The Observer

[hide] Pretty much this. Good job touching/kissing her and asking for her number. Bad job doing romantic stuff like watching the sunset w/ a girl who you haven't slept with yet-- you kinda just friend zoned yourself by doing girly, wimpy shit like that lol Was her idea. Not mine. She invited me inside the day I walked her home, but you know, sleeping with a drunk girl is bad on so many levels. in the future if a girl suggests stupid stuff like that, just say no :D Thing is, we're both the outdoorsy adventure types, so those kind of activities are kind of a mutual interest. In my opinion (now that I have a clear head) what ruined it was my reaction to my friend (it got blown out of proportion by said friend) and also me not making a move fast enough. Obviously if someone else is clearly jumping in there doing what I didn't do, then it's pretty clear why it got [bleep]ed up. Well if she was sending nudes and you weren't saying that you want to bang her and then having a conversation about sexual preferences then she probably took that as your not that into her [/hide] It's not like I said "nice" and walked away from the conversation after she sent me those. Just throwing it out there.

Pretty much this. Good job touching/kissing her and asking for her number. Bad job doing romantic stuff like watching the sunset w/ a girl who you haven't slept with yet-- you kinda just friend zoned yourself by doing girly, wimpy shit like that lol Was her idea. Not mine. She invited me inside the day I walked her home, but you know, sleeping with a drunk girl is bad on so many levels. in the future if a girl suggests stupid stuff like that, just say no :D Thing is, we're both the outdoorsy adventure types, so those kind of activities are kind of a mutual interest. In my opinion (now that I have a clear head) what ruined it was my reaction to my friend (it got blown out of proportion by said friend) and also me not making a move fast enough. Obviously if someone else is clearly jumping in there doing what I didn't do, then it's pretty clear why it got [bleep]ed up.

At least you're bringing in the money. All that counts. Last two graveyard shifts before I'm shifted back on the day shift for when I go back to school. Can't wait. Graveyards really do a number to your body. What good is money if you don't have time to spend it? That's a good thing if you want to save it.

At least you're bringing in the money. All that counts. Last two graveyard shifts before I'm shifted back on the day shift for when I go back to school. Can't wait. Graveyards really do a number to your body.

Pretty much this. Good job touching/kissing her and asking for her number. Bad job doing romantic stuff like watching the sunset w/ a girl who you haven't slept with yet-- you kinda just friend zoned yourself by doing girly, wimpy shit like that lol Was her idea. Not mine. She invited me inside the day I walked her home, but you know, sleeping with a drunk girl is bad on so many levels.

We had a decent breeze out today. For some reason I thought it would be a great idea to go for a 50 km bike ride. What the [bleep]?

Well, I'm working graveyards for the summer as a favour for my management (plus my hours increase to like 40-44 hours a week from like 30). This girl used to come in all the time with her friend to study for her summer courses. She's solid 10/10 and is finishing up her degree before she'll start her second one (same one I'm doing; Medical Science) and we really hit it off. I finally took up the courage to ask for her number which she enthusiastically gave me. We hung out late at night on our days off (go see the stars, go see the sunrise/sunset and get ice cream or whatever) or whenever and she used to come in every morning before work to see me. We went to see a concert one night and got drunk so I walked her home. We held hands and kissed at her house. We held hands a lot and I had my arm around her whenever we watched the sunset or watched a movie together after that. We were pretty much dating (I did hint at the possibility of us dating, but she said she wants to stay single for now and see where this leads). Ultimately, this changed almost overnight when me, her and my best friend hung out. I did get jealous because he was extremely touchy feely with her (touching her almost constantly, arm around her, shit like that). I told him off silently, but he kept doing it, so obviously I got pissed off at him. Thing is, he already has a girlfriend so it made me even more aggravated. What sucks is that I don't have my own car, so it's either her or him driving. So I'm always the one stuck at the back almost third wheeling. It seems to be the case every time we hang out now. So I don't know if I can hang out with them both now. My friend wants me to hang out when they both go out because he doesn't want her to fall for him but ... the damage has already been done. One time I ditched them to hang out with another friend, but it seemed to put me in more of the dog house with her it seems... (them hanging alone watching the sunset instead of us three going out). Anyway, she gradually starts pulling away from me. She's not texting me as much (plus they're less relationshippy than they used to be; she doesn't send hearts or things like that either anymore) and the snapchats she sends me are less racy (she used to send my snapchat pics of her in the shower, except covering everything up... or nudging me that she's in her room naked, etc.) That's when I started to notice she started getting closer with my friend. He admits that he put his arm around her while they watched the stars together because he "thought he was with his girlfriend for a split second" which I immediately knew was bullshit and called him out on it. Plus now whenever we hang out she always seems to want him to come along. Tl;dr my best friend of three years stole this girl away from me despite him already having a girlfriend (he's a bit of a douchebag with a flashy new car and is just more socially confident than I am to say the least). I also didn't make a move fast enough and took it slow because of the trainwreck of my previous relationship I guess. So I'm trying to move on despite meeting the best girl I'll probably ever meet in my life. And no, I'm not being dramatic. Literally 10/10 body/face, stable personality, she's in a rich family (when her mom dies she'll be a millionaire), she's hard working and we clicked pretty well. God dammit. :wall: Also, this girl I was dating previously came back into my life at the same time. I'm sort of iffy about this because she seems like a whole box of crazy.

Am I the only one having really shitty luck with girls lately?

I would never date an 18 year old. But dating and just hooking up with are two totally different things. Fair point.

Maybe I'm just shallow, but I rarely find attractive people on OKC/POF. I actually found most of my attractive dates on Tinder.

Wind? My ex had that for a while, but the coverage was absolute shit. For me personally, I have Bell. Unfortunate consequence is that I end up spending well over $70 for mine (unlimited texting throughout Canada, and unlimited calling but a shitty data plan). I might consider cutting costs if gas prices go up any higher...

I don't know about you guys, but as a 21 year old male, even 18 year old girls going into university just feel too young for me.

Went for a 30 km bike ride before work. Surprisingly didn't kill me working an extra 8 hours of overtime working the graveyard shift.

Growing up sucks............ Such simpler times indeed.

It was Nadril. I just came across him in a programming sub Shit that's a while back, how is that guy doing?

Finally got my passport application in. I feel like a part of society now.

Joined:18 September 2006 wat

My great grandmother was Russian and my great grandfather was German. They met and escaped during WWII to Canada.

This is my 7th straight day working graveyards until a day off. Ugh, it's been killer.

Eh, I wanted to go into psych but stuck with pre-Med.

Bisexual is where you're attracted to both males and females. Think pansexual as the possibility of also being attracted to someone who is transgender/nonbinary. Something that's less commonly known about are those who label themselves as "demisexual". In a nutshell, sexual feelings occur with those only with whom you have deeply invested emotional feelings in. You would think that is a common occurrence among people, but that's not true. If it was, then infidelity would be all but non-existent.

Just in time for Canada Day! You now have an excuse to get drunk on a Wednesday, as is tradition I know, funny I got my results on Canada day. Would have been awful if I didn't pass and therefore didn't qualify for my year abroad. I get drunk on Wednesdays anyway because that's the day of most of the sports team games and I went on the nights out that followed from time to time Where are you headed in Canada (if you don't mind of course)?

Doop. Christ, that was nearly a year ago. Further dark times: spending many years vehemently denying that on this very forum, and generally being a heteronormative shit. in short, i came to the internet a straight, conservative Catholic and left it a pansexual agnostic queerblob. THE MORAL GUARDIANS WERE RIGHT Ah, must've missed that. I sort of took a leave from the boards a while ago only coming back from time to time to say hello to the oldies. It takes a lot of courage to say that shit, even if it is on an online forum protected by an online screen name, so I applaud you for doing so. I hope all is well. :thumbup:

I also remember when you were "A Local Guy" back when I used to play and frequent the friends chat. ... were you always female by any chance? Or am I missing something?

Pretty sure you haven't changed your avatar or signature at all since I remember. Compared to me who changes his signature/avatar like underwear nowadays. Well, at least on places I frequent more.