June 26, 200719 yr like is said in tittle my grandmother is in hospital now. she got the desease of altzheimer( dutch word don't know that in english) i really like her. i'm crying while i am writing this text i don't know what to do. doctor says she got 1-2 months to live but that she can die anyday i'm so sad :cry: :cry: :cry:
June 26, 200719 yr Alzheimer's is a really awful disease to have, strips you of all your dignity and awareness. Truly, my deepest condolences, if there's no chance of her recovering I hope she passes from this world in a comfortable and dignified manner, and in a way such that you and your family can recover. At least she had a shot at life, and by the sounds of it lead a good one as well. Be positive, as hard as it is, it's what she'd want :) "Da mihi castitatem et continentam, sed noli modo"
June 26, 200719 yr im sorry for you but cherish the remaining time you have with her and you wont feel as bad as you would
June 26, 200719 yr The worst kind of a death, is a prolonged death like that. My great uncle died of cancer, and it was disturbing and shocking and terrible seeing him slowly die..... Sorry about your Grandmother..... :( Quit Runescape 30th May 2006.Thanks to Hawkxs for my signature :)
June 26, 200719 yr It's a terrible feeling of thinking that you're helpless and that you can't do anything for them. But you can, try and cherish and enjoy the time you've have with her and celebrate the time you've already have. It can make a real difference. This is how much you all raised for charity. Thank you.
June 26, 200719 yr Im very sorry to hear about what you're going through. I know it's cliche to say but she will be in a better place. Alzheimer's is such a horrible disease you don't want her going through it any longer than she has to. The most important thing is just to spend as much time as you have with her.
June 27, 200719 yr I feel really sorry for you.. but make sure you pay lots of attention to her. my grandpa had colon cancer 3 times. the first 2 times he survived fine. the third time he made it through the surgery but he only had about an inch left of his colon. he had to have a medical bag attached to his abdomen where he would have to.. well excrete waste into. but he died shortly after the surgery my parents said he didnt want to live anymore because my sister and i didnt care about him anymore. we used to visit him all the time and read with him etc.. he taught me how to read and tie my shoes when i was really little. but as we got older and into our preteen years we didnt pay any attention to him anymore and he didnt want to live anymore. my mom saw him take his last breath november 11 2002. pay attention to your elders. it could make all the difference in the world Never take life too seriously, nobody gets out alive.
June 27, 200719 yr I've been through this.. My one grandfather had Alzheimer's for my entire life, and he died, and his wife also has it, and she's close as well. Cherish your time with her, and keep praying. Don't stop believing. The code in my sig should say 1032 not 0132.
June 27, 200719 yr What's with all these topics everywhere? Your name is "bet you fail", and you're starting a business with your mom? I'm not even going to touch that.....
June 27, 200719 yr What's with all these topics everywhere? Pitiful, really. This persons grandmother is dying and all your concern is the amount of "my loved one is dying" threads. Try to have a little bit of decency and express some condolence. I'm really sorry to hear that. Make sure to spend lots of time with her and let her know how much she means to you. Two roads diverged in a wood, and I-I took the one less traveled by,And that has made all the difference.
June 27, 200719 yr Author What's with all these topics everywhere? what's wrong with my topic? i just want some support cause i am really down because my grandmother has got alzheimer. edit: thanks for the support
June 27, 200719 yr My grandfather had Alzheimer's Disease. He had it for a very long time and it was very terrible. :( I'm very sorry about your grandmother though. :( It's sad. But it's something that happens. Just cherish the time you have left with her.
June 27, 200719 yr What's with all these topics everywhere? what's wrong with my topic? i just want some support cause i am really down because my grandmother has got alzheimer. edit: thanks for the support I think you should post it on the sticky.
June 27, 200719 yr I think you should post it on the sticky. I suggested that to Assassin I dont need a siggy no moar.
June 27, 200719 yr my grandmother is nearly dead Sorry, couldn't resist.. Sucks to hear that man, my condolences. 99 Slayer since August 2007.
June 27, 200719 yr Oh I feel bad when I read this. Hope she can live without pain even few months... life is cruel :(
June 27, 200719 yr my grandmother is nearly dead Sorry, couldn't resist.. Not nice, but you apoligised :| To be honest Jeroen, I hope your grandmother lives as long as possible, What's with all these topics everywhere? You could've atleast said sorry about your grandmother. My condolences. :boohoo: I hope you weren't being sarcastic... I've been through this.. My one grandfather had Alzheimer's for my entire life, and he died, and his wife also has it, and she's close as well. Cherish your time with her, and keep praying. Don't stop believing Although I am not christian, nor do I believe in God, I believe there is a stronger force in everyone's life. Pray to God, Bhudda, or whatever religinous* God you follow, NEVER stop believing, the sadder you are, the harder it will be to follow on after her passing. Toughen up. No offence. P.S. May I ask, how old is your grandmother? :ohnoes: I dont need a siggy no moar.
June 27, 200719 yr Hello my dear I'm so sorry to hear of your recent news about your grandmother. I just want you to know that you are not alone and if you ever need someone to talk to, I'll be more than happy to listen, as I'm sure other people on here would also be willing to lend you their ear through such a tough period. I know it's hard for you and it must not feel very good for you at the moment, I can only imagine what you're feeling and going through and I can't say that it would be very easy for you or your family. I feel that you are very brave and there is no shame in crying it shows that you must really love her and I admire your courage. It takes a very strong person to talk to others about their feelings and emotions and I really think you have what it takes to soldier through this. I know this may sound painful to you but perhaps you could ask her to leave you a sign so you know she has reached the 'other side' okay (if that's your thing) only one you and your grandma would know. I asked my grandad to leave me a sign and I got it. I'm not sure what I believe in but it did give me a huge feeling of inside peace. I knew my parents could hear me talking to him when I asked him to turn on the light switch in the kitchen at a certain time and knew they would flick it on at that time just to make me feel good. So I revisited him before I left and whispered to him to turn it off instead. That night as I came downstairs I saw my parents walk away from the light switch that was turned on and all of a sudden there was a power failure at the same time I asked him to tell me he was okay. My parents hugged me and told me I must be upset that I didn't get grandadÃÆââââ¬Å¡Ã¬Ã¢ââ¬Å¾Ã¢s sign... I smiled and said no... I saw you two listening so I told him to turn it off :) That's my little story anyway - I don't know what you believe in but I found a big sense of peace in my heart and who knows it may just help you. I believe in you and being as strong as you are I think you can help your family through these hard times as well. Everybody has a rock and I think if you can stay positive you can become the hope your family is searching for during these tough times. I believe you can be a huge inspiration for your grandma and your family. Smile because you know your grandma is proud of you! Best wishes Mel The only people who tell you that you can't do something are those who have already given up on their own dreams so feel the need to discourage yours.
June 27, 200719 yr My condolences, I hope you are able to get through this hard time. Try to spend all the time with her she has left, and make it as enjoyable as every other moment you've spend with her. I wish you the best of luck and I hope your grandmother has a great afterlife (no offense meant if you don't believe in an afterlife).
June 27, 200719 yr Author my grandmother is now 75 years old p.s. i don't got any luck at my grandmothers dog is gonna die today or tomorrow r.i.p. Pitou :cry: :cry: :cry: and btw mel you really touched me
June 27, 200719 yr Alzheimas is the disease that took away my grandmother on christmas day. I am really sorry to hear that your grandmother has 1-2 months to live, i gave the same advice to someone else about a week ago about the same sort of situation, keep strong :cry:
June 27, 200719 yr Aww, bless. You have my sincere condolences, Sweetheart. My advice to you would be to talk all you want to, grieve all you need to and strive to be the person your Grandmother wanted you to be. And as Mel correctly said, there's no shame in crying. The Poison Fairy
June 27, 200719 yr Your grandmother is in my prayers. Last.Fm My Bloggy Proud to have served on Tip.it Crew
June 28, 200719 yr My condolences to you and your family. And remember, in a way it is a good for her, because she is passing on and she will not longer have to suffer. And don't hide your emotions yet them out. Once again my condolences. I'd say something further but i wouldn't want to cause a religious debate by saying something religous.
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