Wait... who says that, the helper??

 

I wouldn't word it like that but yes, and it works wonders.

 

Not too sure about the way you worded it, but something too similar to that would just be pointless.

 

 

Basically, you're making it way to obvious why you're here, and do it in a rather...clumsy or akward way...

 

Not unless you're clumsy and awkward. It's all about having a strong frame and bringing them into your reality.

Wait... who says that, the helper??

 

I wouldn't word it like that but yes, and it works wonders.

 

Not too sure about the way you worded it, but something too similar to that would just be pointless.

 

 

Basically, you're making it way to obvious why you're here, and do it in a rather...clumsy or akward way...

 

Not unless you're clumsy and awkward. It's all about having a strong frame and bringing them into your reality.

 

 

"Wanna meet my friend?" means he's too shy to hit on you on his own.

"He's smart and funny and..." means he can't speak for himself, and that he's trying to sell himself to her.

"I think you could get along." means again that he can't speak for himself, and that he has no idea how to hit on girls.

"This guy over there would like to meet you." means he can't do it on his own.

 

 

Unless you supply some very specific wording, I can't tell you exactly what is/isn't good about it. But the idea in itself right now, presented the way it's presented, doesn't seem appealing.

You guys are cool, you should meet my friend x later, he y.

 

As I said it's all about framing. If you sound desperate and awkward they will pick up on that. If you frame it as you think they are cool people, and that they should meet another cool person then it will only work for you.

 

I've done it many times, and it's amazing how much of a difference your own reality makes.

You guys are cool, you should meet my friend x later, he y.

 

As I said it's all about framing. If you sound desperate and awkward they will pick up on that. If you frame it as you think they are cool people, and that they should meet another cool person then it will only work for you.

 

I've done it many times, and it's amazing how much of a difference your own reality makes.

 

I see what you mean now.

 

 

But wouldn't that require some big gap of time? Otherwise it's just plainly simple to see it was planned, y'know?

You guys are cool, you should meet my friend x later, he y.

 

As I said it's all about framing. If you sound desperate and awkward they will pick up on that. If you frame it as you think they are cool people, and that they should meet another cool person then it will only work for you.

 

I've done it many times, and it's amazing how much of a difference your own reality makes.

 

I see what you mean now.

 

 

But wouldn't that require some big gap of time? Otherwise it's just plainly simple to see it was planned, y'know?

 

 

Yeah. Someone goes in, starts a conversation. Having fun with the group, starts attracting a girl, tells the other girls they should meet his friend. Txts friend who walks past later on, 'notices them' and steps in 'oh hey were you guys just talking about..' 'Yeah the x, this is y by the way. He has a large penis.' etc

 

That last bit was a joke but I have said it before, depending on the scenario :P

Alright, seems like it should work.

 

 

Kind of too much effort, but if it works, who am I to judge?

Meh, it does take effort for the type of girls who get hit on a lot and rule out guys like bad wallpaper shades.

Most of the time, not as much as you'd think, honestly.

Years ago I got told to [bleep] off over and over again after barely opening my mouth before I learned how to open properly. The body language and social dynamics etc behind it.

Exactly, and on 99% of the cases, body language, along with some principles, is all it takes.

 

 

But again, if it works, there can't be anything too bad about it.

I consider myself a good wingman, although I prefer to take the lead (and have to) with most of my friends. I use the large penis thing a lot, because, [bleep] it, high school girls usually both go into a fit of giggling and become curious when you say that - even if it's just to find out if you're really just ever so funny.

 

A lot of my friends are too into having serious relationships, too, which makes having a wingman boring.

Lent, if only we lived relatively close, I'm looking for someone to lead the way.

How should I ask this girl out? Every other girl I've been with has asked me out, so not much experience on my part :3

How should I ask this girl out? Every other girl I've been with has asked me out, so not much experience on my part :3

 

 

"hey [name here], want to go [activity here] with me sometime? How's [insert date]?

 

 

Lent, I'm definiatly making it a point that sometime in my life i will visit Texas just to hang out with you for a day :lol:

How should I ask this girl out? Every other girl I've been with has asked me out, so not much experience on my part :3

 

 

"hey [name here], want to go [activity here] with me sometime? How's [insert date]?

 

 

Lent, I'm definiatly making it a point that sometime in my life i will visit Texas just to hang out with you for a day :lol:

 

I prefer the "You're going with me to so and so, on so and so."

How should I ask this girl out? Every other girl I've been with has asked me out, so not much experience on my part :3

 

 

"hey [name here], want to go [activity here] with me sometime? How's [insert date]?

 

 

Lent, I'm definiatly making it a point that sometime in my life i will visit Texas just to hang out with you for a day

 

I prefer the "You're going with me to so and so, on so and so."

 

I've never tried it with that amount of gall. Thought it sounded too presumptuous. But I guess if you already know the answer [which in some cases is true] it's called for.

How should I ask this girl out? Every other girl I've been with has asked me out, so not much experience on my part :3

 

http://forum.tip.it/index.php?app=blog&module=display&section=blog&blogid=191&showentry=781

 

ctr f > search asking her out

 

I vote we have a new acronym for this thread: sdb for search dans blog

cheers brah.

How should I ask this girl out? Every other girl I've been with has asked me out, so not much experience on my part :3

In my experience, just wait till you know she likes you, and you think she wants to go out with you, and just wait till you and her are together alone and just ask her. Straight up ask her. Unless that's not your play-style, because then I don't really know what to tell you :twss:

Crap...might have blown it with the new girl. I'll see if I can get her in a group of people tomorow night so I can re-open. The curse of the ex strikes again [being caught at a concert with her might not have been my best decision]. But...she seemed to have interest in me last week, no use thinking it can't be re-kindled a bit. I definiatly need my ex out of my life. Like. Now. before this crap gets over everyone's head.

Crap...might have blown it with the new girl. I'll see if I can get her in a group of people tomorow night so I can re-open. The curse of the ex strikes again [being caught at a concert with her might not have been my best decision]. But...she seemed to have interest in me last week, no use thinking it can't be re-kindled a bit. I definiatly need my ex out of my life. Like. Now. before this crap gets over everyone's head.

and stop [bleep]ing her for starters.

Crap...might have blown it with the new girl. I'll see if I can get her in a group of people tomorow night so I can re-open. The curse of the ex strikes again [being caught at a concert with her might not have been my best decision]. But...she seemed to have interest in me last week, no use thinking it can't be re-kindled a bit. I definiatly need my ex out of my life. Like. Now. before this crap gets over everyone's head.

and stop [bleep]ing her for starters.

 

 

I did :/

 

I told you she hardcore friendzoned me. Like dead serious this time. Which is different then the usual cycle. She's only done it like 4 times...the first three of which obviously didn't work out as "just friends". But this time's way different. like she doens't even look at me the same way anymore. It sucks, cause I definatly enjoyed the hooking up and fooling around...but maybe it'll be easier to let go of her this way? I hope so.

Crap...might have blown it with the new girl. I'll see if I can get her in a group of people tomorow night so I can re-open. The curse of the ex strikes again [being caught at a concert with her might not have been my best decision]. But...she seemed to have interest in me last week, no use thinking it can't be re-kindled a bit. I definiatly need my ex out of my life. Like. Now. before this crap gets over everyone's head.

and stop [bleep]ing her for starters.

She's a tool meant to be used at this point. A broken down, cheap 5-pence tool.

Crap...might have blown it with the new girl. I'll see if I can get her in a group of people tomorow night so I can re-open. The curse of the ex strikes again [being caught at a concert with her might not have been my best decision]. But...she seemed to have interest in me last week, no use thinking it can't be re-kindled a bit. I definiatly need my ex out of my life. Like. Now. before this crap gets over everyone's head.

and stop [bleep]ing her for starters.

She's a tool meant to be used at this point. A broken down, cheap 5-pence tool.

Yeah but how are women going to see that? seeing him (not physically mind you) screwing his abusive messed up cheating ex just for guilty pleasure. They'll think that they'll be used the same way.

Crap...might have blown it with the new girl. I'll see if I can get her in a group of people tomorow night so I can re-open. The curse of the ex strikes again [being caught at a concert with her might not have been my best decision]. But...she seemed to have interest in me last week, no use thinking it can't be re-kindled a bit. I definiatly need my ex out of my life. Like. Now. before this crap gets over everyone's head.

and stop [bleep]ing her for starters.

She's a tool meant to be used at this point. A broken down, cheap 5-pence tool.

Yeah but how are women going to see that? seeing him (not physically mind you) screwing his abusive messed up cheating ex just for guilty pleasure. They'll think that they'll be used the same way.

 

I don't think he's guilty for anything but being a bit masochistic. If anything, she abused him, and quite badly at that.

 

The only thing I could think of that would possibly repel women, is his "wish of death", as in, keep going there despite the scars and bruises.