much emotional punishment. What I did was made some new guy-friends. People that just like to chill, be obnoxious, and have fun. they helped me out of a tight spot emotionally, just by putting me in a happier environment where I wasn't brooding over my heartache all day. Now, I wasn't "cured" but it definatly helped. Friends will always help. Maybe this tiff with your friend will just blow over. But what's stopping it rfom happening again? Take a stand for yourself. You won't be happy at first, and sometimes it won't even feel like it's working, but what WILL happen is that you'll become less reliant on her. You'll be able to function and feel good without her constant attention. And that's a key factor in a healthy relationship. Friendship, or romantic.

Don't. Even. Think. About. It. EDIT: The girl texted me just now. Just to tell me how making out is the best thing ever. Specifically with her boyfriend. Get that [bleep] out of your life. It'll feel like crap, but just keep reminding yourself of crap like this, and it'll all be better [something I'm currently doing myself, so if you ever have a weak moment, you can come to me and we can buddy up and watch each other's backs] In other news. I came to a revelation. An old one. But still. I go through moods. Some days I want an outright [bleep]. Other days, I want a legitimate relationship. But one thing never changes: I want to meet a new girl. And that image of the girl I'm looking for is becoming clearer. And my take on it has gone from "I want to meet her now! I'm friggin miserable, and I need her" to "I can't wait to meet her". Which I think is a better mind set to enter relationship territory with. I feel like I matured alot today. I talked to my ex. [i know I know, don't go off on me about it yet let me finish]. It wasn't like we usually talk, and it didn't even end in sex. I still miss her. I still care about her. I'm still very attracted to her. But she told me that she's more or less official with her new guy. So yeah. By choice or by force, I'm not going to be doing anything outside of friendship with her again. It kind of sucks, but it's for the best. As I know. As this thread knows. And as she knows. I want to find my next girlfriend. But it's not that simple. But...now I'm not doing it out of rage/insanity. It's because I legitimatly want a real relationship. That's what me and my ex talked about. How we met. How we went through all of our milestones. And I realized...I don't need a really easy girl. I just want a girl that really really likes me. Me for me. And I for her. Not the kind of girl you can just 'pick up' [although not impossible]. The kind of girl that you magically happen upon, who is conveniently beautiful and single. The kind of girl you don't expect to find. A real gift from fate. That's how I met her. That's how I want to meet my next girl. Problem is, you can't force coincidense. You really can't manipulate it either without jeapordizing the authenticity of the situation. Don't get me wrong. I'm gonna go out. I'm gonna hit on random girls. I'm gonna have fun. But I'm going to as patiently as possible wait for another magic moment, so that I can have another relationship as wonderful as my last [in the begining anyway, not so much the more recent events]. I can't wait to find this girl. But I'm going to have to. So I might as well just relax. And my oh my is that a load off of my shoulders.

it's frowned upon. and good luck Jakerdang29. You have a rough path in front of you.

[hide] They only said she left when they were young.[/hide] in the latest episode, yes. But I could have sworn the story was different in the first [ever] episode

Done and done. It was too much fun :lol: not perfect, but I rarely ever photo shop, so...best I could do

[hide=spoiler alert siren] Great finale! But I thought his mom died in the first season? Or are we lead to believe that was an elaborate cover? Crazy good twist, regardless. But what was the point of the trial version of the intersect? And why are we only hearing about it now? And I'm sure all those file cabinet names will pop up again. I am SO looking foreward to Sept when the next season starts :D i have a feeling it will have lots of flash backs into Orion's past and the initial intersect team of last generation [similiar to the inital Heroes twist, by brining in the generation beforehand] [/hide]

Maturity fits into that equation somewhere, too. Sometimes, I'm actually shocked at how young some of our posters are. Sometimes, it doesn't surprise me at all. I have to admit, it's very obvious when a 13 year old posts, verse a 20 year old veteran of TIF. But sometimes, the young ones surprise me with intriguing threads, and thought provoking posts. It's rare, but it's happened.

Ouch. You've landed yourself in one of the worst cases of friendzoned 'oneitis' I've ever seen. You got to get your head back into the "she's my sister" thought train. I have an inkling of a feeling that your jealousy less stemmed from being attracted to her, rather you just want to spend time with your best friend. I'd explain it to her in that way. HOWEVER. if you really are this attracted to her...you may want to stay the hell away from her to weaken the attraction. Well yours of her anyway. Find yourself a new girl. Hell the way she acted at the park, you may want to find some new friends while you're at it. She's taking advantage of your giving friendly nature. And you follwing her around like a sick puppy tossing money at her isn't going to win you anything. You keep this up, and she'll just walk all over you until your so deep in depression you won't even notice anymore. Tell her how it is, and walk away [you might want to find some "plan B" friends first though, incase serious [cabbage] goes down]. Just disappear. If she misses you, she'll come to you. if she doesn't, that [bleep] doesn't deserve you anyway. [And provided she breaks up with her boyfriend, she WILL find you] However, I must warn you...A very wise young man once said:

:lol: ...I'm with romy. Don't plan it out. My list of steps isn't meant to be taken literally and directly. It's just the basic gist of an average physical escalation. Broken down into simple steps that are easy to understand. Remember the part about mood? Mood has to be natural. Nothing works if it isn't. and Dan: :thumbsup:

Nostalgia [bleep]. God damn... Re-reading this thread is highly beneficial. The old guru generation lives onward in the archives of the thread. Good god, I miss their reign. This was totally worth my 2,501st post for the upgrade past 'Demon Vanquisher'. Jesus. I love this thread all over again. While I'm here, I'll spit some kissing tips: 1) breathe through your nose at a normal, steady pace, not fast, not hard 1.5) close your eyes on contact, you freak 2) move his/her lips from paralel -> in between your own 3a) hands on the side of her neck,[thumb just above her jaw line] usually your leaned side hand is the upper one, the other being the 'lower' hand for her leg/arm/chest/other 3b) hands on his back of head, clenching his hair, other used for free roam 4) open lips slightly wider, but remember, you're not eating a sandwhich - you're kissing 5) slide tounge GENTLY AND SLOWLY onto his/her lips 6) if no withdraw, proceed with tounge into his/her mouth [but for the love of god don't shove it in like a dagger going for a kill stab] 7) clench hands regardless of placement [with obvious exception] 8) move head rhythmically, slightly, in sync with partner. Emphasis on SLIGHTLY. Nothing's worse than headbanging kissers. 9) rub areas with hands [see also: 'hotspots'] *) protip: have a 'signature' move. Something taht you come up with, that isn't too freaky. If it is freaky, give him/her some warning first. I'd give you mine, but that's a secret of the trade ;) [hide=Hot spots] On Girls: [some not involved in kissing, but simple escalation] Level one: hold her hand hands on her knee arms intertwined use the relaxed knuckles of your hand and glide accross her cheek hand on 'love handles', from side [basically her hip, but you'll feel your hand sort of fit better] Level two: hand on love handles, from facing her mid thigh embracing hug shoulders level three: inner thigh stomache/mid torso kiss her neck [careful on the roughness, some girls go for gentle, others for rough] nibble her ear [GENTLY FOR THE LOVE OF GOD] level four: ...Under the forum rules I have to question if I can really properly explain these... On Guys: level one: hold hands hug [and whilst in: taking deep breaths] stare at his lips level two: neck leg level three: inner thigh hair/back of head nails digging into back level four: ...yeah [/hide]

Never have I seen an english statement that sounded so foreign. I honestly have NO idea what on earth you just said. But it sounded funny :lol:

Awesome! Only one more post after this one! :D That makes me happy. \:D/ ...and then only 1000 more after that one. Yay for having goals! [Now I feel obligated to spell/grammar check all of my posts, as I'm usually very bad about that]

oh, my bad XD I figured you'd been together a little longer than 4 dates lol. Why didn't you talk to her the one time? And why haven't you kissed her after 2 whole weeks?!? ...regardless In for the kiss: [hide=Slogan]JUST DO IT[/hide] seriously. hold her hand. stop her. look into her eyes. glance at her lips. lick your lips. back at her eyes. lean in. breathe through your nose. You come 90%, and she should come the other 10%. close your eyes after contact and keep them shut. nose breathing only at a light pace. not fast. not hard. ..and freaking kiss her! jesus. you need any tips on that while I'm at it? I'm going to be up for a little longer if you need it.

quality > quantity but I would like to know when I'm getting an upgrade from 'Demon Vanquisher'

Common problem. How long have you two been together, and how physical are you trying to get? If it's 2+ months, and you're going for anything...simply make out. Use your hands to glide from one "hot spot" to the "target" [pending what you're going for]. Hair -> shoulder -> wrist -> waist -> upshirt has worked well for me. Otherwise there's knee -> inner thigh -> slowly, gently rise in inner thigh -> zipper [with some "coincidental" brushing] is also a common one. And I'm sure you can take it from there. You just have to be in the right mood. If she's still scared of being tickled...she's not in the right mood. Get her to the right mood, and the rest is so much easier than you think.

I was thinking more along the lines of texting...and I'm pretty sure that cell phone to cell phone calls work regardless of country, but I'm not 100% on that. Plus, I don't have skype

I mostly remember that being how they encoded messages they sent over long distances. Where they also had to remove the words that related to a drawn picture beside it. I should get my brother to read those books. It's probably one of the last book series I was really into. [Others from the same age group that come to mind include 'Young Jedi Knights', 'New Jedi Order', 'Harry Potter'...etc]

The boks were so good, but the whole puzzle solving thing where the only issue was backward writing got kinda cheesy after awhile.

My apologies for the lapse in articulation and elaboration m'lady.

Deltora Quest has an anime? I loved those books...when I was like 14. Great series. can't imagine it being an anime though...

Sorry man... I realize what the rules imply romy. I'm not about to post my number on a forum. I like you guys, but the forum isn't just this thread. I do realize that :lol:. Priavet messages for the win. I just wanted to ask the people of the thread before randomly PMing a bunch of frequenters.