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Ok let's see back in the high school years (before grades in year 12 even mattered)... I had purple hair with bright pink streaks. I drew on desks in permanent marker. I had 2 punch ups with other girls in my time. I smoked on school grounds. I ditched school almost 50% of the time. I made my business teacher quit. Burnt a giant hole in the science table... God bless magnesium strips :twisted: Hid in the science cupboard for a whole lesson because it seemed like a good thing to do at the time. Got put on a week of detention. Got put on an attendance sheet that had to be signed by every teacher to make sure I was going to class. Then graduated year 12 in the top 15% of QLD :XD: I turned out alright in the end!! kind of :lol: :lol:

yeah back then you looked shy :P

beautiful hair sue, I gotta straighten mine to get it like that! Here are a couple of pics that really bring out my bizarre eye colours that forever keep changing. Don't worry about the hair colours, they're never really the same for any longer than a month lol Anyway you get the hint, MY EYES WON'T STOP CHANGING COLOURS!!

Sumpta is right, old dogs don't learn new tricks, they repeat the same ones. I'm going to find someone else. I'm going to have a girls night out. I was going to see Rick but I'm too poor :( The girls have offered to pick me up and cheer me up... Gotta love them.

Get her to see a doctor, go on the pill and wear a condom.

Hey leave being bisexual out of this :P

Just because you suffered when you were younger doesn't mean it's right for you to make others suffer and gain pleasure from doing so. It was not your fault. You can forgive yourself for something that you had no control over, or you can turn in to a bitter sow and rob yourself from the life you deserve and continue with the depressing, cynical posts.

wolf whistle for sumpta =D> :-w

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So are you interested in other peopleÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢s opinions too, or did you just create this because you always like to be heard?

Yes SWAT followed standard procedure. The point I did make though was that the children can be traumatised, regardless of your grand theory. You're better off trying to tell a pilot how to fly a plane. You're incorrect and I will certainly bring it to your hubris attention, especially when it comes to children's well-being.

HAHAHA..... All I remember is this movie I can't remember the name of right now where they want children so are given these two dolls. The priest guy turns them right up to really annoying and they start, crying, throwing up, [cabbage]ting and pissing everywhere. The guy ends up head butting it and the other ones head comes off :XD:

I went to the doctors to get my brother's test results back. He has polychondritis again, it's come back :cry: last time it nearly killed him within 3 weeks :cry: He's been given steroids to fight it off but I'm really scared. He was the 2nd youngest person (in Australia) to be diagnosed with it. Last time it nearly made him blind and almost shut his heart down. He was in a wheel chair for months and had to re-learn how to walk again with a walking frame. It destroyed all of his limbs and now can't do simple things like use a knife and fork properly. http://www.polychondritis.com/

Wow Americas tactics haven't changed a bit. It's not like they haven't already done the exact same thing to Russia or even the Timor Lestes :roll:

DÃÆÃâÃâéjÃÆÃâÃâàvu anyone?

There is more to the story than what's being said. HELLO people, I can't believe you missed the key words "social services". Social services don't really get involved unless police or medical staff question whether the kids are domestic violence victims at home. The fact that he had such a bad head injury and the parents aren't willing to seek the best advice sounds fishy. It's suspicious like proper examination while the bruising is still fresh could tell them if it was a fall or he had been struck with an object. Her story about the fall sounds made up. It's very lengthy and descriptive, just as people unconsciously do when they're lying and trying too hard to show that it's not a lie. To the trained eye, this is an alarm bell. On the other hand a SWAT team was not [bleep]ing necessary. Sure, an officer at the door with a warrant "Excuse me mam I'm sorry if we offend you but we've been informed we need to take your son for proper examination" while reading her rights, would be called for. A SWAT TEAM THOUGH!???? Even if the parents are violent brutes, it's going to damage a kid psychologically that they were jumped on by scary men in masks, screamed at with weapons to their faces. If I were them, I would take my child to a psychologist, get a report, file a law suit claiming distress. The question remains though whether they're child abusers or just not very smart parents. SWAT don't need rights, they get ordered by the magistrates. Any police officer who laid a finger on the children would be held accountable to read their rights. When SWAT is involved, you're not entitled to a phone call. I believe because the girl was young, telling her it's only in movies is his way of making it easier for her to understand that she couldn't do it. I think the mother has blown it out of proportion or the media, however SWAT, really wasn't necessary. Poor parenting and poor justice. LetÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢s get this straight trying to put you in a 7 year old boyÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢s position. So youÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢re watching Bob the builder in your safe home when all of a sudden a bunch of scary people in black masks and suits come smashing through your safe environment. You have no idea who they are; youÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢re first thought is theyÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢re probably robbers or burglars. There is a high chance the 7 year old doesnÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢t know about what SWAT means yet alone what they look like. Then the scary robbers in masks start to scream at you and order you to do things. A 7 year old mind is not trained to listen and respond to orders under such immense pressure. A 7 year old mind is not trained to control his bladder either once he soils himself from fear with a gun pointed to his face. Are these bad people trying to kill me? as you start to either scream or cry from the pressure. As you struggle in fear to break free from the robbers grip and cry for your mummy, the men in suits become angrier and more forceful. You lay on the floor, bound, soiled, in a helpless mess. Does post traumatic stress mean anything to you, hero of the day??

lol it's only been 24 hours and he turned up to my house at 7am this morning to apologise with flowers and he even bought me breakfast in bed (mc donalds). I told him when he's ready to open up to me and talk to me about things I'll be here but I can't guarantee it will be for as long as he wants. He reckons he's going to try his hardest to prove it to me, so we'll see. Until I see an improvement I'm not going back there. Even if he does improve, he can wait a good 2 or 3 weeks at least to give him a good scare that I'm not joking around this time, I mean it.

That's a pretty hard thing to admit, I applause you for that.

I do have regrets. I'm too proud to let myself admit them though. My mind blocks out anything instantly that I don't want to remember.

Don't say that babe I'm not better than you or more of a person than you. No one can say truly how an individual feels and I'm sure we felt equally as hurt. It's a good thing you've become a better person, what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.

It's too painful mate. You don't know how hard it is for someone to tell you they're angry or upset and never tell you why or what you can do to help them. That they've smashed their phone against a brick wall and won't tell you who has hurt their feelings. When he says things are wrong at home and won't tell you what is happening there, or who has said what, or done anything. When you sit there and tell him how you feel about everything and he turns around and always says "I don't know what to say" or if I ask him how he feels about something "I don't know" He lies all the time to protect other people from getting hurt but doesn't see he actually hurts them more by lying than telling the truth. It's too painful to continue. He used to let me in a tiny bit but now it's nothing. I have never hurt him in any way and I don't know why he won't talk to me. He won't talk to anyone :( He says he will try and it just takes time. I've given him 4 years to try but he hasn't even attempted. I know it is hard but it's been so long and have seen 0 effort. I do love him with everything I have but sometimes when you love someone the best thing to do is to let them go. If they love you too, they'll come back to you. This I know... I got rid of someone very dear to me and I regretted it. I searched the world for 5 years but I still found him in Florida.

Hey take a step back guys. It seems to me that 5 years old is the median age range. I apologise if majority of tip.it wasn't as clever as you at the age of 5. However, how about showing your maturity in years now by not starting a ridiculous debate over what age you learnt to tie your shoe? Seriously. This isn't a debate about being a goody goody or who went to jail. This is a discussion about how old you were when you tied your shoes. We're not 5 years old anymore, put your differences aside. Act your age or go try to show whose boss by taking over your local jungle gym :shame:

"Hey baby... Wan't to 'tie my shoes'? *raises eyebrows suggestively*" :XD: That probably would work on me.... I love funny guys who are different.

Yeah I know I have to let go because when 1 thing starts another takes its place. (Has unforunately been in an abusive relationship when I was younger). It's very easy to admire someone so much that you refuse to see their faults for a very long time and tolerate it when you shouldn't. I know that the yelling turns to being put down, which turns in to name calling, which turns in to control, which turns in to forcing, which turns in to pushing, which turns in to shoving, which turns in to punching and hitting and unfortunately sometimes even death. Been there done that. I know this relationship is always going to be filled with 0 emotion and him being completely selfish of his own needs before doing things together as a team. He will always shut down when it comes to talking about his feelings and what's going on and unfortunately if he wants to miss the best thing that's ever come in to his life and would be there no matter what, that's his loss. I'd never do anything to hurt him, I wanted to marry him and have his children. He missed out on that because he was too afraid to let someone in to his life again. He'll probably regret it for the rest of his life when he realises it. I know there is always someone better, it's just hard. I will need to talk about it for a while before any healing can take place. I'll get up and get over it, I might be a softy in the heart but I'm a tough [bleep] in the mind :) I don't let anything get me down for longer than it has to. I'll just keep myself busy for a while with exercise, friends and chasing the job I'm after at the moment. I'm going for a job at the juvenile detention centre; I'm going to attempt to help kids make the right choice, before they end up ruining their lives or even going to jail. Attempt to heal their negativity on the inside and give them hope and the praise they're not receiving at home with their family. That there are people who won't give up on them. I'll have to tell you how my interview goes with the managers :) I can't have kids so this is my way of dealing with it. Those kids in the juvenile centre will be the kids I care about and try to raise positively back in to the community.

When I was about 4 or 5. I had a brand new pair of white boots with frilly laces and mum tried to teach me and I couldn't get it after 3 go's so she got angry and walked off. Then I was by myself and I did both of them perfectly and I yelled out to her to come watch me but she didn't care lol stupid cow :lol: