-Drummer- Posted January 25, 2006 Share Posted January 25, 2006 This chick 2 years younger then me is hitting on me but shes so hot, but I don't wanna date someone 2 years younger (I know her irl btw shes in my school, im in grade 11 shes grade 9) i dunno how to tell her i dont wanna go out with someone 2 years younger cause it would be weird. I like c hicks my age, or older and maby someone 1 year younger max. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jak722 Posted January 25, 2006 Share Posted January 25, 2006 You live in canada right, and im guessing if ur 3-2 years older than her too. If you "do something" *wink wink* with her, that would be sexual abuse... I think anyway... I forgot what my law teacher said... :( The Enrichment Center reminds you that the weighted companion cube will never threaten to stab you and, in fact, cannot speak. In the event that the weighted companion cube does speak, the Enrichment Center urges you to disregard its advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lionheart_0 Posted January 25, 2006 Share Posted January 25, 2006 You live in canada right, and im guessing if ur 3-2 years older than her too. If you "do something" *wink wink* with her, that would be sexual abuse... I think anyway... I forgot what my law teacher said... :( No its not. 14 is the age of consent. It used to be 16+, but it was changed (i think) to 14, so now 14 and on can do it without getting anyone in trouble. BTW, its not called sexual abuse, but satchatory rape. Sig by IkuraiYour Guide to Posting! Behave or I will send my Moose mounted Beaver launchers at you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jak722 Posted January 25, 2006 Share Posted January 25, 2006 Well its been a year since we talked about it. :lol: The Enrichment Center reminds you that the weighted companion cube will never threaten to stab you and, in fact, cannot speak. In the event that the weighted companion cube does speak, the Enrichment Center urges you to disregard its advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faux Posted January 25, 2006 Share Posted January 25, 2006 So what do you want us to say? :: Guess the Movie Contest Champion: pfilc23 :: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
apinagez Posted January 25, 2006 Share Posted January 25, 2006 So what do you want us to say? GO FOR THE FRESH MEAT!!!111ONE nah, joking :P I suppose he wants a way to tell her he wants nothing with someone so young without hurting her feelings :wink: It's a tough situation man, specially considering she may be really immature and get really upset if aren't very careful when telling her that. Can't figure out a way, gonna think of something though.. ^The most disturbing signature on Tip.it^Last.fm|HELLY KAYLA!|Oh the mehagurtz!|#Siencemakers"they care less about their spelling mistakes then I." - Lionheart"apinagez... let me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faux Posted January 25, 2006 Share Posted January 25, 2006 Rofl? What's so hard about saying, 'Hey, I appreciate it, but I don't think it can work between us' ? :: Guess the Movie Contest Champion: pfilc23 :: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scruffy5389 Posted January 25, 2006 Share Posted January 25, 2006 11th graders shouldn't fool around with 9th graders. Tell her you like her and respect her and all that, but you don't think it's right for older guys to go out with younger girls. I don't think there's much point in coming up with some other excuse. You'd just confuse the issue or hurt her feelings or something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zonorhc Posted January 25, 2006 Share Posted January 25, 2006 Do you LIKE her? It's not about whether you "don't like" going out with younger girls because you think it would be "weird". It's about whether you actually like the girl or not for some reason that's more quantifiable than "she's so hot". There's a lot more to relationships than sex. If you really like her, it doesn't actually matter whether you get to use your trouser titan. Loving the girl goes a lot deeper than your one-eyed monster ever could. Furthermore, what's "weird" about it? By the time you're 25, you wouldn't care if you were dating a 27-year-old or a 20-year-old. The age is primarily a superficial factor, disregarding your local laws about statutory rape and legal ages of consent. So to reiterate: If you like her, go for it, you might get somewhere that actually matters more than just being in bed with her. If you don't, tough. Tell her no. If you don't like her, just tell her that. It'll save her a lot of long-term stress, believe me. Varrock Library: Shattered Sky | Silent Thunder | The Emperor's FinestAstri @ MythWeavers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faux Posted January 25, 2006 Share Posted January 25, 2006 Do you LIKE her? It's not about whether you "don't like" going out with younger girls because you think it would be "weird". It's about whether you actually like the girl or not for some reason that's more quantifiable than "she's so hot". There's a lot more to relationships than sex. If you really like her, it doesn't actually matter whether you get to use your trouser titan. Loving the girl goes a lot deeper than your one-eyed monster ever could. Furthermore, what's "weird" about it? By the time you're 25, you wouldn't care if you were dating a 27-year-old or a 20-year-old. The age is primarily a superficial factor, disregarding your local laws about statutory * and legal ages of consent. So to reiterate: If you like her, go for it, you might get somewhere that actually matters more than just being in bed with her. If you don't, tough. Tell her no. If you don't like her, just tell her that. It'll save her a lot of long-term stress, believe me. Hey, more reading, less typing. One, he didn't mention having sex with the niner at all. He already said it himself that he doesn't want to go out with this niner so he's asking how to properly reject her. ~ I'm almost in the same dilemma though. There's a cute niner in my TA, though the difference is, I'm only a sophomore and I already have a gf. :: Guess the Movie Contest Champion: pfilc23 :: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lionheart_0 Posted January 25, 2006 Share Posted January 25, 2006 Do you LIKE her? It's not about whether you "don't like" going out with younger girls because you think it would be "weird". It's about whether you actually like the girl or not for some reason that's more quantifiable than "she's so hot". There's a lot more to relationships than sex. If you really like her, it doesn't actually matter whether you get to use your trouser titan. Loving the girl goes a lot deeper than your one-eyed monster ever could. Furthermore, what's "weird" about it? By the time you're 25, you wouldn't care if you were dating a 27-year-old or a 20-year-old. The age is primarily a superficial factor, disregarding your local laws about statutory * and legal ages of consent. So to reiterate: If you like her, go for it, you might get somewhere that actually matters more than just being in bed with her. If you don't, tough. Tell her no. If you don't like her, just tell her that. It'll save her a lot of long-term stress, believe me. Hey, more reading, less typing. One, he didn't mention having sex with the niner at all. He already said it himself that he doesn't want to go out with this niner so he's asking how to properly reject her. ~ I'm almost in the same dilemma though. There's a cute niner in my TA, though the difference is, I'm only a sophomore and I already have a gf. If you already got aG/F, there shouldnt be a dilemma. Just say im not interested, and go on. Ps. whats with the recent amount of girls wanting guys latly? I start going out with a girl and all of a sudden everyone else is having g/f problems? Sig by IkuraiYour Guide to Posting! Behave or I will send my Moose mounted Beaver launchers at you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faux Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 If you already got aG/F, there shouldnt be a dilemma. Just say im not interested, and go on. I said almost. Besides, lust, hormones, and short skirts don't go together. :: Guess the Movie Contest Champion: pfilc23 :: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Astralinre Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 If you already got aG/F, there shouldnt be a dilemma. Just say im not interested, and go on. I said almost. Besides, lust, hormones, and short skirts don't go together. Actually, I'd say the three mix quite easily. It's just that the product of that mixture is nothing but bad for the people involved. To the TS: Just tell her you're not interested. It's not that hard. Oh, if you try to comfort her, saying things like, "Well, you're a wonderful girl, but you're just not for me," be prepared for her to get offended. She may not, but I've known plenty of girls who would see that as being patronized and get mad. "In so far as I am Man I am the chief of creatures. In so far as I am a man I am the chief of sinners." - G.K. Chesterton Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Smavey Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Now here is the answer to the question: The Formula Now this is a special formula. Lets do it and find out the results. The Formula. (Her age -7) x2 = creepy limit. Now she's in grade 9 so i'm guessing she's 14 years old. (14 -7) x2 = 7 x 2 = 14 Therefore she should only date someone that's 14 years old, so yep that would be creepy. If she were 15 (which is a good probablilty that she will turn 15 in the next couple of months, she could date someone that's 16 and it woulden't be creepy. So if you're still 16 and she's 15 then go for it. But in reality age shoulden't matter, if you find her attractive go for it it's not that bad. Ive got friends who are 17 and are dating 24 year old guys (creepy age for 17 is 20) :shock: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
knives669 Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 My boyfriend is two years older than I am, but we get along just fine. Don't go by her age. Go by whether or not you truly like her, and would like spending time with her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devilsdragon Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 just say you don't date freshmen.. she'll understand ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zonorhc Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Hey, more reading, less typing. One, he didn't mention having sex with the niner at all. He already said it himself that he doesn't want to go out with this niner so he's asking how to properly reject her. ~ I'm almost in the same dilemma though. There's a cute niner in my TA, though the difference is, I'm only a sophomore and I already have a gf. For the record, I made the comment about sex in response to someone else who made mention of laws regarding statutory rape, thus implying that some people on this thread had already started thinking about sex at that point. Varrock Library: Shattered Sky | Silent Thunder | The Emperor's FinestAstri @ MythWeavers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Althalus Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Here's a test: If you can sit down with her and talk about doing the horizontal tango safely (you know protection, safety words if you're into that kind of thing). Then you're both ready to go for it. I find if you're not mature enough to talk about sex, then you're not ready. Personally the age thing doesn't really bother me. Oh and by the way, I'm saving it for marriage, no joke. Not for relgious reasons just a choice I've made over the past couple of years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocketman089 Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Here's a test: If you can sit down with her and talk about doing the horizontal tango safely (you know protection, safety words if you're into that kind of thing). Seriously, that's not the way it works. You'll look like a total doofus if you sit down with her and discuss condom use and making sure it's as safe and sanitary as possible. Anyway, as for you problem, it's usually easy enough for someone to take a subtle hint that you're not interested. Gamertag: King Arizona Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MyPurpleCrayon Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 11th graders shouldn't fool around with 9th graders. Yeah.... We look down on kids like that. We see a bunch of d-bag Juniors dating Freshman girls just to get into their pants. :roll: Kinda makes us think... "Eh?". Ghost: I am prejudice towards ignorance, so that would explain why I appear to be so. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattycake Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 yea ive had that same problem wiht my chick freinds little sister. she even told her freinds she got wiht me when we were drunk together but im positive i didnt. best thing to do is just say u wouldnt feel right and then ask her if she would go out wiht sombody 2 years younger. or ya could do the dogs act= if theres grass near the wickets its time to play cricket :wink: :twisted: :evil: :twisted: el patto Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destinynight Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 3 Words, I Am Gay :lol: Desti is Back (H) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crimsonking Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 If you like her then it shouldn't matter if shes 2 years younger than you, I know plenty of people who love each other that are more than 2 years apart in age and they don't have any problems. But if you don't like her you should tell her so, just don't be rude about it, it may hurt her but it would be better for her in the end. ~^v^~Ex-Leader of the Divine Flames of Redemption~^v^~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murdermoose Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 Personally I say go for her man, if she was gutsy enough to flirt with you then you atleast got to give her props for that. I've been in the same boat before and I'm in grade 10, I actaully did it though, big mistake on my part. She was a little immature if you know what I mean. She was grade 8 though(wrong I know), I promised myself I would never do it again...then I found some other grade 8 chick, so much hotter, but I controlled myself and I'm glad. I think it's just that younger chicks are easier to approach for some reason. Anyways, there's a chick in my science class who's 15 and going out with some guy who's 18, and they've been going out off and on for over a year or something like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dark_ice Posted January 26, 2006 Share Posted January 26, 2006 I'm in 11th, my girlfriend is in 9th. We've been dating for almost 9 great, very fun months. The age difference doesn't bother us or anyone that either of us know. Heck, my dad was a Freshman in college when he first met my mom, as a Freshman in highschool :lol: The only thing that matters in relationships is if ya'll really get along, and enjoy the company of one another :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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