Yes, and I agree with this. I don't think it's a problem that others see it as a problem, because that's their issue. Why should I care about some random person's opinion? You can call that being selfish or arrogant, but it's the mindset of most of the adult world. At least, in the company setting. Stretching a bit: Overall, people would benefit from thinking holistically for the society, but people do not operate that way. Not that I know much about game theory, but I know that this is pretty much law as far as human nature goes. I agree. You guys need to grow up. I mean everyone in the world is arrogant and a douchbag, and as members of society you have an obligation to succumb to norms and attempt to become elitists or self centered [puncture]s yourselves. Who knows, maybe one day you'll be the person in power to be able to give people [cabbage] (or not give a [cabbage] about anyone else) :). It's a dream everyone should aspire to fulfill. Modeling bad behavior is good, because it's a time tested methodology that guarantees society progresses in a more positive way. I disagree, being arrogant and a douchebag get you nowhere in life. I don't know where exactly in life a lot of you are but I can imagine that most of you are still somewhat sheltered in your life. I'm not try to make fun of anyone with this comment or offend anyone, but most of you haven't really experienced "life" and only really still have an idea of what the world is all about. Rudeness gets you nowhere in life and you'll learn this quickly once you're outside the comforts of your parents homes. The people you see succeed are those who worked hard and respect those around them. Those who choice to be arrogant and rude end up living miserably. Before I end up going off on some life lesson, I'm going to stop myself short, and hopefully someone takes away something positive from this. I'd rather someone be real with me than act happy happy joy joy to make the community look better. If someone wants to be rude then let them be rude, it's most likely just going to cause them to get looked down and if that's how they want things to be then who are we to stop them? Of course everyone wants someone to be real with them, but it's the way some people do it that is the problem. You can be real with someone and still be nice about it. If you give someone a negative, through in some words of encouragement to give them something to aim for. Don't beat a person down from the start and not let them get back up.