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Not really sure what your point is >_> Yeah... unfortunately there's a lot of people around here who will: 1. ask for advice 2. completely agree with the advice given 3. never act on the advice given 4. repeat 1-3

...so what's that other girl you were hanging out with up to? :lol:

No need to go all after-school-special on everyone, RPG :P

If you're actually going to dump her (which would be wise if you value your long-term happiness), you should consider the following "exit strategy": 1) Be prepared to cut off all contact with her for at least a week, immediately upon breaking up with her. This means making sure that none of her belongings are at your place or anything; in other words, make sure she has no "excuse" to visit you 2) Break up with her in person, in a place where you can easily dismiss yourself when you're ready (such as her home); the worst place to do this would probably be in a moving car :P You can give her an explanation if you want. She's probably going to cry/scream/bargain/threaten/etc. Just let her vent and then when you've had enough, bail. Don't sit around and try to reason with her-- at least not right now. 3) When you're no longer in her presence, ignore all texts/calls/voicemails/etc from her for at least a week. Don't even read them or listen to them. 4) A week later, things will be less intense and then you can consider reinitiating contact with her. Just keep in mind she's probably going to try and get back together with you or chew you out. If she starts freaking out, then once again cut off contact and ignore her for another week. Also, keep in mind there's a good chance you won't be able to remain friends after this. At least not for a very long time.

Dump her

Depends on a lot of variables... how much you slept before lifting; what you ate before exercising; how motivated you are while exercising; how much you've recovered since you last exercised; etc.

In the US, a college education is a waste of time and money unless your career of choice absolutely requires a degree (e.g. Lawyer, Engineer, Doctor, etc.)

I probably should've mentioned that I value AFK-ness over XP :P

Stay in the red circle till you're 85 rc. Move to the blue circle and stay on those two platforms till 90 rc. At 90 rc, stay on the two platforms to the east of the blue circle-- the one w/ two soul wraiths and the one with a soul wraith + law hound.

Currently reading: Getting Everything You Can Out of All You've Got by Jay Abraham

Yeah. I'm sure most kids would want a father figure, but wouldn't necessarily want me to be that father figure... at least not while I'm dating their mom >_> But like you said, it depends.

I've sent messages to girls with kids... like I said, they're hot >_> If I were to get into a serious relationship (regardless of poly or mono) with a mom, I wouldn't try to "parent" her kids. Sure I'd be there and play with them if she wanted me to, but I'd let her have 100% of the power over the kids and make all the decisions, even if I disagree with them. I doubt her kids would appreciate me acting like their father.

:-w http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rmCpOKtN8ME

Just did a 71.7lb (32.5kg) weighted wide-grip pull-up. LIKE A BAWS. EDIT: and 8 reps of 40lb (18.1kg) wide-grips :P

No. Nex is supposed to be lvl 80, Glacor boots 85

Well that's nice to hear, I guess. Never cared much for stokenut. He was a sore loser when I dueled him >_>

My bad, Chad-- it'd technically be a chin-up since I had palms facing me.

You should run in these shoes :D

Just did a 73.7lb (33.4kg) weighted pull-up :) Edit: Just did 82.3lbs (37.3kg) :)

I'm relatively sure that the hottest girls on the dating sites have children. It's like some crazy Darwin shit or something.

In other news, earlier this week I successfully scheduled a date with one of the girls I'd met online. We then added each other on FB. Much to my dismay, she turns out to be much heavier than her online dating profile pictures suggested >_> I decided I was going to go through with the date anyways because I'd be letting myself down (in terms of accountability and integrity) if I lied to her and flaked. So fast forward to tonight, I message her on FB to confirm our date tomorrow. Her response: "lol I was hoping you forgot" :mellow: Overwhelmed by the comical irony in the heat of the moment, I reply, "Well I guess that makes two of us!" "Whoops..." I say to myself, and then add, "well don't worry about it, we don't have to go out if you don't want to" Her: "No it's ok" Me: (getting annoyed) "No really, don't worry about it-- I need to be in [another city] tomorrow night anyways." (which is true, at least.) Her: oh ok. ...and that's that. Waste of time and money awkwardly avoided >_> Online dating ftw!

Then go for it :P lol

In a nutshell, I believe you should only spend time with her doing things you'll both enjoy. Don't try and get her to do things with you that will likely make her bored or uncomfortable, and don't allow yourself to do things that you don't want to do just because she wants you to do it.

Currently reading: Being a Better Baseball Batter by Barry Bonds

My advice doesnt really apply to you anymore, Noxx :P it would benefit you at the cost of your mono pursuits (I disagree about what you said about the small sacrifices)