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"I want a girlfriend/boyfriend", and other such relationship advice


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That concerns me

What concerns you?

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It's high school. What sports do you play? Just find some cleat chasers, man.

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Thats what i meant by style btw. Like if your a guy who wears loose fitting jeans and t-shirts expressing your interests through a style helps.

Think about the cliques and the cliche looks a lot of them have. The skater guy, the sports guy, the goth, swag, etc. in high school people stereotype hard and these styles help you appeal to people who like what that style stands for.


And this holds true at all ages. I guarantee you associate the white guy with dreads to smoke weed and eat vegan :lol:

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@Bonez I'd say the best thing you could really do for yourself at this point is to explore your own hobbies and interests and give yourself varied life experiences. Don't even worry about girls too much, but also know that you're at a great stage to practice getting rejected so it'll sting less down the road. 

 

I know it might sound hard to believe now since you're experiencing it in the present moment, but high school really does not matter much at all in terms of relationships. Make yourself a priority, put yourself out there a bit as girls come into your life in one way or another, experience some rejection and build your own character and self confidence.


 


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Idk just put some effort into being close to someone

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It's high school. What sports do you play? Just find some cleat chasers, man.

Reach for the Top :P. But seriously, I don't play any sports. Actually, I really should be in much better shape than I am, but I haven't reached useless blob level or anything yet.

 

@Bonez I'd say the best thing you could really do for yourself at this point is to explore your own hobbies and interests and give yourself varied life experiences. Don't even worry about girls too much, but also know that you're at a great stage to practice getting rejected so it'll sting less down the road. 

 

I know it might sound hard to believe now since you're experiencing it in the present moment, but high school really does not matter much at all in terms of relationships. Make yourself a priority, put yourself out there a bit as girls come into your life in one way or another, experience some rejection and build your own character and self confidence.

Sounds like so solid advice, so thank you there. I'm working on the whole explore hobbies and interests things along with the life experiences bit already although I should be a bit more out there.

 

 

 

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Idk just put some effort into being close to someone

This is honestly something I would mark as a big problem. I'm not sure what it is, if I just haven't found the right clique or if I haven't put myself out there enough or what. But I have friends and whatnot but I wouldn't say I'm overly close to any of them and I hardly hang out with them. I might just have an over hollywooded view of how highschool is supposed to go and what not but I hardly spend time with any of my friends outside of school except for the rare occasion. 

 

I might just discount that to my friends also just doing this but I am always hearing stories about them hanging out with other friends on weekends and stuff which I never get invited to. In reality I might just have more 'deep seated' issues on this front, or as always I am just overthinking a very simple concept and should just put myself out there more and this wouldn't be an issue. *shrugs*


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This is honestly something I would mark as a big problem. I'm not sure what it is, if I just haven't found the right clique or if I haven't put myself out there enough or what. But I have friends and whatnot but I wouldn't say I'm overly close to any of them and I hardly hang out with them. I might just have an over hollywooded view of how highschool is supposed to go and what not but I hardly spend time with any of my friends outside of school except for the rare occasion. 

 

I might just discount that to my friends also just doing this but I am always hearing stories about them hanging out with other friends on weekends and stuff which I never get invited to. In reality I might just have more 'deep seated' issues on this front, or as always I am just overthinking a very simple concept and should just put myself out there more and this wouldn't be an issue. *shrugs*

 

 

If you want to do more things on weekends, be the one who starts making plans rather than fishing for invites. In high school I built up a pretty large social circle because I would have bonfires at my house almost every week that gradually got bigger as I met more people, and I'd always have plenty of other plans on the other days because people came to my stuff. Joining a club helps a shitton too if you haven't, I met most of my friends through theatre and marching band. And you don't have to do anything that extreme if you don't have the resources, even organizing trips to the movies, asking people to hang out, etc is a good start; it will make people want to reciprocate that and invite you places back in exchange if you guys have fun.

 

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That's something I wish I figured out way earlier. You have to make an effort to hang out with people outside of school or work. If you don't, then you'll never get close to anyone.

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I also spent a chunk of high school not really hanging out with anyone after school. Sophomore year I kinda ditched the whole social hierarchy concept and started hanging out with the nerdy kids. They ended up being some of my best friends, one of which I still hangout with fairly often. Just gotta realize what friends are and make the effort to be closer to those worth being close to.

 

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Nobody gives a [bleep] about high school.

Crash and burn there, so you have it earlier and you can be more successful in college or uni.


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Nobody gives a [bleep] about high school.

Crash and burn there, so you have it earlier and you can be more successful in college or uni.

 

 

That's something I wish I figured out way earlier. You have to make an effort to hang out with people outside of school or work. If you don't, then you'll never get close to anyone.

 

This and this.

 

I had an absolute shitty time trying to deal with the fiery end from my first long term relationship (~3 years) while in second year in my program. [bleep]ing sucked [rooster], honestly. But it opened my mind up to make me realize that I can find someone else who would be better for me. Something major I've learned: always be with someone who will push you up and who will challenge you to do better, without putting you down. There's a reason why millionaires try to hang out with billionaires; you don't see them hanging out with their buddy Ted who dropped out of high school and works at the local street corner giving "massage therapy" classes.

 

Just remember: high school isn't the end all in life in terms of relationships and goals. You will experience a shitty breakup; it's almost guaranteed. Just remember that when this time comes, yes you will find someone else. There's reasons that relationship may not have worked (did you do shitty things? Did she do shitty things? Did life just hate you?). Pick up on these little queues and use them to better your next one but don't dwell on it. 

 

Also, expect a good amount of time to heal. Imagine breaking a leg. You wouldn't play hockey a couple weeks after that would you?

 

Live and learn, that's all you can do.


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She's bringing it up already and you're not even in a relationship yet, I think she's serious. You don't joke about spending the next 20 years of your life raising little shits.


some people do actually like kids

 


that was directed at you calling kids "little shits"

 

 

Oh by little shits I of course meant precious little angels.


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She's bringing it up already and you're not even in a relationship yet, I think she's serious. You don't joke about spending the next 20 years of your life raising little shits.

some people do actually like kids
that was directed at you calling kids "little shits"

Oh by little shits I of course meant precious little angels.

I am impressed by your ability to use sarcasm on the internet

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That's something I wish I figured out way earlier. You have to make an effort to hang out with people outside of school or work. If you don't, then you'll never get close to anyone.

 

 

This is why people who participate in  clubs, church groups, scouting, and sports seem to be good friends. It is about spending time with people and actually bonding with them through activities and experiences, not just talking with them during lunch and during class. All of my friends from high school that I still talk with or do stuff with came from one of those or similar things.


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A girl on POF just responded to my opener with "dude youve been on here for years" :lol:

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A girl on POF just responded to my opener with "dude youve been on here for years" :lol:

 

I think she may be onto you...


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A girl on POF just responded to my opener with "dude youve been on here for years" :lol:

So? When is the date?


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