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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice


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I wouldnt be sure about that unless shes very religious

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I wouldnt be sure about that unless shes very religious


Her daily management of the relationship should make it clear how she really feels in short order.

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I wouldnt be sure about that unless shes very religious


Her daily management of the relationship should make it clear how she really feels in short order.

 

 

Which is why I say that she isn't into sex. Marriage is just some far off event she can tell people and feel reasonably assured she wont have to have sex with them. 

 

If she was into sex but was holding off on it until a religiously sacred event thats a different story. I literally cant see how you can take a non religous person saying that they want to wait until marriage any other way then "I'm not into sex"



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Sex is a super high priority in relationships. Otherwise why bother? If I wanted someone to be super close to without having sex I'd make more friends. Granted this lead me to a string of girls with few friends and high sex drives. Its not hard to connect the dots here.

 

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I wouldnt be sure about that unless shes very religious


Her daily management of the relationship should make it clear how she really feels in short order.

 
Which is why I say that she isn't into sex. Marriage is just some far off event she can tell people and feel reasonably assured she wont have to have sex with them. 
 
If she was into sex but was holding off on it until a religiously sacred event thats a different story. I literally cant see how you can take a non religous person saying that they want to wait until marriage any other way then "I'm not into sex"


Did he say she wasn't religious? There are also practical reasons to wait for sex....

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There are also practical reasons to wait for sex....

 

 

 

I'd be interested in hearing them.


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There are also practical reasons to wait for sex....

 
 
I'd be interested in hearing them.


-avoid unwanted pregnancies with a perfect (100%) success rare
-avoid STIs with a similar success rate
-save money on contraceptives (and avoid contraceptives like the pill that can have serious side effects)
-minimize hormonal changes that can challenge someone to view the health of a relationship objectively
-minimize emotional damage in the event of the relationship's failure

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-be extremely tense
-struggle to understand the opposite gender or why people's relationships seem so bizarre

 

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-be extremely tense
-struggle to understand the opposite gender or why people's relationships seem so bizarre


care to explain further?

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I just wanted to be contradictory, I wasn't totally serious

 

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How would you interpret a girl giving you her number and accepting your friend request on facebook, but taking a really long time to respond to any messages or not responding at all?



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Being friendly and not at all interested in a relationship beyond friendship. Girls give out their numbers and accept friend requests from anyone if you have even the smallest reason.


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How would you interpret a girl giving you her number and accepting your friend request on facebook, but taking a really long time to respond to any messages or not responding at all?

Have you asked her out?



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No. I want to ask her out in person, but I haven't had a good opportunity to do so since I asked her for her number (Last Friday) and I don't really want to do it via text or facebook, so right now I'm just waiting until the next time I see her in person and trying to gather second opinions.



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If you're interested in a girl, ask her out before the end of your first conversation then ask her for her number

 

And there's nothing wrong with asking a girl out through text if you asked for her number in person. As long as you didn't get her number from a friend or something, you'll be fine.



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You're probably in the friend zone but regardless if you actually are or not, that's irrelevant. Unless you're 100% certain that you'll bump into her in person (i.e. you have a class with her or something), just shoot her a text and ask her if she wants to go grab drinks or coffee with you. If she says yes, cool. If she says no, cool, you move on to the next woman. But either way, regardless of whether she's into you or not, at that point you will have certainty. And by having certainty, all of your stress and anxiety about this will instantly vanish. Ask me how I know :P


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Ask me how I know :P

 

How do you know?!


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You're probably in the friend zone but regardless if you actually are or not, that's irrelevant. Unless you're 100% certain that you'll bump into her in person (i.e. you have a class with her or something), just shoot her a text and ask her if she wants to go grab drinks or coffee with you. If she says yes, cool. If she says no, cool, you move on to the next woman. But either way, regardless of whether she's into you or not, at that point you will have certainty. And by having certainty, all of your stress and anxiety about this will instantly vanish. Ask me how I know :P

Girls don't give out their numbers to random dudes to be friends. Either she's interested in him or he'll be the creepy guy who keeps texting her



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I just texted her this morning asking if she was at school, but she hasn't responded yet (I doubt she will at this point). I don't want to be "the creepy guy who keeps texting her", but I also don't want to wait too long. If I do go with your plan, should I try to start a conversation first, or should I just ask out of the blue?



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No answer is the same as no in my book.






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