Crazy ways you've dumped/rejected a girl/guy...

[the_trinity_11]

Hmmm just wondering I get asked out by a lot of girls, usually the guy is supposed to ask the girl don't you think? But anyways, I just wanna hear some things on how they've rejected/dumped a girl. Whether it's funny, serious or whatever. :P

 

 

 

Example;

 

-My friend dumped a girl on valentines day.

 

-I rejected a girl on her birthday.

[xvillexvalox]

One of my freinds that I met at the mall, invited me to his girlfreinds birthday party (They were talking about it and I jokingly said "Why wasn't I invited?", and they called her and told me I was) Well I didn't know anyone there, but he got dumped at her party, and then got back together a week later. :roll:

[the_trinity_11]

lmao not bad :XD:

 

 

 

Well this is a free bump for my thread :| Nobody's replying.

[bacab]

My friend Sasha dumped her boyfriend on his birthday. She gave him a birthday card and "I'm breaking up with you" was written inside it. I gave her the idea to do that though. :-$

 

 

 

That's about as creative as I've gotten though. I haven't dated much, so yeah . . . I haven't had much room to be crafty. Some people just scare me outright . . . I was walking with my friend Ben and some fat chick was like "Ooh you guys are mad cute" so we just sorta jogged away. It's not what she looked liked or what she said that creeped me out, it was just the way she said it.

[No_OnE]

My friend got dumped by a girl the same day they started going out. Kind of funny actually. I couldn't believe he didn't notice that she only started going out with him to make her ex-boyfriend jealous. Long story short, she broke up with my friend via text message and started going back out with her ex...

[ctp080188]

I've never really done that to anyone. Closest I probablt got was when I found out some boy I'd been dating, had a girlfriend who he'd been dating for 2 years. I did some covert style browsing through my friend's phone and memorised her number. And yeah, called her up and told her her boyfriend was a cheat.

 

 

 

It all backfired however, he told her some story about how I wanted him so badly that I called her, and told her that. She believed him and preceded to send me threats of "knowing where you live, you sket". I laughed and told her she deserved him. Pfft.

[KCHughes]

I've seen teenagers that can be all over each other one day and broken up the next. Crazy teenagers. Worst 15 years of my life. :lol:

[Seahawk10490]

lol put her on the back of my motor cycle and pop a wheelie.

[No_OnE]

I've seen teenagers that can be all over each other one day and broken up the next. Crazy teenagers. Worst 15 years of my life. :lol:

 

I love my teen years so far. I'm 14 now. I'm not crazy over every girl I come across though. I think I'm decently smart about these things...

[Oy_the_Great]

I haven't got any fascinating or funny stories, just sad ones.

 

When I was 15 this girl from my class kept calling me and I didn't realise she was interested in being more than just good friends. I just found it great that a girl was one of my friends. So when she asked me if I wanted to date her, I was pretty shocked, my poor male heart just didn't understand.

 

One year later, another friend of me, commonly praised by all the boys for being the cutest girl in our school, asked me to be her boyfriend, but I just told my friends the same week I wouldn't want a girlfriend so that I could maintain my freedom and determine my own rules. So there I was: dilemma: date the most stunning girl who was pretty witty and smart too (a rare combination), or hold on to my vow. At the time I was pretty fond of my independance, so I politely said no. Afterwards I realised it was a bit of a dumb (why not give it a shot? no harm done..) decision, but I did enjoy my free teen years.

 

 

 

Here in uni, no girl has just promptly asked me to be her boyfriend, obviously, since adults aren't as straight forward anymore. I know I found it incredibly hard as well to ask a girl out, just because I thought it might ruin our friendship.

[insane]

Girls don't ask me out... but they do alot of weird things like drop email addresses on my lap and run away... or stalk me. Any ideas of how to get rid of stalkers are welcome.

 

 

 

Btw, when I say stalker - I mean someone that like follows me around campus after my classes until we part ways, and constantly tries to make eye contact with me but never actually says anything. Basically they're too intimidated by my incredibly awesome looks (:P) to talk so they just make things akward :|

 

 

 

 

 

I found it incredibly hard as well to ask a girl out, just because I thought it might ruin our friendship.

 

And that's where I'm at. If I knew things would be cool after there'd be no hesitation here.

 

 

 

 

 

As for my last relationship - I went to British Columbia for school (I'm from Ontario) for 3 months. Basically, as soon as I got there, I forgot about my girlfriend (had been dating for about 3 months prior). It was weird though - whenever I'd call her, basically her emotions would get transferred onto me. For example, if I was having an amazing day, and she was pissed off/sad, then I would become pissed off/sad and my day would suck from then on in. I don't know how/why it happened, but I ended it because of this. (fireworks ending :P)

[deloriagod]

I had one girl who asked me out 5 times.. I tried to stay polite but being a 13 year at the time I got rude the last time and made her cry. Back then I didn't care, but thinking about it now.. Well makes me feel kind of bad..

 

 

 

I asked a girl to homecoming this year and got a maybe. Then a few days ago I found out she was after some guy (and didn't bother to tell me she didn't want to go with me #-o )..

 

 

 

Now there's this girl I like.. I've known her for 3 weeks and we're getting along great. She invited me to her 16th birthday party ( her birthday is just a few days after mine) so I'm gonna go to that and keep hoping that she breaks up with her boyfriend before my male brain moves on to another girl..

[state_of_mind]

Girls don't ask me out... but they do alot of weird things like drop email addresses on my lap and run away... or stalk me. Any ideas of how to get rid of stalkers are welcome.

 

 

 

Btw, when I say stalker - I mean someone that like follows me around campus after my classes until we part ways, and constantly tries to make eye contact with me but never actually says anything. Basically they're too intimidated by my incredibly awesome looks (:P) to talk so they just make things akward :|

 

 

 

 

 

I found it incredibly hard as well to ask a girl out, just because I thought it might ruin our friendship.

 

And that's where I'm at. If I knew things would be cool after there'd be no hesitation here.

 

 

 

 

 

As for my last relationship - I went to British Columbia for school (I'm from Ontario) for 3 months. Basically, as soon as I got there, I forgot about my girlfriend (had been dating for about 3 months prior). It was weird though - whenever I'd call her, basically her emotions would get transferred onto me. For example, if I was having an amazing day, and she was pissed off/sad, then I would become pissed off/sad and my day would suck from then on in. I don't know how/why it happened, but I ended it because of this. (fireworks ending :P)

 

 

 

This is off topic but BC is the best place on Earth :thumbsup: I think McCabe is over-rated, and Kaberle is under-rated..

[mad4u689]

I started dating this guy last year while I was still completely not over my ex boyfriend. He'd helped me talk through my issues with my ex, and then we cuddled, etc. I went to him out of comfort; he was a great guy.

 

 

 

We got together three days before Valentine's Day.

 

 

 

The day before Valentine's Day (on the night of the big Valentine's Day party at school) I told him I didn't feel ready or comfortable and we broke up. He'd been about to give me a big handmade card. Then we had to go the party together and pretend nothing was wrong :P

 

 

 

I felt terrible, but it was the right decision, and he's happier now with a wonderful new girlfriend who is actually good for him. And we're still really good friends. So it worked out in the end... but was pretty terrible of me at the time :P

[Bubsa]

I've never broken up in a funny or harsh way, but I did a kinda Chandler Bing-esque thing to avoid hooking up with a girl.

 

 

 

She was all over me like a rash at some place and I said to her, instead of "Get away from me, you pig ugly drunk", that I couldn't stay, I was leaving. She said she'd walk me to the train station. So I tried to get rid of her when we arrived and she said "Aw, no I wanna wave you goodbye"...That was after I said I was going to Leeds (from Liverpool). So I had to buy the ticket...and off I went. >.<

 

 

 

Trust me, honesty is the best, and cheapest, policy!

[Nadril]

Here in uni, no girl has just promptly asked me to be her boyfriend, obviously, since adults aren't as straight forward anymore. I know I found it incredibly hard as well to ask a girl out, just because I thought it might ruin our friendship.

 

 

 

I hate that.

 

 

 

Back in my freshman/sophmore year I became very good friends with this one girl who rode my bus. (freshman mostly). We'd sit next to each other everyday, talk, all that fun stuff. However we had gotten to be such friends that I was afraid of asking her out over fear that I wouldn't have her as a friend at all. Plus, I was the general guy, freaking shy to even ask.

[state_of_mind]

Hey Nad, usually if they're that good friends with you, they don't want to go out with you. They say how they don't want to lose that friendship, and in turn will politely reject you. It's not the best feeling in the word, and afterwards, its really awkward when you're together. So if you really want to go out with her, don't be such close friends \

[Tigra00]

'Kay, looking back, this was very mean...:P...Well, a girl called me on a Saturday and asked me to go out with her...This was back in like 7th grade before I started my "never-single-for-more-than-a-week" streak from 7th to 10th grade. :P Anyways, she asked me out and I wanted NOTHING to do with her. I wasn't attracted to her, and we weren't even friends...Hell, all I knew was her name. That's it. So she asked me if I wanted to go out with her, and I responded "Why would you want to go out with me?" and her sister, who was apparently listening in on the other phone said "Because she likes you, dummy!"...No crap, I was trying to stall to make up a lie, 'kay? I couldn't think of anything, because at the time, this was the first time a girl had actually called my house, on a weekend no-less, and asked me a compeletly random question like that. So I told her I'd "think about it and talk to her on Monday". I bet she had high hopes, which is what makes me mean, because come Monday, I completely ignored her. She didn't approach me, thankfully, and I didn't approach her. We did make eye contact once and she smirked. I did not smirk back. I think that told her my answer, but I never got back to her... :-s

 

 

 

Oops.

 

 

 

I MEAN COME ON! I didn't even know her! At all! I knew her name was Rachel, and that was it! Didn't have a single class with her or nothin'.

 

 

 

What would you do! :notalk:

[state_of_mind]

'Kay, looking back, this was very mean...:P...Well, a girl called me on a Saturday and asked me to go out with her...This was back in like 7th grade before I started my "never-single-for-more-than-a-week" streak from 7th to 10th grade. :P Anyways, she asked me out and I wanted NOTHING to do with her. I wasn't attracted to her, and we weren't even friends...Hell, all I knew was her name. That's it. So she asked me if I wanted to go out with her, and I responded "Why would you want to go out with me?" and her sister, who was apparently listening in on the other phone said "Because she likes you, dummy!"...No crap, I was trying to stall to make up a lie, 'kay? I couldn't think of anything, because at the time, this was the first time a girl had actually called my house, on a weekend no-less, and asked me a compeletly random question like that. So I told her I'd "think about it and talk to her on Monday". I bet she had high hopes, which is what makes me mean, because come Monday, I completely ignored her. She didn't approach me, thankfully, and I didn't approach her. We did make eye contact once and she smirked. I did not smirk back. I think that told her my answer, but I never got back to her... :-s

 

 

 

Oops.

 

 

 

I MEAN COME ON! I didn't even know her! At all! I knew her name was Rachel, and that was it! Didn't have a single class with her or nothin'.

 

 

 

What would you do! :notalk:

 

 

 

Was she hot? Because if she was and I didn't know her, I'd still go out with her (don't call me shallow, cuz I'm not). After all, you can get to know her better that way, and what's to lose, you two don't sound like you're friends..so yeah I'd go for it. :-w

 

 

 

The scary thing is, how did she get your phone number..... :-s

[____]

Females don't ask me out. They may have the urge, but never act.

 

 

 

 

 

My first girlfield, she had been "crushing" on me for the better part of four months, and I knew about half way through the school year. I didn't do anything about it since I really didn't feel anything for her.

 

 

 

To cut it short, 3 months later, I gave her her birthday card with a concealed letter inside. I just handed it to her, said happy birthday and left. Took her 15 minutes to track me down, but she admited that everything I'd written was true. When she'd started to like me - in that way, etc. And that was it.

 

 

 

And the relationship just kind of fell apart. No one reall dumped the other. It was just a "this isn't working out is it?" ".... nah" situation.

 

 

 

 

 

Second girfield, also the same. Feelings were there - did nothing. Lucky for them I was already in love with them. Just distance and such never gave us an opportunity so I never said / did anything about it myself - no point trying on a lost cause, right?. But we got a break, I took my chance and we were together for a year. Then that too fell apart when we only started seeing each other once a month, less so around end of semester.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

@state_of_mind: friend of a friend, probably. That's happened to me before. Had people call my mobile out of nowhere asking to go clubbing or whatever. And I'm a bit "what the hell?" till they explain they know one of my mates from school.

[Tigra00]

'Kay, looking back, this was very mean...:P...Well, a girl called me on a Saturday and asked me to go out with her...This was back in like 7th grade before I started my "never-single-for-more-than-a-week" streak from 7th to 10th grade. :P Anyways, she asked me out and I wanted NOTHING to do with her. I wasn't attracted to her, and we weren't even friends...Hell, all I knew was her name. That's it. So she asked me if I wanted to go out with her, and I responded "Why would you want to go out with me?" and her sister, who was apparently listening in on the other phone said "Because she likes you, dummy!"...No crap, I was trying to stall to make up a lie, 'kay? I couldn't think of anything, because at the time, this was the first time a girl had actually called my house, on a weekend no-less, and asked me a compeletly random question like that. So I told her I'd "think about it and talk to her on Monday". I bet she had high hopes, which is what makes me mean, because come Monday, I completely ignored her. She didn't approach me, thankfully, and I didn't approach her. We did make eye contact once and she smirked. I did not smirk back. I think that told her my answer, but I never got back to her... :-s

 

 

 

Oops.

 

 

 

I MEAN COME ON! I didn't even know her! At all! I knew her name was Rachel, and that was it! Didn't have a single class with her or nothin'.

 

 

 

What would you do! :notalk:

 

 

 

Was she hot? Because if she was and I didn't know her, I'd still go out with her (don't call me shallow, cuz I'm not). After all, you can get to know her better that way, and what's to lose, you two don't sound like you're friends..so yeah I'd go for it. :-w

 

 

 

The scary thing is, how did she get your phone number..... :-s

 

 

 

As I said, "I wasn't attracted to her"...That's a nice way of saying she was ugly. I just didn't want to be mean twice in the same story....Crap. :lol:

 

 

 

Probably got my number from the phone book.

[Nadril]

Hey Nad, usually if they're that good friends with you, they don't want to go out with you. They say how they don't want to lose that friendship, and in turn will politely reject you. It's not the best feeling in the word, and afterwards, its really awkward when you're together. So if you really want to go out with her, don't be such close friends \

 

 

 

Yeah I figured that. Thing I don't like is I usualy want to get to actualy know someone first a little bit.

[state_of_mind]

'Kay, looking back, this was very mean...:P...Well, a girl called me on a Saturday and asked me to go out with her...This was back in like 7th grade before I started my "never-single-for-more-than-a-week" streak from 7th to 10th grade. :P Anyways, she asked me out and I wanted NOTHING to do with her. I wasn't attracted to her, and we weren't even friends...Hell, all I knew was her name. That's it. So she asked me if I wanted to go out with her, and I responded "Why would you want to go out with me?" and her sister, who was apparently listening in on the other phone said "Because she likes you, dummy!"...No crap, I was trying to stall to make up a lie, 'kay? I couldn't think of anything, because at the time, this was the first time a girl had actually called my house, on a weekend no-less, and asked me a compeletly random question like that. So I told her I'd "think about it and talk to her on Monday". I bet she had high hopes, which is what makes me mean, because come Monday, I completely ignored her. She didn't approach me, thankfully, and I didn't approach her. We did make eye contact once and she smirked. I did not smirk back. I think that told her my answer, but I never got back to her... :-s

 

 

 

Oops.

 

 

 

I MEAN COME ON! I didn't even know her! At all! I knew her name was Rachel, and that was it! Didn't have a single class with her or nothin'.

 

 

 

What would you do! :notalk:

 

 

 

Was she hot? Because if she was and I didn't know her, I'd still go out with her (don't call me shallow, cuz I'm not). After all, you can get to know her better that way, and what's to lose, you two don't sound like you're friends..so yeah I'd go for it. :-w

 

 

 

The scary thing is, how did she get your phone number..... :-s

 

 

 

As I said, "I wasn't attracted to her"...That's a nice way of saying she was ugly. I just didn't want to be mean twice in the same story....Crap. :lol:

 

 

 

Probably got my number from the phone book.

 

 

 

Lol, I'm so lost on the past few threads I've posted on. It's a bit late so yeah, that's maybe why. Well if she WAS hot, then would ya? Cuz I would but yeah I understand, no ugly girls pl0x. :ohnoes:

[Beamo26]

Lol some good stories here, I don't have any really funny ones, just a mean one...

 

 

 

When I was 13 I was going out with this girl, had been around 6 months then this new girl came and I fell for her quick, anyway I got my mate to ring my girlfriend and tell her that I wasn't interested in her anymore, him being the fool he is added that I was in love with the new girl, that didn't go down too well... We are good friends now though :P

[Tigra00]

Probably not. I've always been more into making friends with a girl, then dating her. It's gotten me the "I don't want to ruin our friendship, but I really do like you..." line several times, but I guess it's worth it. One girl that gave me that line for years has always had a crush on me but she's too scared to act upon it...I've stopped persuing her. She's probably the most gorgeous woman I know, except for my current girlfriend, of course! If I wasn't taken and she wanted to date, I would. She's awesomely awesome and good looking. Someone will be lucky with her someday, I just hope it isn't some loser. :P