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If I were to offer my phone number to this thread...would anyone contact me for instant mutual support? I'm toying with the idea. I like you people.

New album to be released in July :D Features The rev's vocals [as he recorded them only days before his death], and drums redone with the help of Dream Theatre's drummer. The single "Nightmare" was released about a weeks ago. Sounds good. Dream Theatre's drummer will be touring with them until 2011, when he will return to his former band, and A7X will be essentially drummerless. The album "Nightmare" is in dedication to The Rev, and all of his songs are to be put in the album exactly as he had intended them. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B1Bi1c9LmhU RIP Rev. This one's for you :)

I know you're right. Generally, that's my opinion, too. Just days like these...makes me resent the game[the actions, not the book] a lot. I guess I don't like playing by it's rules. And I'll admit. I'm wallowing a little. Passing thing. I just want to explode on something/somebody. This thread gets to see me do that alot, because my life right now doesn't allow me to do it on my friends very often. But thank you for reminding me of the better parts of the spectrum I'm ratehr angry at right now. it puts me back at the indecisive stage...but it's better than freaking out. How 'bout this: i'll meet a ton of chicks. Attempt to hook up with them. If I really like one of them, I'll drop the others and start a relationship. Sounds like a good plan to me. The problem is sticking to it. And not having days like this >.>

mmm. When I screw up I have a habit of always needing to know why. I'm in damage control, but no longer care what happens. gtfog in the meantime.. Yeah i do the same thing when it comes to girls. And lately, I've been throwing a lot of common "PUA" terms around in these self-tyraids of rambling and border-madness. Everything from "kino" to "attraction building" to "friend-zone". I've ocme to realize that I've developed an unnatural fear of the friendzone, and then I over exert my emphasis on sex and seduction. Almost like breaking the fourth wall. I show my hand, and explain why, all the while making casual conversation. [and here I go, ranting about the random BS that doesn't matter because I had a bad day, the result of which is me rambling about random PUA philosophy and eventually leading of my thinking myself a complete tool]. I want a girlfriend. I've come to the conclusion. It's taken a few weeks, but the whole seduction game just sickens me. It looks fun, but I just don't have the stomache for it like I wish I did. It was a desperate attempt to get my head out of a worse spot [and the way I opporate in this mood, my mind could be completely flipped by tommorow, so take this post with a grain of salt] but ended up just making me disapointed, and overall alone. I want a girlfriend. A partner. Someone to connect with emotionally, and physically. Someone to support me. Someone I can support. Someone I can be cute with. Someone I can take anywhere. Someone that gets me. And someone that can stabalize the [cabbage] that seems to come with my assosciation [which theoretically should be cleared up by graduation, just to be replaced with a whole new set of confusing and bizzarre issues]. I want a damn girlfriend. I want to be loved. I want to be cared for. I want to return those feelings. I want that spark. I miss that feeling. So much...

I think I may have gotten ljbf She's naturally flirty, but then throws out IODs She wanted to have sex one night, but we were both drunk and I was hoping for a relationship so I didn't do it. No idea if that's what screwed it up, or that I mistook her flirting as something more serious. Or maybe she's attracted, but still pissed at me from the other night... Except I can't ask her because it would be needy..... It's the perfect situation to caveman but I'm good friends with her so I can't. fml [/hide] I think I know how I screwed up now. Her wanting to hook up was a bait when she was semi interested. If I went through with it, it would have just been a 1 night thing which wasn't what I wanted. I said I would (which is where I lost) even though I decided not to. Ah well, learned a lesson. gftog before it turns into oneitis. I'm slightly concerened with your obsession on the labeled dynamics of your relationship building. But yes...gftog. it'll get your mind off things if nothing else. and feux-hawk? NO :lol:

nooooooooooooooooooooo Please try to straighten your hair first? I will a few times, but it takes so much work, and it doesn't always look right. If you want to see my hair straightened, just look at my profile picture [click my avatar]. It looks mad nice, but I can almost never get it right. a Mohawk on the other hand is rather hard to screw up

/adv/ I promised a more recent photo like 3 weeks ago. This is my new haircut in a semi-candid shot. Only recent picture I have. In 10 days I'll have a TON more though. Comments? Concerns? I'm going mo-hawk in less than a month, so you can say what you want about the hair, it won't bother me.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g0AKNntCBBA B)

lulwat any reason you're only shaved on the left side? lol

You don't need to know how to dance, or a get girlfriend. I don't have a girlfriend, and I can't dance (but I make up for it with enthusiasm ) and I do just fine. Just find some hobbies. Exercising is a good one. Eating well + exercise will make you feel much better right off the bat. Learn guitar or a new language, or learn survival skills, or read up about psychology and body language. Find things that interest you (that don't involve computers) and do them. Read through the thread and start dressing better. Go to bed and wake up at better times. There are so many things you can do to feel great. As for socializing, make it a point to talk to people. Create a persona and give him a name. This persona is confident in social situations, and is the highlight of any party. He doesn't care what people think of him, he just has fun and that rubs off on everyone around him. Get a feel of how he behaves. Now, act like this person when you think of it. Just step out of your body and become him as best you can. Keep pushing yourself out of your comfort zone. Go out at least once a week. Meet at least 1 new person. No excuses or I come down and slap you. I prefer to think of it as less of a persona and more of an unexplored version of yourself. Seems less fake that way. It's always going to be you, but it's supposed to be natural, or you can run into many other problems down the line. Otherwise yes - find a hobby. Get off the internet, and do something with yourself. The skill of dancing isn't essential [although I find it to be fun as hell]. And don't worry about the need for a girlfriend. Needing it isn't going to get you one. Incfact, in life's weird irony, I only seem to find girls that I like when I'm not looking for them. As soon as you stop caring about having a girlfriend, life will throw a girl in your direction.

:( this has just not been a good year for metal. The Rev...Dio...and now Paul Gray. I'm sick of bands I actually like losing members to death.

Buy the DVD set. Seriously. COMEPLTELY worth it. [hide=OR]http://www.ovguide.com and search "Chuck" [/hide]

HOO RAH! (I love Lent's inspirational posts lol) that's not a fun experience I imagine. If you're pregnant - DONT FALL! is she happy about being pregnant or is this more of a teenage knocked up situation?

except flyingjj is the oldest frequenter of this thread. followed by myself, IamDan...then way down the chain is Lent. Age has very little to do with anything. It's all about experience. And you're like...14? right?

The thing is.... she was my first girlfriend. And any other girls I would consider going out with either A: Don't even talk to me ever, and B: Have a boyfriend already. I had a bonfire with some friends tonight, so I'm feeling better. And I only threw up because when I was brushing my teeth this morning a sudden gag-reflex occured, and yea... I didn't eat much today lol. And no, I could never do anything like that. I love her too much, and would never do anything to hurt her in any way. Yes I am sad we broke up, but I'm not angry at her or anything. Whenever I see her upset or crying... god I just feel awful and want to try everything to make her feel better... Ah well. Just wanted to say that lol. (Why am I even on here right now? It's like... midnight lol) you didn't love her, you just think you did. Sums up almost every middle - high school relationship. I respectfully completely disagree. Generally, yes. But you can't say all pre-college relationships are like that. There's always those few that are legit relationships. Who's to say which are which?

Is it possible to cure people of being attention [bleep]?

Hell yeah brotha man! e-five! :D @sarge1010 she was your frist girlfriend. So this is your first break up. I remember that. It's hell. But I promise you with every cell in my body, it gets easier everytime. Whether you actually loved her or not is a moot point. We're not here to critique your emotional maturity. Just know, that this isn't the end of the world, no matter how much it feels like it. I remember feeling the exact same way. She hurts you, but instead of taking it and moving on, you stick around because you could never do anything against her better interests. Trust me, I get that. But the fact remains, you can't let yourself get in this bad of shape. Meet new people. I guarentee you'll feel better after connecting to some new contacts. you'll be alright. it might not feel like it right now. But trust me, it gets better.

bolded part worries me a bit. If you trust her, and know her, you know if you will get back together or not. If you do, great. If you don't...I really hope you've gotten all the negative feelings out of your system by then. Throwing up when a girl breaks up with you? Sheesh, that's pretty rough. But hey. Enjoy your new found singularity. Think of something taht she would never let you do. Then do it. a million times. just to spite her. Seriously...it feels good. @IamDan I think you might be over analyzing the situation a little bit. She wanted to have sex with you, and now your being friend zoned? That doesn't make a whole lot of sense. Maybe it was a one-time drunk offer?

A worthy opinion, but if i don't focus I'm gonna end up chiilling at my house watching TV and surfing the internet. Which, while fun...is highly unsocial. I gotta get back into the socializing game. Working weekends makes it harder than it should be :/ I'm about ready to give up on this "new" chick anyway. I hate starting every text converastion. not only because i don't have the texting plan to pay for it all, but it makes me feel creepy being the one to start everything. Shame, but there's plenty of chicks out there. Bound to be another, more willing one around here somewhere.

Friday night...anyone got any updates? I've gotten nowhere, and it's taken me 7 days to do it :/ I need to get my head on straight and focus

and move your desktop away from the ant infestation. Having an ant in your monitor can't possibly be good. Vacuum your room while you're at it.

Boreanaz has thinning hair, a creeper stair, and a "i hope you didn't just notice my fart" type of smile. Audrey on the other hand is [bleep]ing gorgeous. I'm not homophobic or anything like that. I recognize an atractive guy when I see one. But an attractive guy that man; is not.

Holy Mother of God. Scarlett Johannson eat your heart out. Meet: Audrey Kitching. God. Damn.

JeffWilson is P-I-M-P Why the hell didn't you take her initial offer I must wonder? What's so bad about beign seen by a bunch of people?

Bought myself the new Jamie's Elsewhere album "They Said a Storm was Coming" I highly recommend it to those of you who like Underoath, Attack Attack, Close Your Eyes, and A Day to Remember Also, I just downloaded LPU9.0 AMAZING demo album. LP has definitly just redeemed itself from the mess they called Minutes to Midnight