At first I thought "Maybe he's on to something...", then I read on. I am by no means a feminazi, but he comes off as having a low opinion on women's capability of interpreting and expressing their own emotions.Thankfully many of us are. Reading the replies to the OT, I can see he's on Tramadol, which explains a fair bit. Eye contact, mirroring, paying attention and a positive and empathetic mind are all traits that will attract the opposite - or same - sex. Combine it with a healthy portion of confidence and a wingman of the same gender that you are trying to attract, and you are guaranteed good results. Women are attracted by the same core things as mentioned above, but many, if not most, also have "no-go lists". (Mine includes racists, people who get violent and those whose lives revolve solely around material goods.) That means the opposite traits on those lists are things that in a way do attract us. These can be values in life, political views, material goods or details about looks. All of them easier to describe than the way someone looked at you or smiled at you, which is why it is more commonly listed. Also, thankfully most of the guys I know are attracted to other things than big [bleep] and a nice ass. This "article" seems over simplified and dumbs down both genders, but opiates do that. ;)