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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice

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Actually, I think you'll find that intercourse between two minors IS illegal. It just tends to be treated less seriously than an adult having sex with a minor, because blame can't be apportioned as easily.

 

 

 

Who's really going to press charges when both parties are at fault? It's basically an unenforced law, handled by the parents instead.

Deloriagod, it happens more than you think, most of the time it's a 16-15 year old though

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Deloriagod, it happens more than you think, most of the time it's a 16-15 year old though

 

 

 

That's not the same though. The 16 year old has reached the age of consent in most areas, so that party is at fault.

I need some help...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This girl and I are pretty good friends, and I happen to really like her. I have a strong urge to ask her out. BUT, If I ask her out and she says no it might ruin our friendship -.- . She might think that it's weird that I like her but she doesn't like me like that.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So, I need some advice badly. Any thoughts? :|

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Well, for a start, sex at that young an age is illegal just about everywhere, and it can seriously screw your life up if you get caught. I think the only country other than a few in africa and the middle east with an age of consent at 13 is japan, so unless you live in one of those countries, I suggest you wait.

 

 

 

Everyone goes through the maturity phase. You will probably look back in two or three years and realize that you probably weren't that mature.

 

 

 

Dating is fine, but don't take it too far. Personally, I would wait till 9th grade or till I turned 14 to start dating.

 

 

 

lol sex isn't illegal if you sex with someone your age, who is "underaged" aswell, only if you have sex with someone old than it's illegal for them.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Actually, there are laws in most every country to denote a legal age to undergo sexual activities.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

http://www.avert.org/aofconsent.htm

 

 

 

Average age* 16 16 16

 

 

 

First column is Male-Female sex, Second is Female-Female, and third is Male-Male.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So, to reinforce what doomsavenger said, it would be illegal for you to have sex at age 13. As everyone else has said, just because your bored doesn't mean you need to go have sex. Tbh, I didn't start dating until the summer between my 8th and 9th grade year. Any time before that, as in your case (sorry for stereotyping), is either to be "cool" or because the person is bored.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

When I was 13, I thought I was so mature, but it turned out I was only slightly more mature than my peers. Just give it some time, you have the rest of your life fore sex. Use your childhood for less complicated things.

Okay guys, i need help. Yeah, again its about kissing. How exactly do you get in the moment? i am not worried about the kissing part, its the pre- kiss im worried about..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Also- I was going out with my girlfriend a couple months ago, she broke up with me, i went out with her best friend.

 

 

 

went out with her for 5 months. Broke up, went back to the other girlfriend.

 

 

 

Now, oddly, My ex seems to dislike me. At first she still liked me as a friend, but now when i try to sit next to her she says "go away". The only thing i couldve said to her that was offensive was "ill sleep with you", but i said that in a playful way.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Any ideas on why shes mad at me? :ugeek:

(bleep) All haters I see, Cause I hate that you breath, I see you duck you little punk you lil freakin disease.

Ha, nowhere where Female-Female sex is illegal is Male-Male sex legal, but in the opposite case there are a couple dozen countries that legalize Female-Female sex but not Male-Male sex. Pfft, pervy male rulers we have, nay?

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Okay guys, i need help. Yeah, again its about kissing. How exactly do you get in the moment? i am not worried about the kissing part, its the pre- kiss im worried about..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Also- I was going out with my girlfriend a couple months ago, she broke up with me, i went out with her best friend.

 

 

 

went out with her for 5 months. Broke up, went back to the other girlfriend.

 

 

 

Now, oddly, My ex seems to dislike me. At first she still liked me as a friend, but now when i try to sit next to her she says "go away". The only thing i couldve said to her that was offensive was "ill sleep with you", but i said that in a playful way.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Any ideas on why shes mad at me? :ugeek:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

There's your answer.

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I had a piece of grass on my shoe, and she wiped that off. Yeah. Impressive, eh? That's probably the closest I've ever been to having sex. :P

I feel weird doing this but here it goes.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Senior in HS in the US.

 

 

 

Kindest, most friendly, prettiest girl you can imagine.

 

 

 

We've been decent friends for a couple years. We've hung out outside of school and such. Problem is, she was dating one of my best friends since preschool (we play on the lacrosse team together, go to parties together, and all that) for the last three years until last fall. Now they've been 'broken up' for about a year but both have feelings for each other still (went to homecoming together, still go places together and all that). After this year, we'll all be going to college, she and I are looking at mostly the same schools but he, (and it breaks my heart to say it) probably can't get into where the two of us are applying. Maybe we'll wind up going to the same university. The three of us are going on senior trip to north carolina in the same group of about 10 people but I don't know where I'm going with this. Basically, I can't get over her and I don't know what to do. I don't think I should tell her, or try to get closer to her in a relationship sense, at the very least until we leave for college, if ever, but it kills me to do this.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This is a little angsty, I know, but kind advice is appreciated. With a girl like this, it's hard to say there's other fish in the sea.

 

Okay guys, i need help. Yeah, again its about kissing. How exactly do you get in the moment? i am not worried about the kissing part, its the pre- kiss im worried about..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Also- I was going out with my girlfriend a couple months ago, she broke up with me, i went out with her best friend.

 

 

 

went out with her for 5 months. Broke up, went back to the other girlfriend.

 

 

 

Now, oddly, My ex seems to dislike me. At first she still liked me as a friend, but now when i try to sit next to her she says "go away". The only thing i couldve said to her that was offensive was "ill sleep with you", but i said that in a playful way.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Any ideas on why shes mad at me? :ugeek:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

There's your answer.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I seemed to forget an awful important part.

 

 

 

MY current girlfriend was talking to her and asked "is it okay if i go out with ____" and she said yes...

(bleep) All haters I see, Cause I hate that you breath, I see you duck you little punk you lil freakin disease.

I feel weird doing this but here it goes.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Senior in HS in the US.

 

 

 

Kindest, most friendly, prettiest girl you can imagine.

 

 

 

We've been decent friends for a couple years. We've hung out outside of school and such. Problem is, she was dating one of my best friends since preschool (we play on the lacrosse team together, go to parties together, and all that) for the last three years until last fall. Now they've been 'broken up' for about a year but both have feelings for each other still (went to homecoming together, still go places together and all that). After this year, we'll all be going to college, she and I are looking at mostly the same schools but he, (and it breaks my heart to say it) probably can't get into where the two of us are applying. Maybe we'll wind up going to the same university. The three of us are going on senior trip to north carolina in the same group of about 10 people but I don't know where I'm going with this. Basically, I can't get over her and I don't know what to do. I don't think I should tell her, or try to get closer to her in a relationship sense, at the very least until we leave for college, if ever, but it kills me to do this.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This is a little angsty, I know, but kind advice is appreciated. With a girl like this, it's hard to say there's other fish in the sea.

 

 

 

[bleep] you, there are.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If you like her enough, ask her out if you don't think doing so will hurt your friend. It's still the first semester of senior year, so even if you end up going to different schools you've got a year, and if you go to the same school, well, all the better if things turn out well. And in some stupid worst case scenario that the lot of you are probably thinking of right now, if things don't work out and you go to the same uni, campuses are kind of big (read: underexaggeration), so if you're scared to death of meeting her at college after being "rejected", err, don't.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Remember though, if you stalk her I'll kill you, especially if you aren't good looking enough to get away with it. Considering stalkin's basically a mortal sin I'm pretty sure God'd forgive me.

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haha yeah I know there are other people, it's just hard admitting it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You are right but I don't see where stalking came in. I'm not some creepy kid following her around. I guess I'm good looking and popular and athletic and all that, although I feel like an [wagon] saying it and don't really think it applies. I'm a normal guy with a pretty heavy crush who felt like telling someone.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thanks a lot for your response. You really have been helpful.

I need some help...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This girl and I are pretty good friends, and I happen to really like her. I have a strong urge to ask her out. BUT, If I ask her out and she says no it might ruin our friendship -.- . She might think that it's weird that I like her but she doesn't like me like that.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So, I need some advice badly. Any thoughts? :|

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

How good of friends are you? Usually, if a guy and a chick are very close friends, starting the relationship will ruin your friendship.

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I need some help...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This girl and I are pretty good friends, and I happen to really like her. I have a strong urge to ask her out. BUT, If I ask her out and she says no it might ruin our friendship -.- . She might think that it's weird that I like her but she doesn't like me like that.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So, I need some advice badly. Any thoughts? :|

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

How good of friends are you? Usually, if a guy and a chick are very close friends, starting the relationship will ruin your friendship.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We're really close, but i like her more than a friend and am tempted to ask her out.....i just don't want to ruin what we have :|

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How old are you? I'm more keen to tell you to ask her out if you're older.

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I need some help...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This girl and I are pretty good friends, and I happen to really like her. I have a strong urge to ask her out. BUT, If I ask her out and she says no it might ruin our friendship -.- . She might think that it's weird that I like her but she doesn't like me like that.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So, I need some advice badly. Any thoughts? :|

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

How good of friends are you? Usually, if a guy and a chick are very close friends, starting the relationship will ruin your friendship.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We're really close, but i like her more than a friend and am tempted to ask her out.....i just don't want to ruin what we have :|

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I did this(like 2 weeks ago), it didn't seem to ruin our friendship, we are still very close, maybe even closer... I don't know haha

Luck be a Lady

 

 

 

I need some help...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This girl and I are pretty good friends, and I happen to really like her. I have a strong urge to ask her out. BUT, If I ask her out and she says no it might ruin our friendship -.- . She might think that it's weird that I like her but she doesn't like me like that.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So, I need some advice badly. Any thoughts? :|

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

How good of friends are you? Usually, if a guy and a chick are very close friends, starting the relationship will ruin your friendship.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We're really close, but i like her more than a friend and am tempted to ask her out.....i just don't want to ruin what we have :|

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I did this(like 2 weeks ago), it didn't seem to ruin our friendship, we are still very close, maybe even closer... I don't know haha

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Did u ask her out? did she say yes?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i'm 18 btw

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[bleep]ing ask her out you woosie. At that age you're either in senior year or college. Either way this shouldn't even be a question.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We need a billboard put up either at in the OP or at the top of every page in this thread that says, in really big letters, CONFIDENCE. I may very well find such a billboard jpeg online and post it at the top of every page. Hmm...

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I need some help...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This girl and I are pretty good friends, and I happen to really like her. I have a strong urge to ask her out. BUT, If I ask her out and she says no it might ruin our friendship -.- . She might think that it's weird that I like her but she doesn't like me like that.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So, I need some advice badly. Any thoughts? :|

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

How good of friends are you? Usually, if a guy and a chick are very close friends, starting the relationship will ruin your friendship.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We're really close, but i like her more than a friend and am tempted to ask her out.....i just don't want to ruin what we have :|

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I did this(like 2 weeks ago), it didn't seem to ruin our friendship, we are still very close, maybe even closer... I don't know haha

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Did u ask her out? did she say yes?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

i'm 18 btw

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I did ask her, and she said no...

 

 

 

Ah well... better luck next time...

Luck be a Lady

[bleep]ing ask her out you woosie. At that age you're either in senior year or college. Either way this shouldn't even be a question.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We need a billboard put up either at in the OP or at the top of every page in this thread that says, in really big letters, CONFIDENCE. I may very well find such a billboard jpeg online and post it at the top of every page. Hmm...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

and if I ask her out and she said no and it ruined out friendship I bet you would feel stupid.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

think next time please? :pray:

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Exactly. You're the breadwinner here. NOW WIN THAT BREAD.

catch it now so you can like it before it went so mainstream

Exactly. You're the breadwinner here. NOW WIN THAT BREAD.

 

 

 

that's one way of putting it, I like that way of putting it \'

Luck be a Lady

 

[bleep]ing ask her out you woosie. At that age you're either in senior year or college. Either way this shouldn't even be a question.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We need a billboard put up either at in the OP or at the top of every page in this thread that says, in really big letters, CONFIDENCE. I may very well find such a billboard jpeg online and post it at the top of every page. Hmm...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

and if I ask her out and she said no and it ruined out friendship I bet you would feel stupid.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

think next time please? :pray:

 

 

 

Cute.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You should realize by now how sadistic I choose to be. I was planning for you to ruin your friendship. HA. HAHAHA.

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that for the great advice everyone =D>

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

except Lenticular he really helped me :P

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