September 8, 200916 yr Ok I finally got around to posting this. So there's this really cute girl in my math class I've uhh been... "noticing". Anyways on Friday my math teacher put us into groups that we'll be with for the rest of the unit and she's in my group. So I wasn't really prepared for this, and when we sat down with our groups I think I seemed a little nervous cause I didn't want to [bleep] this first impression thing up, but anyways, she seemed a little nervous and our eyes met a couple times and we both looked away quickly. So then at the end of class when I was about to go and hand my paper in, she offered do to it for me 8-). Now that was something really small but that's a good sign right? She isn't in any of my other classes put I did walk by her a few times in the hallway and she looked at me, butmy idiot self thought it would be a had idea to hold eye contact, so I acted like I didn't notice her :wall:. She seems reallllllllly nice and she's smart (at least in math), and like super cute (like practically a 10)... So what should I do tommorow, I have math first period everyday FYI. Oh and lots of responses please I only have 9 hours and 20 minutes till I gotta leave for school. So many posts seem to just be how to attract a girl.. Maybe I should just collect all my posts from here and paste bin them so I can refer people. Just hit the attraction switches over and over. Confidence, smiling, willingness to walk away, ability to effect her emotions, (good and bad ones) humor, leader of men, protector of loved ones, pre selection etc etc. All the alpha male stuff. Run that EV routine I posted a while back if you want, girls love it. Tell stories laced with attraction switches. I don't know if I mentioned the cube routine in this thread, but basically it's pretty easy to do. Just a cold read by getting her to picture a cube, then adding flowers, a storm, a ladder and a horse and bull [cabbage]ting your way through by making your own interpretations off her description. Even the first time I tried it, they all said it was 90% accurate. Escalate touching starting from thumb wars etc, and eventually work up to hand on leg etc. I posted a 'ladder' of escalation a few pages back. Do this from the get go and calibrate based on what stage you are in and the reactions you get. (attraction, comfort etc) Pretending like you didn't notice her isn't necessarily a bad thing as long as you go the other way too - push/pull is important. Things like, 'that was funny, too bad you're still a dork' etc Don't give her any IOIs until she gives you some, 'reward' her with them. Get her qualifying herself with questions like 'are you adventurous' or something. Move onto open ended questions etc to build comfort and make a move. :thumbup:
September 8, 200916 yr Ok I finally got around to posting this. So there's this really cute girl in my math class I've uhh been... "noticing". Anyways on Friday my math teacher put us into groups that we'll be with for the rest of the unit and she's in my group. So I wasn't really prepared for this, and when we sat down with our groups I think I seemed a little nervous cause I didn't want to [bleep] this first impression thing up, but anyways, she seemed a little nervous and our eyes met a couple times and we both looked away quickly. So then at the end of class when I was about to go and hand my paper in, she offered do to it for me 8-). Now that was something really small but that's a good sign right? She isn't in any of my other classes put I did walk by her a few times in the hallway and she looked at me, butmy idiot self thought it would be a had idea to hold eye contact, so I acted like I didn't notice her :wall:. She seems reallllllllly nice and she's smart (at least in math), and like super cute (like practically a 10)... So what should I do tommorow, I have math first period everyday FYI. Oh and lots of responses please I only have 9 hours and 20 minutes till I gotta leave for school. So many posts seem to just be how to attract a girl.. Maybe I should just collect all my posts from here and paste bin them so I can refer people. Just hit the attraction switches over and over. Confidence, smiling, willingness to walk away, ability to effect her emotions, (good and bad ones) humor, leader of men, protector of loved ones, pre selection etc etc. All the alpha male stuff. Run that EV routine I posted a while back if you want, girls love it. Tell stories laced with attraction switches. I don't know if I mentioned the cube routine in this thread, but basically it's pretty easy to do. Just a cold read by getting her to picture a cube, then adding flowers, a storm, a ladder and a horse and bull [cabbage] your way through by making your own interpretations off her description. Even the first time I tried it, they all said it was 90% accurate. Escalate touching starting from thumb wars etc, and eventually work up to hand on leg etc. I posted a 'ladder' of escalation a few pages back. Do this from the get go and calibrate based on what stage you are in and the reactions you get. (attraction, comfort etc) Pretending like you didn't notice her isn't necessarily a bad thing as long as you go the other way too - push/pull is important. Things like, 'that was funny, too bad you're still a dork' etc Don't give her any IOIs until she gives you some, 'reward' her with them. Get her qualifying herself with questions like 'are you adventurous' or something. Move onto open ended questions etc to build comfort and make a move. :thumbup: I think a lot of the end results of what you're advising is sex as opposed to an actual relationship. Vienna Raszyn Warsaw Klushino
September 8, 200916 yr I think a lot of the end results of what you're advising is sex as opposed to an actual relationship. How exactly? Why would a girl want a relationship with a guy she isn't attracted to, or feels comfortable with? What I talk about can lead to the typical bf/gf relationship with the feelings and all that jazz, or a purely sexual relationship. Anyone who has ever had a girlfriend did the things I talk about whether they know it or not, I just give the exact details which makes it much easier to do. All I'm "advertising" as you put it, is natural selection.
September 8, 200916 yr What I talk about can lead to the typical bf/gf relationship with the feelings and all that jazz, or a purely sexual relationship. I'd gladly give my left pinky-toe for that. (Trust me, you would too if you've seen the relationships I've had) Right, so here's my issue. I've been single for 8 months, It sucks. I dont have anyone on the rebound or sideline so I need to start anew. The only problem is, I have social anxiety. I cant just image myself as a different person and walk upto a girl, plus I always think they either: A) Have a Boyfriend B) Rejection C) have something else I don't want (Did someone say AIDS/HIV?) What can I actually do to get over this? Get drunk enough to forget quite literally everything? Oh, and same with meeting new women. I'm 18 so I can pretty much go anywhere here in Australia. Popoto.~<3
September 8, 200916 yr I think a lot of the end results of what you're advising is sex as opposed to an actual relationship. How exactly? Why would a girl want a relationship with a guy she isn't attracted to, or feels comfortable with? What I talk about can lead to the typical bf/gf relationship with the feelings and all that jazz, or a purely sexual relationship. Anyone who has ever had a girlfriend did the things I talk about whether they know it or not, I just give the exact details which makes it much easier to do. All I'm "advertising" as you put it, is natural selection. Because they all have to do with physical escalation. I understand that that is a major part of relationships, but the way I see your suggestions is leading to sex and nothing else 80% of the time. I don't really think that's what he's looking for, as if he's in high school then there's plenty of [bleep]s to bang. And for the record, advice is a completely different word from advertise. Might be different is Aussieland, as I know you guys do a lot of things backwards over there ;) Vienna Raszyn Warsaw Klushino
September 8, 200916 yr After catching up to what I've missed from being up at my cottage for the long weekend, a few comments: First, a little message for anyone looking to get a girlfriend or even just friends.. YOU ARE A MAN or a woman LET THEM KNOW THAT, PROVE IT TO THEM, AND YOU WILL HAVE THEM. Also known as confidence. Have it and show it. Yes, take it from Aquarius. Whenever he sees a girl he likes, he just walks up and whips out his manparts, to show the girl in question that he is, in fact, a man. Leave the man alone, he just has some security issues ok. If you needed to validate that you were a guy all the time would we make fun of you? A) YES B) NO (Pick A) Steam | PM me for BBM PIN Nine naked men is a technological achievement. Quote of 2013. PCGamingWiki - Let's fix PC gaming!
September 8, 200916 yr What can I actually do to get over this? Get drunk enough to forget quite literally everything? Oh, and same with meeting new women. I'm 18 so I can pretty much go anywhere here in Australia. Where in australia? If you leave near me we can go out, and I'll MAKE you talk to people :lol: edit: nvm, 800km away :| Just go out with a friend to a club, (I could help with your style if you want) and follow the 3 second rule. Make small goals, first being able to open a set and talk for 5 minutes, then work your way up to attraction and upwards. When you start talking to people you need an opener, in which you answer 2 questions. (what does this guy want, when will he leave) Notice something about them and comment on it, which lets you transition to regular conversation. Because they all have to do with physical escalation. I understand that that is a major part of relationships, but the way I see your suggestions is leading to sex and nothing else 80% of the time. I don't really think that's what he's looking for, as if he's in high school then there's plenty of [bleep]s to bang. And for the record, advice is a completely different word from advertise. Might be different is Aussieland, as I know you guys do a lot of things backwards over there ;) Touching on the low end (shoulder brushes, thumb wars) builds comfort, working your way up keeps you out of friend zone. friendzone != a girlfriend As you said, it's a major part of relationships anyway.
September 8, 200916 yr What can I actually do to get over this? Get drunk enough to forget quite literally everything? Oh, and same with meeting new women. I'm 18 so I can pretty much go anywhere here in Australia. Where in australia? If you leave near me we can go out, and I'll MAKE you talk to people :lol: He lives near enough to me, which is near Newcastle. If you're gonna teach him, you have to have me come along too. 7½ months till I am 18 though. If I go up I'll have to organise to say hi to Da_Latios on my way up. Steam | PM me for BBM PIN Nine naked men is a technological achievement. Quote of 2013. PCGamingWiki - Let's fix PC gaming!
September 8, 200916 yr Well, since one lives far, and one lives close, if they don't know eachother, you can date them both, and see which one you end up liking more. Yeah, because two timing is always a good idea -.- Grow up. I was joking. lol. It was a crap joke. your mom is a crap joke. Sorry for being so late, but it's true. Swords mum is a crap joke. I dont need a siggy no moar.
September 8, 200916 yr Sorry for being so late, but it's true. Swords mum is a crap joke. Don't make me kill you with a blunt katana. Steam | PM me for BBM PIN Nine naked men is a technological achievement. Quote of 2013. PCGamingWiki - Let's fix PC gaming!
September 8, 200916 yr Sorry for being so late, but it's true. Swords mum is a crap joke. Don't make me kill you with a blunt katana. You and Sword share the same mum? :shock: Accepting the fact I cant talk to girls I like is actually kinda hard :D I dont need a siggy no moar.
September 8, 200916 yr Sorry for being so late, but it's true. Swords mum is a crap joke. Don't make me kill you with a blunt katana. You and Sword share the same mum? :shock: Accepting the fact I cant talk to girls I like is actually kinda hard :D No, but you diss his mum, you diss my mum. Steam | PM me for BBM PIN Nine naked men is a technological achievement. Quote of 2013. PCGamingWiki - Let's fix PC gaming!
September 8, 200916 yr Sorry for being so late, but it's true. Swords mum is a crap joke. Don't make me kill you with a blunt katana. You and Sword share the same mum? :shock: Accepting the fact I cant talk to girls I like is actually kinda hard :D No, but you diss his mum, you diss my mum. When did I diss swords mum? :twss: I dont need a siggy no moar.
September 8, 200916 yr Sorry for being so late, but it's true. Swords mum is a crap joke. Don't make me kill you with a blunt katana. You and Sword share the same mum? :shock: Accepting the fact I cant talk to girls I like is actually kinda hard :D No, but you diss his mum, you diss my mum. When did I diss swords mum? :twss: i dunno. but ive been dishing it out to sword's mum :twss: I'm gonna be walking down an alley in varrock, and walka is going to walk up to me in a trench coat and say "psst.. hey man, wanna buy some sara brew"walka92- retired with 99 in attack, strength, defence, health, magic, ranged, prayer and herblore and 137 combat. some day i may return to claim 138 combat, but alas, that time has not yet come
September 8, 200916 yr Sorry for being so late, but it's true. Swords mum is a crap joke. Don't make me kill you with a blunt katana. You and Sword share the same mum? :shock: Accepting the fact I cant talk to girls I like is actually kinda hard :D No, but you diss his mum, you diss my mum. When did I diss swords mum? :twss: i dunno. but ive been dishing it out to sword's mum :twss: Right, that's it, I'm locking you in a room with 2 spiders for 24 hours, and you'll be tied up so you can't move. Steam | PM me for BBM PIN Nine naked men is a technological achievement. Quote of 2013. PCGamingWiki - Let's fix PC gaming!
September 8, 200916 yr Ok I finally got around to posting this. So there's this really cute girl in my math class I've uhh been... "noticing". Anyways on Friday my math teacher put us into groups that we'll be with for the rest of the unit and she's in my group. So I wasn't really prepared for this, and when we sat down with our groups I think I seemed a little nervous cause I didn't want to [bleep] this first impression thing up, but anyways, she seemed a little nervous and our eyes met a couple times and we both looked away quickly. So then at the end of class when I was about to go and hand my paper in, she offered do to it for me 8-). Now that was something really small but that's a good sign right? She isn't in any of my other classes put I did walk by her a few times in the hallway and she looked at me, butmy idiot self thought it would be a had idea to hold eye contact, so I acted like I didn't notice her :wall:. She seems reallllllllly nice and she's smart (at least in math), and like super cute (like practically a 10)... So what should I do tommorow, I have math first period everyday FYI. Oh and lots of responses please I only have 9 hours and 20 minutes till I gotta leave for school. Break the ice; ask her for help to a question even though you may already know the answer. Then say you already knew the answer you just wanted to hear what her voice sounded like because you hardly hear her speak. A friend to all is a friend to none.
September 8, 200916 yr Sorry for being so late, but it's true. Swords mum is a crap joke. Don't make me kill you with a blunt katana. You and Sword share the same mum? :shock: Accepting the fact I cant talk to girls I like is actually kinda hard :D No, but you diss his mum, you diss my mum. When did I diss swords mum? :twss: i dunno. but ive been dishing it out to sword's mum :twss: Right, that's it, I'm locking you in a room with 2 spiders for 24 hours, and you'll be tied up so you can't move. Just dont let emotions take control, I dont like you in that way I dont need a siggy no moar.
September 8, 200916 yr Just dont let emotions take control, I dont like you in that way I'm killing you with a katana, in Aus our laws mean that the thing will be really blunt. Cut your head off? Yeah, after 50 blows. Steam | PM me for BBM PIN Nine naked men is a technological achievement. Quote of 2013. PCGamingWiki - Let's fix PC gaming!
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September 8, 200916 yr What is an IOI, I keep reading it on this forum... And don't know what it is :( What does it stand for... Luck be a Lady
September 8, 200916 yr What is an IOI, I keep reading it on this forum... And don't know what it is :( What does it stand for... Indicator(s) of Interest. e.g. Smiling at you, eye contact etc. POH Agility Course, Please Support!
September 8, 200916 yr What is an IOI, I keep reading it on this forum... And don't know what it is :( What does it stand for... Indicator(s) of Interest. e.g. Smiling at you, eye contact etc. Ah thank you very much, : Luck be a Lady
September 8, 200916 yr Love you too babe ;) Are you 5'4", blonde and have boobs? I'm 4'10, a brunette, and have 3. Have to keep a spare in case one goes flat. :shock: :? :o then :lol: :lol: :lol:
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