Everything posted by Iamdan
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
That my friend, is what is known as a limiting belief.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
You're 15, just have fun man. Why get caught up in the girlfriend bs when her parents are fighting against it and you're busy with school? I suggest taking a leaf out of lenticular's book, (who iirc is the same age as you) and have fun with girls instead of worrying about relationships. Other than that there isn't anything else I can advise. If you stay with her chances are you will get more attached to each other, causing more problems with her parents and therefore yourselves. Parents are stubborn - things will only get worse unless they suddenly have a change of heart. Then again you could win the lotto and pay them to get off your backs.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Tbh I'd just move on. You're in high school so there is only a tiny chance it will go anywhere anyway. You're swimming against the current for no reason. When she becomes more attached to you she's probably going to be more open to her parents about defying them, and you're just going to get her in trouble with them. You don't see her alone much anyway, and you have to 'watch out when hugging' so what's the point in even calling it a relationship? Might as well just be friends and put your energy elsewhere. Sure is :thumbup:
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The People Around Me
We're just animals, why the high expectations? We are hardwired to be selfish, and thanks to marketing we all want things we don't need. Thanks to technology and the huge population we have lost our tribal culture, of course humanity is going to be fubar.
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The People Around Me
You're still in school - wait till people grow up.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Ok flirting. Before you worry about flirting, read up on DHV and attraction switches from either my posts or the internet. Flirting is just about having fun and being a challenge. Bust her balls when she says something dumb, offer to introduce her to random dorky guys you see, make her give her best elephant noise before you give her a lift home. Role playing is awesome. Break up with her, get back together with her sister and have an argument about custody of the tv and the dog Remember those stupid little jokes and games you had when you were in grade 4? They are funny all over again. (When you're 18+ at least) The story of the blind mouse, dumb mouse and deaf mouse etc etc. Imagine a girl spending hours getting ready at home and then you come along and write "Pen 15" on her arm. Maybe give her a point system, if she says something funny tell her she earned 2 points. Take a point off every now and then. If she asks what the points are for get creative. Again - flirting is just about having fun and being a challenge.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Not necessarily. Girls often keep nice guy friends around who like them for what I guess to be an ego boost.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
I hear girls like a guy that finishes last, actually I hear nice guys finish in the shower too I didn't buy the book, (I'm pretty sure it's 40 not 70) but imo it's well worth the money for people with nice guy syndrome and no fashion sense. This is the internet anyway, everyone will just download it :P
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Should marijuana remain illegal? Why should it be legal?
That schizophrenia thing is bs, it was discovered it's just drug induced psychosis. This is not only rare, it is even rarer for it to be chronic, and rare for it to be caused by a soft drug like marijuana. If you get chronic psychosis from marijuana then you should start entering the lottery.
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Halloween!
Best costume ever: tie a bow around your weist and make a card saying to: women from: god
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
She will respect you more if you tell her you're agnostic and you aren't interested, as long as you aren't apologetic about it. edit: btw I found a book that everyone should read. It's called brad p's fashion bible. It drums the [wagon] kisser out of you, It goes into the psychology behind fashion and explains my point before about no style (jeans, tshirt, vans etc) being a bad idea, gives styles categorized by 'loudness,' gives sources to keep up with the trends etc. Great read, and it's not huge either. You can easily read it in one sitting. Especially hobgoblinpie who has nice guy syndrome ^.^ [wagon] should be uncensored imo - runescape allows it
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
That reminds me, some guy posted in here about a girl he liked with an [wagon] boyfriend who made her miserable. I gave him my thing about breaking them up and making it her idea but I never found out how it went, and I can't remember who it was :/
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Hey Hey! Racist Red Faces?
This isn't racist, the skit is not about them being black - The face paint was just part of the costume. Nobody would understand what was going on if they didn't have proper costumes. The morons suggesting that this is racist single out the Jackson 5 for being black, YOU'RE the racist.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Personally I'd just go behind their back. No driving and no relationships can only hurt you.
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The Running Thread
After a year of doing no exercise, I decided to get fit again. For the last 3 days I've been a running a 5 min km. First day was 40 seconds over and I was so disoriented I walked into a tree, my front door and hit myself in the face when I opened my freezer door. 2nd day I met the 5mins without too much difficulty, today I did 4:45 and felt good. Will start doing 2x1km@8 mins with 5 mins active recovery and slowly bring it down soon. I still have the same issue I did back then - burning nose and throat. I can't breathe through my nose because it burns too much, even in warm whether. My throat also burns when running. Does anyone have some tips to help with it?
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Today...
At work we have to send most of the 50 dollar notes to the main office a few times a day so the till doesn't have too much money in it. We put the money in a plastic capsule and put it in a pipe, it shoots up into the roof and goes to the office where they count and put it away. Today I got bored and sent a capsule up with just a note inside saying "HELP! I'm stuck in the pipe"
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Should marijuana remain illegal? Why should it be legal?
Smoking point is invalid because you can use a vaporizer/eat it, second is because carrying your life savings around with you at night also causes paranoia but isn't illegal. Paranoia is also a stupid reason to ban something. Drug induced psychosis is not only rare, but the effects only last a couple days at the most. Even if it happens multiple times (by then you would know to stop) there is only a small chance that it becomes chronic. None of those reasons cause issues to other people, it's just a violation of our rights to ban it. In reality marijuana was banned for corporate profit, and the myths still floating around today wouldn't exist if people did their own research.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Sure seems like an attention seeker to me. Teacher pulling him out of the way of a truck sounds like an outright lie - like anyone could react quickly enough, even if it wasn't a middle aged woman. He then shows you what I gather to be razor blades or something for self harm on webcam. He will do it as long as you give him attention for it.
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Today...
Today I got [bleep]ed at because it was time for me to go home and I didn't serve some lady. She went off at me, calling me incompetent at my job because I wanted to get home, not work unpaid since she "just had a couple things." IT'S THE EXPRESS LANE EVERYBODY ONLY HAS A COUPLE THINGS
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The worst thing you've ever tasted?
The stuff in bottles and cans is exactly the same. Coke sells the syrup to the bottling companies, who mix it with carbonated water and sell it again.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
Off Topic: That "The Game" book that Ryan gave me from you, so far is a load of bollocks. it barely teaches anything that supposed to help a guy who's extremely shy. >:( I was the one who was saying don't read the game for advice. I've always recommended the mystery method. The venusian arts handbook is apparently a later version of the mystery method by the same author but I haven't read it.
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
"You should come to homecoming with me."
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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice
I had the worst test thrown at me last night at a pub. I was flirting with a bartender, when another female barkeep comes up and tells me I look too young to be in a bar. I could handle that, and replied with something like 'yeah I'm 13, gotta love my fake id.' That would have worked most of the time, but she wasn't finished and came back with 'you look 5.' Boom. I had nothing. Came up with I will look 20 when I'm 80 while she will look like a catchers mitt about 10 seconds later. You always think of the best things to say when it's too late :( Girls that get hit on a lot (bartenders for example) will tend to test more often, and more aggressively. They aren't [bleep]es, they just have a '[bleep] shield' to fend off all the low value guys who can't handle it. Once you start passing them they are usually really nice people.