I'd just play it cool: Me: Hey man haven't seen you round here before, nice level. Jmod: Thanks, by the way, I'm a jagex mod Me: Orly? That must be interesting, what quest do you have to do for that? Jmod:...err...it's an actual job, I help design Runescape Me: Orly? I've played that game before. Jmod:...Orly? Me:Yarly. What do you think of these [wagon] new updates jagex is making? I wish I could give them a piece of my mind! Jmod: Actually, we're trying out this new thing...etc, etc (he tells me his secrets) So basically I seduce him and then use reverse psychology to penetrate his shy outer shell.