speedofsound Posted June 2, 2007 Share Posted June 2, 2007 I am sure that everyone has dealt with liars in their life, it's a real pain isn't it? I hate them and i hate lieing itself. I have some freinds who lie to me all the time and who i sometimes suspect don't even like me. Like today, my friend tells me we can go to the movies later. Later that day I find out that he went to the movies with a different friend and then had them sleep over with yet another friend! Earlier i had asked him if he was doing anything else or if anyone else was involved and he said no. This is very hurtful to me. This happens all the time though. I guess maybe he lied to not hurt my feelings? BACKFIRED! Maybe he just doesn't like me? I wouldn't be surprised. Most people don't like me and what is worse they don't even get to know me first. If I try and bring this up he will just walk away/hang up on me. He is very imature that way. The only reason i am still friends with him is because he was the only person who would actually give me a chance. I don't know why but i can't just not be his friend. It's hard. So what are your views on friends like these and lieing in general. You can't ever find a place that's nice and peaceful, because there isn't any. You may think there is, but once you get there, when you're not looking, somebody'll sneak up and write "(bleep) you" right under your nose. Try it sometime. I think, even, if I ever die, and they stick me in a cemetery, and I have a tombstone and all, it'll say "Holden Caulfield" on it, and then what year I was born and what year I died, and then right under that it'll say "(bleep) you." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Dark Lord Posted June 2, 2007 Share Posted June 2, 2007 Bribe him. SWAG Mayn U wanna be like me but U can't be me cuz U ain't got ma swagga on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
speedofsound Posted June 2, 2007 Author Share Posted June 2, 2007 Grow up. You can't ever find a place that's nice and peaceful, because there isn't any. You may think there is, but once you get there, when you're not looking, somebody'll sneak up and write "(bleep) you" right under your nose. Try it sometime. I think, even, if I ever die, and they stick me in a cemetery, and I have a tombstone and all, it'll say "Holden Caulfield" on it, and then what year I was born and what year I died, and then right under that it'll say "(bleep) you." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocketman089 Posted June 2, 2007 Share Posted June 2, 2007 Sounds like he'll do anything he can to avoid you :?. You can definatly do better than people like that. Gamertag: King Arizona Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
speedofsound Posted June 2, 2007 Author Share Posted June 2, 2007 But then he goes and talks with me at school and wants to bike with me afterwards! #-o You can't ever find a place that's nice and peaceful, because there isn't any. You may think there is, but once you get there, when you're not looking, somebody'll sneak up and write "(bleep) you" right under your nose. Try it sometime. I think, even, if I ever die, and they stick me in a cemetery, and I have a tombstone and all, it'll say "Holden Caulfield" on it, and then what year I was born and what year I died, and then right under that it'll say "(bleep) you." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Dark Lord Posted June 2, 2007 Share Posted June 2, 2007 Wow... That was a joke. lol If I had a friend like that, I would just dump them; however, in your case, I don't know what to tell you. SWAG Mayn U wanna be like me but U can't be me cuz U ain't got ma swagga on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
speedofsound Posted June 2, 2007 Author Share Posted June 2, 2007 If I dump them I'd be friendless. Not that I'm basicley am right now. You can't ever find a place that's nice and peaceful, because there isn't any. You may think there is, but once you get there, when you're not looking, somebody'll sneak up and write "(bleep) you" right under your nose. Try it sometime. I think, even, if I ever die, and they stick me in a cemetery, and I have a tombstone and all, it'll say "Holden Caulfield" on it, and then what year I was born and what year I died, and then right under that it'll say "(bleep) you." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dietokill2 Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 well same with my my friend do not lie but like no one likes me nobody never got to know me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StrOwez Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 Try making new friends by saying 'Hi' to people. A friend to all is a friend to none. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Dark Lord Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 Get into a sports program. It's an excellent way to build up friendships. Especially if the program is part of the school in which you attend. Also people that you finally get along with, just add them to MSN Messenger or AIM and talk to them and give them a chance. Are you a kind of shy/not outgoing person? I used to be that way and wouldn't talk to people even if they made a point of saying hi to me or sitting by me at lunch. I used to be a loner and would prefer being alone all the time and people would sit by me and try to be friendly. Then once I broke out of my shell, a lot more girls would talk to me and my friendships seemed to hit an all-time high. People always comment on me and I kind of seem to have a very good social status thanks to sports. True, it sucked when I couldn't help but turn down girls when they asked me out, but now I'm more open and friendly and expect very good relationships in the future. Haven't had a girlfriend since 4th/5th grade, and I'm about to be a Sophomore now. That's how bad I was and I even had a lot of chances to get into a relationship since then. Especially in the 7th grade. Oh well, you learn from mistakes and go through phases. But you have to wait anyways to get a decent, meaningful relationship anyways. Everything seems better now since I broke out of my shell a month ago. If that's kind of your case, then you're not alone. It's just a phase that everyone faces. SWAG Mayn U wanna be like me but U can't be me cuz U ain't got ma swagga on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lovelydude Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 Livejournal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
speedofsound Posted June 3, 2007 Author Share Posted June 3, 2007 I'm not shy! Noone has ever bothered to listen to me. You can't ever find a place that's nice and peaceful, because there isn't any. You may think there is, but once you get there, when you're not looking, somebody'll sneak up and write "(bleep) you" right under your nose. Try it sometime. I think, even, if I ever die, and they stick me in a cemetery, and I have a tombstone and all, it'll say "Holden Caulfield" on it, and then what year I was born and what year I died, and then right under that it'll say "(bleep) you." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Dark Lord Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 I'm not shy! Noone has ever bothered to listen to me. Some places are like that. People can just stereotype others for no reason and hate them. It happened to me once, then I just ended up moving and it was better at the other place and everyone was nice. If you don't think it will ever get better, is there another close-by place where your family can try to get you into or move? I know it's a big thing to ask of your parents, but you also want your final years in school to bring you fond memories. SWAG Mayn U wanna be like me but U can't be me cuz U ain't got ma swagga on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
speedofsound Posted June 3, 2007 Author Share Posted June 3, 2007 My familey is on the poorer side. There is no way. You can't ever find a place that's nice and peaceful, because there isn't any. You may think there is, but once you get there, when you're not looking, somebody'll sneak up and write "(bleep) you" right under your nose. Try it sometime. I think, even, if I ever die, and they stick me in a cemetery, and I have a tombstone and all, it'll say "Holden Caulfield" on it, and then what year I was born and what year I died, and then right under that it'll say "(bleep) you." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Dark Lord Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 That sucks. You never know, maybe things will get better. SWAG Mayn U wanna be like me but U can't be me cuz U ain't got ma swagga on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IGoddessI Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 I disown anyone but family who lies to me on a deep level. I am huge on trust. But something like that, I wouldn't read too much into it, he probably just didn't want to hurt your feelings. Lay low for a while and let him ask you out to the next event so it doesn't look like you're the clinggy friend type that needs to constantly be around him. The only people who tell you that you can't do something are those who have already given up on their own dreams so feel the need to discourage yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deloriagod Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 I am huge on trust. Same here. I keep a close group of friends (maybe 6 or 7 people) who I would trust with my life and soul (no joke) but I have plenty of other friends who are just that, friends. Imo, you need more friends. Get involved in after school activites/clubs or just talk to people in class. A lack of friends sucks. Internet Marketing For Newbies Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IGoddessI Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 If you live in the same state ill take you out and see a movie :P The only people who tell you that you can't do something are those who have already given up on their own dreams so feel the need to discourage yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QueenValerie Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 So what are your views on friends like these and lieing in general. Lieing in general is a pet peeve of mine. A little white lie I can deal with but truth be told I am a huge fan on trust. I have better things to do then sit around listening to lies upon lies. BTW: A true friend would never treat you this way you deserve better then that. Get out and meet new friends and dump the bum friend you have now. Seriously ask yourself do you really want friends that only lie/decieve you? Good Luck. :wink: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hellbellz Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 Ditch that kid and tell him to (screw) off. Don't hang out with people like that, if it just makes you angry or sad that he lies to you, don't talk to him. Maybe if he came out and told you he did, I'd say that's a different story. Try to get better friends, choose them wisely. I mean I have friends who are real jerks, I don't hang out with them anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
knives669 Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 There will always be people in your life that lie to you. You can't change that. But, you can change how you deal with them. It sounds to me as though your friend really doesn't want to hang out with you, and you definitely DO NOT need to put up with someone who hangs up/walks away from you. You deserve to be heard. He doesn't sound like very much of a "friend" to me. I know that it's hard, but sometimes you have to get rid of people in your life. Especially if they are having a negative effect on you. Whether they are a friend, or family member, you have to let them go because in reality you would be a lot better without them. If you don't want to lose this friend, then at least distance yourself from him and try to make more friends. I know from experience that you are a GREAT guy and you could easily make TONS of friends. ^_^ So, just get out there and talk to some people! Turn on the charm! I know you have it. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
justin_m23 Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 It seems that you maybe clinging onto the friendship you have with him a little too much, which is probably why he pushes you away like that. Just relax a little dude, its not like your married to him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Led-Zeppelin Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 I can't say I have really had that problem, I do chose my friends wisely. I'm the same as deloriagod, I have a small group of real good mates that I went through college with (high school). And then the rest are just friends. You should really get rid of your mate. Stay friends with him until you have a bunch of new friends, then you can set up movie times with him, then ditch him for someone else, revenge is a dish best served cold afterall. When I think of my mates I always think of this quote; A friend is always there to bail you out of jail, a true friend is sitting there right beside you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
How2PK Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 Take it easy on the Barrett and come back to the real world. Maybe you'll get in contact with more people then. Signature by Maurice SendakWhen the stars make you drool just like a pasta fazool, that's amore! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lovelydude Posted June 3, 2007 Share Posted June 3, 2007 A strange topic indeed. I have a close friend who lies, however only boastfully and never in a way that would hurt someone. I don't know why he lies, but it isn't particularly bad. When people lie and hurt others in the process, it gets bad. I think some people are just compelled to lie, but their lies are never very intentional. There will always be the kid who claims to have a million dollars in their own personal bank account. I've never really come across a true liar, so I don't really know how to respond. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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