try to talk it out and figure out y he acts like he does if it doesnt work then ignore his pms and he might eventually come around and be the old him but if he doesnt move on get better friends and build better friendships

 

 

 

 

 

just dont quit it may seem frustrating and stressful reading painful things from people so near but u cant quit because of one person

hmmmm, i would have to say just ask him what is deal is, ask him if he's intersted in persuing your friendship or ending it. Tell him you dont like how he's been acting towards you, and if he dosent stop you will be forced to remove him off your list.

hey just ignore him, just dont let this one person ruin the experience for you.

 

 

 

good luck

 

 

 

~ron

I think some of you have to pull back, since not many of you have been in his shoes. I have just recently, and I can tell that it certainly wasn't fun at all. It sounds more worse than it seems when someone tells those things about you and end with go die you noob or something like that.

 

 

 

It might not necessarily mean that he's afraid of losing a friend or anything like that, but it's always hard when you know that you have an "enemy" in a game. Counter attacking his "friend" will not help at all, and don't ever do it, as it will make him more angry and cause even more trouble. Ignoring him while he's at an angry point will not help much either, since he might just log onto other accounts just to bug you, and you'll eventually have to put private on friends (which isn't nice). He might also spread rumours about you, and all nasty things that you can imagine.

 

 

 

What you should do is to take a deep breath, and talk to him. Ask him in a polite way why he's been treating you like that lately, and tell him that you can always improve or change. In other words, try to solve the situation. It might not be easy in the beginning, but just keep it cool and ignore his bad phrases and things will get better. Hopefully he'll be the friend you once knew. Ignoring and trying to forget him is your last way out, if you've tried so much that it just doesn't work out. But forgetting a horrible experience is very hard for someone, even if it occured in a game, so give your best shot on solving the problem.

 

 

 

I feel for you, and wish for the best.

Don't quit because some twit likes to try to get you down.

 

From what you've told, you make a nice clan leader. I figure hes jealous because your catching up with him again. I don't know.

 

Put him on ignore or get him personal again and sort it out. Don't let him boss you around. Let him talk to himself for a while :)

 

If that doesn't helm, just leave him. What good is a friend who says you should kill yourself. That's not funny -.-

 

:thumbsup: dude

 

:P

dude, i can kind of relate to you. i had this friend, ladyredpoll (she would let me say her name on any forums by the way, tip it mods :@@) and we knew each other 2 years. we were best buds, always talking to each other, we're like two chatterboxes :P but one day, i notice she isnt logged in the entire day. this was very odd, because she would have told me if she was going on a trip of some sort. so the next coupla days, i notice she isnt on. but i see, going quickly;

 

 

 

ladyredpoll has logged in

 

ladyredpoll has logged out

 

 

 

so i went to the world i got a slight glimpse of, and went there, with tellies to ~all~ places and 5 super energy potions. i find her, and she explains that she turns her pm off all the time, because everyone bugs her, and now i never see her :cry:

 

 

 

but this thread isnt about me.

 

 

 

you should ask him why hes talking to you like this, and if you get a noob response like "youre ann idiot thats why" then just add him to your ignore list. after him seeing you not log on days, but seeing you log in on and off (knowing he was deleted) he will (slowly) realise he lost a great friend, and hell suffer for what he had done to you : oh, and weeks later, you should keep pm on, and hell speak to you, and just be casual and act just a tiny bit mean, just a pinch, just enough to not get him mad, but to know youre mad at him :

^nah, that's a bit different, that's a person ignoring you. This is a person insulting him, which is far more worse.

^nah, that's a bit different, that's a person ignoring you. This is a person insulting him, which is far more worse.

 

 

 

i edited my post, messed up a coupla times :@@ re read it please

 

 

 

and she turned her pm off, totally off and talks on skype. theres a difference :shame: (ooo i got shot for using that smiley :XD: )

 

 

 

i edited my post, messed up a coupla times :@@ re read it please

 

 

 

and she turned her pm off, totally off and talks on skype. theres a difference :shame: (ooo i got shot for using that smiley :XD: )

 

 

 

I didn't understand your last post or what you've edited at all. Please rewrite it in a more clearer way.

 

 

 

And yes, there is a difference, that's what I'm trying to say, that your case isn't the same as the author's. That girl didn't insult you, she just ignored you which often happens when the other person finds you too talkative, or if they've membered themself and don't have time to chat 24 - 7. She might've as well sold her account to someone, which is illegal.

dude i can so relate. like i have this friend who i've trained with since we were level 14 and talked to her everyday. when we pk, it's always us two and i used to trust her a lot. one day we went to the wild, she let me finish off this level 78 then when i got the skull, she pked me. i lost more or less 300k in total. after that day, i never saw her again. some friend huh?

 

 

 

but yea just forget about it, ignore him and just keep playing. there's a thing called jealousy/ envy and that's prolly what's consuming him. just remember not to let him affect u. if it helps, challenge him 1 on 1 just for the sake of closure.

making our money in the old days of 2004

 

 

 

You make it sound as if you are an RS veteren. 2004 is not old and it was when RS was swarmed by Miniclippers.

Seems to me that you and him don't really have a problem, but rather, a misunderstanding. It's possible that, over the years, you two have matured in different ways.

 

 

 

You say he talks about you with your clan members behind your back? Perhaps he is helping you reveal dissension within the ranks. After all, he did have the decency to tell you about the conversations afterwards, did he not?

 

 

 

He tells you to jump off a cliff and die and later says he was joking? Maybe his sense of humour has developed into the darker and more morbid type and that was merely his idea of a sarcastic joke. He might have simply not considered that you would've taken him seriously.

 

 

 

Also, if any of your clan members leave the clan simply because of him (whatever his intentions), then they weren't fit to be members in the first place. They were too weak to make the cut, and should be disregarded. This is probably one of the hardest parts of leading an organized force such as a clan, but a necessary part all the same.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

EDIT: BTW, I can say these things because I've actually experienced being on both sides of the matter myself. In addition, I'm the master of a small...organization of sorts (not currently active in RuneScape). The best solution for any relationship (friendship or otherwise) is effective communication (as many have inferred on here already).

Hmmmmm, it is hard to understand the situation with out being the recipient.

 

 

 

What I suggest like many others is you need to talk to him about it, make it clear that in no way did you find those comments funny. Infact you should state that they infended you. If he replies with similar comments and disreguards you then maybe it is time to re-[wagon] the situation.

 

 

 

If there is no way to root out the cause then the best thing would be to ignore him. I know that isn't what you want to do, but there are plenty of decent people on runescape who I am sure you could get to know. You are a leader of a clan after all, that would at least have a collection of people that you would chat to often. If they leave, under instruction of your currently underconsideration friend, then they are not worthy of a place in the clan.

 

 

 

Don't let this person destroy your joy. Though there was just one reply from someone that I have to disagree with.

 

 

 

"dont let 1 player stop your whole runescape career"

 

 

 

If the player was in runescape by all means this phrase holds true, but otherwise...eh... yeah I'll let you think it over.

but i'd sort of miss him, i know he's been saying all this bs about me- but he used to be a cool guy and i'd think i'd miss him..:(

 

 

 

You miss the old him, if he was a true freind he wouldnt have said all thoae nasty things so ignore him.

Sounds to me like a clear cut case of mutiny. This seems to be clan based... tell him unless he starts treating you like a real person with feelings, you'll kick him from the clan and place him on ignore. If he doesn't take you seriously, do it.

 

 

 

Telling you to kill yourself is something punishable by law. People have commited suicide because of what people have said about them on the net. I strongly suggest getting some screenshots and sending them to jagex with a note explaining your situation.

erm your posting this on a very public forum - did you ever consider;

 

 

 

1/ talking to him about your relationship

 

2/ that he or someone else may read this post!

just add me ingame :wink: me in sig

erm your posting this on a very public forum - did you ever consider;

 

 

 

1/ talking to him about your relationship

 

2/ that he or someone else may read this post!

 

 

 

1. its difficult talking to people like that

 

2. maybe if he did he'd realise what a jerk he is.

 

 

 

:|

nvm

Utterly own that fool with a few comebacks. Or simply ignore him or say that you've got better things to do.

Every problem has its peak and then it's downhill all the way dont let it get you down too much youll find better friends and as for him running others down is no way to build yourself up