Living together a lot of that time and no fights or anything.

Didn't you two start off as [bleep]-buddies though?

Nah that would have been a different girl, we were physical before we got together but never decided on being casual. I just went along to see how things worked out and she ended up being an amazing girl.

 

By the way if we don't hang soon I'm going to have to start cheating on you.

;___;

Sometime tomorrow? Doing a [bleep]-ton of housework today and trying to get over this heat-rash/sunburn thing that makes me face look like I'm shedding. |:

 

Oh, so when Tim goes to Brisbane you guys want to hang... But when Jeff comes Dan and Jimmy are too busy. Rude.

 

 

Hahaha :shades:

I live here though, and Dan NEVER replies until its too late, like right now and last year. Prob too busy with his GF. >.>

I never knew you were in my area Jeff :/

Hey it's only early Tim, I haven't even got pants on yet.

 

You have my number don't you?

Nope.avi.

 

I also sleep in on Sundays unless im working. :oops:

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Haha, I was only in Brisbane for a day, this was last year though.

I feel like Brisbane would be fun to visit. Also it seems to have the highest concentration of OT TIF users out of any major city

He totally flaked

Is it wrong that I've now got no interest in actual proper relationship with girls but just having them as a thing on the side.

 

It's not a lack of interest in girls but a lack of wanting to actually commit.

Everyone goes through a period of desire for purely physical relationships with no emotional strings attached, so no, it's not wrong.

 

Actually seeing someone.. might of talked about her on this thread before.. but yeah - spent some of yesterday evening with her, and as I left I told her that i wanted to get to know her better.. when I said that her face seemed to brighten up a lot, and she said "of course Sam". Wasn't trying TOO hard to be flirty, but I think I succeeded on that front (using a mix of cocky+funny).

 

Not sure how long I should continue this for - i've been told by close friends of hers that she likes me (and has for a while).

Is it wrong that I've now got no interest in actual proper relationship with girls but just having them as a thing on the side.

 

It's not a lack of interest in girls but a lack of wanting to actually commit.

Nope. It's basically what im going thru. I was sick and tired of committing (and them not committing) that now I just dont care for a relationship really, I just want what any other 20 year old wants: casual sex without people being [bleep]s about what I want. All my friends where the same, dont see why I cant be to be honest. :|

Is it wrong that I've now got no interest in actual proper relationship with girls but just having them as a thing on the side.

 

It's not a lack of interest in girls but a lack of wanting to actually commit.

 

I went through this last year. Perfectly normal

Ahh fair enough, thanks guys.

Double post as they are unrelated. Anybody like to offer an explanation to my scenario?

 

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I was in Turkey for the past week and there was this girl. On the first night we were climbing down some stairs and she grabbed me hand because she couldn't see. The next night we were again walking a long a dark path and she once again held my hand for about 10 minutes. Then Tuesday nothing happened but people began to talk about us and she left me alone embarrassed/shy I'm not sure. Then Wednesday night we were laying down holding hands and got off/got on/first base/kiss/whatever else I could call it and yeah. Thursday morning we were in the pool and she was all over me and then things changed. Thursday evening she wouldn't speak to me and I'm not sure why (On that Thursday evening I was told she likes me by this guy she spoke too but then her sister said otherwise which has left me lost.) This behaviour continued Friday and until Saturday in the airport/plane when we were speaking and then upon leaving she hugged me and kissed me and walked away. Then yesterday (Sunday) she kept talking to me on and off throughout the day.

 

My behaviour and attitude didn't change towards her at all in those days especially during the changes until I realised and just left her alone unsure of what to do.

 

She lives like an hour 1/2 away so it is unlikely it will lead to anything but i'm seeing on the 24th of September so I need to figure out by then what to sort of do.

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You have a lot better shot than I do, although thats not saying much because im the kind of crazy fool who believe in miracles.

 

The last paragraph maybe im reading wrong or makes no sense. Are you leaving on September 24th or are you seeing her? Makes a big difference depending on what is actually going on.

I like how 90 minutes is stopping you. But I guess that's what it's like to be pre-graduate. She sounds flaky. Just an opinion.

 

 

One of the girls i hook[ed] up with found out that I'd been hooking up with other girls. Apparently one of my friends told her for whatever reason and then she ran crying to my best friend who then calmed her down. I know I should care, but frankly I don't. Does that make me heartless? Probably. Should I feel bad about it? Maybe. Am I going to do anything about either question? Unlikely.

 

kinda makes me wonder why I even bothered bringing it up in the first place.

 

Guess it's just nice to hear my own voice every now and then. or post, rather.

Double post as they are unrelated. Anybody like to offer an explanation to my scenario?

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I was in Turkey for the past week and there was this girl. On the first night we were climbing down some stairs and she grabbed me hand because she couldn't see. The next night we were again walking a long a dark path and she once again held my hand for about 10 minutes. Then Tuesday nothing happened but people began to talk about us and she left me alone embarrassed/shy I'm not sure. Then Wednesday night we were laying down holding hands and got off/got on/first base/kiss/whatever else I could call it and yeah. Thursday morning we were in the pool and she was all over me and then things changed. Thursday evening she wouldn't speak to me and I'm not sure why (On that Thursday evening I was told she likes me by this guy she spoke too but then her sister said otherwise which has left me lost.) This behaviour continued Friday and until Saturday in the airport/plane when we were speaking and then upon leaving she hugged me and kissed me and walked away. Then yesterday (Sunday) she kept talking to me on and off throughout the day.

 

My behaviour and attitude didn't change towards her at all in those days especially during the changes until I realised and just left her alone unsure of what to do.

 

She lives like an hour 1/2 away so it is unlikely it will lead to anything but i'm seeing on the 24th of September so I need to figure out by then what to sort of do.

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Maybe she wants to take it slow.

 

RPG, you should explain yourself before they find out, so you get to make your case. Now she'll probably not let you say a word. You have to be aware that if you're not going to play by the rules people are used to, you have to give them a hint at least.

I like how 90 minutes is stopping you. But I guess that's what it's like to be pre-graduate. She sounds flaky. Just an opinion.

 

Being 17 transport is not the easiest or cheapest for me.

Double post as they are unrelated. Anybody like to offer an explanation to my scenario?

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I was in Turkey for the past week and there was this girl. On the first night we were climbing down some stairs and she grabbed me hand because she couldn't see. The next night we were again walking a long a dark path and she once again held my hand for about 10 minutes. Then Tuesday nothing happened but people began to talk about us and she left me alone embarrassed/shy I'm not sure. Then Wednesday night we were laying down holding hands and got off/got on/first base/kiss/whatever else I could call it and yeah. Thursday morning we were in the pool and she was all over me and then things changed. Thursday evening she wouldn't speak to me and I'm not sure why (On that Thursday evening I was told she likes me by this guy she spoke too but then her sister said otherwise which has left me lost.) This behaviour continued Friday and until Saturday in the airport/plane when we were speaking and then upon leaving she hugged me and kissed me and walked away. Then yesterday (Sunday) she kept talking to me on and off throughout the day.

 

My behaviour and attitude didn't change towards her at all in those days especially during the changes until I realised and just left her alone unsure of what to do.

 

She lives like an hour 1/2 away so it is unlikely it will lead to anything but i'm seeing on the 24th of September so I need to figure out by then what to sort of do.

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Maybe she wants to take it slow.

 

RPG, you should explain yourself before they find out, so you get to make your case. Now she'll probably not let you say a word. You have to be aware that if you're not going to play by the rules people are used to, you have to give them a hint at least.

 

I know that. Hell, I knew that. i just didn't really care. The whole situation is dumb on top of dumber.

 

@Omar/harrinator/istoIlethepie/whatever

At 17 you should have a job and be saving for a car. Bum ;)

Double post as they are unrelated. Anybody like to offer an explanation to my scenario?

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I was in Turkey for the past week and there was this girl. On the first night we were climbing down some stairs and she grabbed me hand because she couldn't see. The next night we were again walking a long a dark path and she once again held my hand for about 10 minutes. Then Tuesday nothing happened but people began to talk about us and she left me alone embarrassed/shy I'm not sure. Then Wednesday night we were laying down holding hands and got off/got on/first base/kiss/whatever else I could call it and yeah. Thursday morning we were in the pool and she was all over me and then things changed. Thursday evening she wouldn't speak to me and I'm not sure why (On that Thursday evening I was told she likes me by this guy she spoke too but then her sister said otherwise which has left me lost.) This behaviour continued Friday and until Saturday in the airport/plane when we were speaking and then upon leaving she hugged me and kissed me and walked away. Then yesterday (Sunday) she kept talking to me on and off throughout the day.

 

My behaviour and attitude didn't change towards her at all in those days especially during the changes until I realised and just left her alone unsure of what to do.

 

She lives like an hour 1/2 away so it is unlikely it will lead to anything but i'm seeing on the 24th of September so I need to figure out by then what to sort of do.

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Maybe she wants to take it slow.

 

RPG, you should explain yourself before they find out, so you get to make your case. Now she'll probably not let you say a word. You have to be aware that if you're not going to play by the rules people are used to, you have to give them a hint at least.

 

I know that. Hell, I knew that. i just didn't really care. The whole situation is dumb on top of dumber.

 

@Omar/harrinator/istoIlethepie/whatever

At 17 you should have a job and be saving for a car. Bum ;)

Some places require you to be 18 before going for your licence. Also, some of us aren't allowed to buy ourselves a car when making money. Just small things and the rest goes to our college funds.

17 in the UK I can drive anywhere just the £4000 insurance fees are a bit of a problem.

17 in the UK I can drive anywhere just the £4000 insurance fees are a bit of a problem.

 

 

:ohnoes: :ohnoes: At the insurance cost.

EDIT: STUPID QUESTION DELETED

 

I have a lot of soul searching to do right now and asking stupid questions I already know the answer to will get me nowhere.

Rpg, I've found that if you have a social/party lifestyle then girls will tend to expect you to be seeing multiple girls and will be ok with it. (framing, etc) That and make sure you tell stories suggesting it but not bragging about it.

Rpg, I've found that if you have a social/party lifestyle then girls will tend to expect you to be seeing multiple girls and will be ok with it. (framing, etc) That and make sure you tell stories suggesting it but not bragging about it.

 

I do, she's just not okay with it. Part of why I don't give a rats ass if she's mad at me

Girl A:

 

She won't stop texting me now. "I wish we had spent more time together, I really enjoyed it." Is there a best way of agreeing but sounding distant so she doesn't get all scared off again because I think the constant teasing she got because of us being together may have sent her running and now there isn't she's all fine and dandy again.

 

 

Girl B

 

Also, how do you divert a conversation when she asks for advice regarding creepy exs? I'm trying to steer clear of being dumped into a friend zone while there is a possibility of something occurring between the two of us.