Do you think you're some sort of counsellor now? Aren't you 16 and in one of your first relationships? Do you think you're an expert? Why do you bring it up on threads where it is completely irrelevant? Why not come back when your relationship has lasted more than a couple of months and then preach about relationship success. There are plenty of us who are 20+, have been in our relationships for many years, have a little bit of life experience outside of school and don't purport to be experts on the subject. I know you're exited about young romance but tone it down, you are looking pompous without good cause. wait, arent you the guy who told me that people on this forum need to lighten up more? he was joking you fool