IGoddessI

haha my boyfriend cant dance and he gets embarrassed i took him to his first rave with me like 3 months ago and he had such an awesome time! i think he finally realised that noone cares how he dances, we're all just there for a good time. He ended up having so much fun!

Don't care what other people think of you, dance like nobody is watching. You should express the way you feel the music in your body and just do it, i could care less what the [bleep] next to me thinks about my dancing so long as I'm having an awesome time. If worse comes to worse look up the shopping trolley, the whipper snipper, the lawn mower, etc moves. I remember going up to this random saying his moves were funky and he turned around and goes are you serious all im doing is pretending to start the lawn mower and then it hit me... hahaha but it was so cool

Hahah I used to play footbag on california games, the double arch and double dean, half axle, full axle, do do, horse shoe rofl... those were the days.

Oh snap I definitely save my pizza vouchers

Dear Alcohol, First & foremost, let me tell you that I'm a huge fan of yours. As my friend, you always seem to be there when needed. The perfect post-work cocktail, a beer at the game, and you're even around at the holidays, hidden inside chocolates, as you warm us when we're stuck in the midst of endless family gatherings. However, lately I've been wondering about your intentions. While I want to believe that you have my best interests at heart, I feel that your influence has led to some unwise consequences: 1. Phone calls: While I agree with you that communication is important, I question the suggestion that any conversation of substance or necessity takes place after 2 a.m. Why would you make me call those ex-boyfriends/girlfriends when I know for a fact they do not want to hear from me during the day, let alone all hours of the night? 2. Eating: Now, you know I love a good meal, but why do you suggest that I eat a taco with fire sauce, along with a big Italian meatball and some stale bbq chips (washed down with WINE & topped off with a Kit Kat after a few cheese curls & chili cheese fries)? I'm an eclectic eater, but I think you went too far this time. 3. Clumsiness: Unless you're subtly trying to tell me that I need to do more yoga to improve my balance, I see NO need to hammer the issue home by causing me to fall down. It's completely unnecessary, and the black & blue marks that appear on my body mysteriously the next day are beyond me. Similarly, it should never take me more than 45 seconds to get the front door key into the lock 4. Furthermore: The hangovers have GOT to stop. This is getting ridiculous. I know a little penance for our previous evening's debauchery may be in order, but the 3pm hangover immobility is completely unacceptable. My entire day is shot. I ask that, if the proper precautions are taken (water, vitamin B, bread products, aspirin) prior to going to sleep/passing out face down on the kitchen floor with a bag of popcorn, the hangover should be minimal & in no way interfere with my daily activities. Alcohol, I have enjoyed our friendship for some years now & would like to ensure that we remain on good terms. You've been the invoker of great stories, the provocation for much laughter, and the needed companion when I just don't know what to do with the extra money in my pockets. In order to continue this friendship, I ask that you carefully review my grievances above & address them immediately. I will look for an answer no later than Thursday 3pm (pre-happy hour) on your possible solutions & hopefully, we can continue this fruitful partnership. Thank you, Your biggest fan IGoddessI P.S. THINGS THAT ARE DIFFICULT TO SAY WHEN DRUNK: 1. Innovative 2. Preliminary 3. Proliferation 4. Cinnamon THINGS THAT ARE VERY DIFFICULT TO SAY WHEN DRUNK: 1. Specificity 2. British Constitution 3. Passive-aggressive disorder THINGS THAT ARE DOWNRIGHT IMPOSSIBLE TO SAY WHEN DRUNK: 1. Thanks, but I don't want to have sex. 2. Nope, no more beer for me. 3. Sorry, but you're not really my type. 4. Good evening, officer. Isn't it lovely out tonight? 5. Oh, I couldn't. No one wants to hear me sing 6. Fight? No way. Let's sit down and talk this out 7. Text message? No I have sent enough for the night 8. Dance? No I should't I should just sit here in the barstool.

if you are a guy, i mean really u are a definite bummer :-# A guy with the name IGoddessI... Really did you miss the obvious that I'm female? What a definite bummer.

Ha when I was living with my aunty her friends used to deliver sample things in peoples letter boxes and instead of delivering them, we'd end up with half a shopping load of free [cabbage]. Eg a whole jar filled with 50 milo packets hahah stinge

Small things amuse small minds. Smaller minds wonder why the small minds are amused.

I really don't see how this is going to land you a decent job when you graduate. Teachers really do strange things sometimes.

Favourite thing in the world is a treasure chest I bought and it's filled with millions of dried old flower petals. Every time something wonderful happens in my life I pick a flower, or if anyone buys me flowers I keep all the petals and put them in the box. I've collected them for 8 years. Whenever I get sad, I open my treasure chest and realise I have millions of things to be thankful and grateful for.

Collaborating through the problem: - Some of you may want to copy and paste this and print it out - It will give you learning grounds to communication and managing conflict. 1. Define the problem - What's the issue being considered? 2. Analyze the problem - What are the causes and symptoms? 3. Develop mutually agreeable criteria for judging alternative solutions. - What goals will a good solution reach? 4. Generate alternative solutions - What could we do? List before discussing each. 5. Select the solution that best fits the criteria identified - Select one or a combination from those listed. Approach Characteristics Goal Outlook Withdrawal - Uncooperative, unassertive, to keep from dealing with conflict. "I don't want to talk about it". Accommodating - Cooperative unassertive, to keep from upsetting the other person. "Getting my way isn't as important as keeping the peace". Forcing - uncooperative, assertive, to get my own way. "I'll get my way regardless of what I have to do". Compromising - partially cooperative, partially assertive, to get partial satisfaction. "I'll get partial satisfaction by letting the other person get partial satisfaction as well". Collaborating - cooperative, assertive, to solve the problem together. "Let's talk this out and find the best solution possible for both of us". Communication skills all of you might like to learn: 1. Recognize and state ownership of the apparent problem. Make "I" statements. Instead of "Your music is too damn loud, turn it down I'm trying to study", say "Hi, I'm having a problem that I need your help with. I'm trying to study for an exam". Your neighbour is not having the problem, you are having the problem. 2. Describe the basis of the potential conflict in terms or behaviour, consequences, and feelings. Use the "B.C.F" sequence (Behaviour, consequence, feelings). "When I hear your music (B), I get distracted and canÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢t concentrate on studying © and then I get frustrated and annoyed." (F) 3. Avoid evaluating the other person's motives. Don't say anything to creative defensiveness. The other person is probably not going out of their way on purpose to intentionally annoy you. For instance you would not like to say "You're being really inconsiderate of others in the building". You want the focus to be on what is happening to YOU. 4. be sure the other person understands your problem. Suppose your neighbour says "Oh come on, everyone plays loud music in this neighbourhood and there has even been times when YOUR music has been too loud!ÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬ÃâÃ

There are many types of conflict and many can be resolved so simply, however, sadly many people don't really think about it. Interpersonal conflict - a situation in which the needs or ideas of one person are perceived to be at odds with or in opposition to the needs or ideas of another pseudoconflict - conflict that is apparent, not real. It occurs in a situation of apparent incompatibility between the needs or ideas of the partners involved. Badgering - light teasing, taunting, and mocking behaviour. Solution: recognize badgering for what it is. dont let yourself be drawn in. fact conflict - conflict that occurs when the information one person presents is disputed by the other. Solution: look for ways of meeting both needs. stop and check the facts or wait for an appropriate time when facts can be given. value conflict - conflicts over the deep-seated beliefs people hold about what is good or bad, worthwhile or worthless, desirable or undesirable, moral or immoral. Solution: look for areas in which both parties agree and work from there. if no agreement, you may just have to agree to disagree. policy conflict - conflicts that occur when two people in a relationship disagree about what should be the appropriate plan, course of action or behaviour in dealing with a perceived problem. Solution: Identify the nature of the problem. Agree on a policy (a plan of action or set of behaviours) that is most likely to provide the best solution. ego conflict - conflicts that occur when the people involved view 'winning' the conflict as central to maintaining the positive self-image. Solution: Look for ways to move the conflict away from an ego level and back down to a content level.

You will only ever go through life being able to count your REAL friends on one hand. The fact that you're choosing and knowing who they are right now and weeding out the other idiots only makes you a wise kid/teenage/adult.

What a wonderful thing to do for people! If you need any hand with standard deviation, other statistical things and stuff like that give us a yell. I work with statistic bull crap too often, blegh. I just finished a research report on the relationship and correlation similarities between perceived stress and life satisfaction levels. (CronbachÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢s ÃÆýÃâñ exceeds .8 in both circumstances, thus demonstrating that internal consistency is relevant for anyone who is interested in the final results) Fun. NOT.

I cant stand the little gangster wanna be kids that come across to the train station after they finish school and talk tough and act like the biggest idiots ever. Or think its hardcore to hang around shopping malls in their groupies. "Oh ya wanna go" "your mom this" "ill smash ya head in" "what ya lookin at" every second word f this f that... It's just rubbish. I just wanna grab the lot of them, bang their heads together and say get a day job. Hope they enjoy community welfare housing.

I have a phobia of not having a clean room when I study. Dirty room = distraction, not organised, nothing getting done. The bigger my piece of assessment the tidier I clean my room... Stupid classical conditioning crap.. I could de condition the situation but that involves thinking about it and actually doing something. shocking.

Kudos to your post.

Then its like a mold with an added u hehe

I don't really and havn't ever really had a super hero growing up. My hero has always been my dad. He inspired me to motivate others to get everything they want in life for a living. To me that's better than what any super hero could ever do.

So many people agree with your point, myself included.

When I was 18 I used to go out and get blind drunk. I used it to escape my problems because I didn't want to deal with my best friends death. I now can only sink a couple and then switch to soft drink. Tonight is an exception it's my 21st :P You have a valid point warrior, some people will learn from their mistakes, others wont.

Alcohol is a depressant and I don't recommend it for persons under the age of 18. In severe circumstances the minorÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢s body becomes dependant on the substance. It often is followed by depressive thoughts, feelings of unworthiness. It can lead to long term depression. This can happen to anybody but especially in younger kids. I had to watch a documentary the other day at uni about a young boy who had become dependant on the substance as he was drinking as early as the age of 6. It was not pretty and quite hurtful to see how he grew to be. I wouldn't wish it upon anybody. I also despise pregnant mothers who drink alcohol, any amount can do damage to their child. From as serious as fetolalcohol syndrome to being difficult babies, then the child later developing behavioural problems due to being exposed to the substance before birth. The child also has higher chances of abusing alcohol when growing older. This is the same as pregnant mothers who have done drugs. The child has more chance of growing being deprived from the drug and in teenage years has more of a chance of trying drugs and becoming dependent on them. You will find that most teenagers who do drugs, their parents had also tried it. It's a vicious cycle, hence the rise in drug use generation after generation. Alcoholism is indicated when an individual is psysiologically dependent on alcohol; they show withdrawal symptoms when no alcohol is consumed. It is the 3rd leading cause of death. Problem drinkers are not addicted but have work, family and health related complications associated with alcohol consumption. Contributors to alcoholism include the following: Genetic predisposition to drug addiction social-cognitive factors mental 'escape' from stressors self-handicapping learning: from parents or significant others Personality: e.g. people with high levels of negative affect. Consequences of alcoholism: Liver damage (e.g cirrhosis) incread risk of some cancers hypertension, stroke foetal alchohol syndrome poor judgement and decision making loss of family and social relationships elevated risk of affective and anxiety disorders, domestic violence, child abuse, drowning, occupational injuries, suicide. Treatments for alcohlism include: Spontaneous remission detoxification aversion therapy (e.g. antabuse) cognitive-behavioural therapy stress management techniques support groups controlled drinking 70% of all violence happens within 100 meters of the pub ( I think these were Australian statistics from when I did health psychology) Within saying all this I'm currently downing a can of jim beam and waiting a few hours before my 21st party begins.

At the time of this dream you were tied with melancholy spirits (depressing thoughts). You will successfully outstrip any rivalry in your life. Because you ran through a forest you either had loss in trade or unhappy home influences and quarrels among families. If you were still hungry or cold while running through the forest you will have to make a long journey to settle some unpleasant affair in your life. Through-out all of this though, however, I have some good news for you. You will outstrip your friends in the race for wealth, and you will occupy a higher place in your social life. However, if you fell while running you will lose property or reputation. You also probably participated in some kind of party or festival prior to this dream.

Why do you feel the need to protect your family, not to intrude but are you the man of the house? Are you having trouble with certain ways your siblings are behaving and you feel like you need to pull them in line. Everytime you try to be the man and pull them back to where they need to be, they do something silly and it hurts you like crazy. You will be a good dad one day. The person who assists you is an authoritative male figure who is no longer with you. He urges you to make good decisions. He is proud of you, so stop wondering. He doesn't want you to leave school :pray: did the person who is no longer with you go to school with you? Things WILL get better for you, promise.

Your dream is very simple. You feel you need to take on other peoples problems to protect them. You don't need to carry everyone elseÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢s burdens on your shoulders. However you are a true, loyal friend. Just be careful not to be possessive towards females. If your advice or help doesn't heal the people you know, donÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢t feel unworthy. You have a lot of pride this dream is asking you not to hold it inside. It's like you don't like others to know when you're feeling weak or venerable because everyone looks up to you and sees you as their rock and the strong one. Keep in mind even Hercules needed someone to carry the world on their shoulders for him while he needed a break.